I feel really stupid about sending this text message to this girl I like a lot. I said "Hey, If you want to chill or if you get kicked out again and need a place to stay for the night, I have my dads house to myself tommorrow night! Just let me know. Bye" I was just trying to be nice, it wasn't meant to sound bad. I feel really bad about sending it now because I have a feeling she might take it bad. We did hang out last night and it was fun and we talked and laughed. We are good friends (we have been friends for about a year now) She knows I'm a nice guy, My intentions were good when I sent that text it wasn't meant to sound bad. I hate myself right now for sending it! If I screwed up should I just move on? I really like her, but I don't think she will ever like me more than a friend.
thanks
BTW she is 17 soon to be 18 years old, and I'm 19 years old.
2007-08-02 04:26:40 · 22 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
y would you delete her number if you say your friends be a friend.
2007-08-02 04:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by Blaqchinah Violation Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will understand, especially if you guys are friends already. It's not a big deal that she is almost 18 and you are 19. My boyfriend and I are 2 years apart. Any ways...she probably knows that you meant it to be nice and that you care about her. It sounds to me like you guys are flirting and having fun. The next step is when you guys are messing around, and lets say for the sake of the conversation that some how she end up with her face really close to yours, kiss her!! If she likes it she'll kiss you back and if not it might be awkward, but how do you know if you don't try?!? Go for it!!
2007-08-02 04:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by Lyndsay P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that the text wasn't meant to be rude and that you're offering her help. Thats all!
If you guys have been friends she should know that you wouldn't treat her badly. Calm down and talk to her.
In the future just think things through before you do them.
You guys will be fine!
2007-08-02 04:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by Lady T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK calm down instead of stressing why don't you call and say "hey I had a great time last night and lets do it again"
"How about tonight"
always read before you send dude your young she is young if you like her say so the worst she can do is say you my friend is that so bad
2007-08-02 04:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by Sharon's_future_husband 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beat yourself up over it. It sounds totally innocent. If she knows you as a nice person, then you should trust her not to judge you based on a stupid text. Oh, and btw. Screw the texting. Just call her.
2007-08-02 04:31:19 · answer #5 · answered by generasian2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If youve known her for a year and you are friends then dont worry about it. She should give your intentions the benefit of the doubt although to be honest you know you want to hit it if she says yes. So dont pretend she might "misunderstand your intentions" and stuff.
2007-08-02 04:30:45 · answer #6 · answered by timssterling 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow not good considering her age........just explain to her you cant even though you offered......you dont need no drama with her dad....but you can offer to help her find a place to stay if her parents do kick her out.....Apologized and make it up to her by helping her out and not being directly involved
2007-08-02 04:33:46 · answer #7 · answered by oklasoonersgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah sometimes when we say things..it may not sound bad to us but to the other person it will..and if i were her i would read more into it...but again if she knows what type of person you are then it wouldnt matter to her...she knows you have her back and thats all that matters..if she says something then apologize and let her know you didnt mean to come of as an azz...if she doesnt say anything to you say nothing and then let it go..
2007-08-02 04:33:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
swt... there is nothing bad to me.. i mean the text msg.. cool down man u r really overrescting.. stay for a night doesnt mean u have to have sex right??if she just take it as a normal sleep over then it's ok.. but i dont think she hate u.. just tell her u like her!! did she reply u?? maybe she is too bz...
2007-08-02 04:32:43 · answer #9 · answered by Madeleine Ong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe she might have taken it the wrong way it sounds like you were asking for a bootie call and that is probably the way she took it and now you should probably call her and tell her you are sorry . I wish you luck but it probably wont work out with her .
2007-08-02 04:30:44 · answer #10 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i wouldn't have taken that bad. sounds like you're just trying to be a friend.
send her a message and laugh it off and say, "LOL! i didn't realize how bad that message sounded til i reread it!! i hope you knew what i meant...just if you need somewhere to go...anyway...ttyl!"
then hit send.
2007-08-02 04:35:47 · answer #11 · answered by joey322 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋