my female friend needs advice bcoz of her situation. See, she has a boyfriend. Before, they were classmates, but now they aren't, so they don't spend much time together now. The girl feels that her boyfriend lacks affection that she needs & lacks time for her (since this guy is a studious type who'd prefer to study more than anything else!)..But the confusing part is this: the couple had a male friend (all three of them are friends)..Since the boyfriend couldn't provide the girls need, the girla lways turns to the male friend to share her problems w/o knowing that they'd already fallen 4 each other! Then the male friend admitted to the boyfriend that he likes her w/c ruined the 3's friendship &resulted to the couple's break-up..Now my friend's feeling so depressed, what should i advise her? pls judge who do you think is right? Even i myself was confused w/ their situation!
2007-08-02 03:57:14 · 3 answers · asked by 'd campus Hearthrob 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the girl was wrong because if she felt like her bf was lacking in the affection department then she should have discussed it with him first before going to the other guy. That is what happens when you let others into your business, it usually falls apart. When you are in a relationship, you are suppose to be able to come to one another with any problems you both may have. If there is some reason you can't do that then there is no reason to be with each other. Communication is so important in a relationship.
I think she liked the other guy anyway beause she confided in him more than she confided in her own bf. If that was the case, she should have told her bf how she felt about their friend and they should have broken up. This was eventually going to happen between all three of them. When you leave someone out of the loop of what is suppose to be a circle of friends, one person is going to get hurt and the friendship will undoubtedly be damaged. She needs to talk to both of them and clear the air because she is the main cause of this whole situation.
2007-08-02 04:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl was wrong. She should have discussed her problems with the boyfriend, not the male friend and not with you. She betrayed her boyfriend by taking their problems outside of the relationship. She knew the second she started feeling more than friendship for that other boy and she continued the relationship instead of doing the honorable thing. She is wrong and should be depressed because she knows she's wrong.
2007-08-02 04:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should decide who she really likes cuz its not worth being depressed over someone u dont hav feelings for
2007-08-02 04:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋