Okay, so my ex-boyfriend and I had a sort of tumultuous relationship. We broke up because we both have depression and, let's face it, two miserable people together doesn't make anyone happy. Last time we talked (we were just friends then), we got in a big fight and he called me a selfish, mean *****.
Now, he comes back and says:
"im just going to come out and say it
i love you
everyone has told me not to tell u it. dont even consider loving her anymore. but its hard.
its hard when the person you love doesnt like u anymore.
its hard to stop loving someone when the person u love is the last thing u think about b4 you go to sleep.
its tough"
I still have leftover feelings for him, but I think it's just because I'm lonely.
I REALLY don't want to get back together with him.
What am I supposed to say?
2007-08-02 03:50:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you say..."stop calling".....
2007-08-02 03:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him, "I'm sorry I can't give you the answer you want to hear, I've moved on and I thought you had too. You have to remember why we broke up, it wasn't healthy for either of us and we were moving in separate directions with all the fighting. We NEEDED each other not loved each other and I want more, I'm sorry, I know that someday you'll find some one who'll give you everything that you need but I just not her."
Sounds like I've done that before? A few times. If he tries to go one to convince you just end it with, "There's nothing more to say......"
2007-08-02 04:07:48 · answer #2 · answered by Becky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say that you just don't feel the same way, then you should really just leave him alone and do not talk to him. Let him have his space and get over you.
2007-08-02 03:55:02 · answer #3 · answered by Answer Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "thank you for saying that....it's really sweet but I think it's best if our lives go in different directions".
Then, wish him the best and get on with your life.
Best of luck to you!
2007-08-02 03:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by hapetobme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when my ex tell me he loves me i usually ask him how much money he wants to borrow coz that usually why he says it
for u i think u and ur ex should talk bout this together
2007-08-02 03:53:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. It seems like every of my friends have this problem. Just tell him the truth..or give him another chance cuz in the end mostly he will get hurt again
2007-08-02 03:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is being manipulative;-{ trust your instincts.
He may genuinely think it's love;-} but it's fixation.
2007-08-02 03:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by Robert S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing if you dont love him dont say it.
If you dont miss him dont say it
Honesty is all you have especially now.
Tell him how you feel and if you dont know then say so.
2007-08-02 03:58:28 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you fell don't hide it good luck if you want you can email me barroom_babyblue@yahoo.com n we can talk some more hope to here from you
2007-08-02 03:56:33 · answer #9 · answered by barroom_babyblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to be a ***** but usauly when someone says il uv u , u usaully say " i luv u 2"
unless u really are a selfish *****!
*says sarcatsicly*
*stomps away*
2007-08-02 03:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by sparkle?steve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woww...the same person who said the words " i love you " also said " selfish.mean ***** " ...
if you don't like him anymore leave him..
and tell him..i don't like you anymore and i'm not ready to get hurt again by the same person who said " i love you" and the same person who called me " selfish ,mean ***** " ...
i'm over it
2007-08-02 03:57:36 · answer #11 · answered by Mrs.Leonardo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋