Singles & Dating - 2 August 2007

Regarding sex before marriage, what is your opinion? I chose to wait until marriage (not for religious reasons or anything, just a personal choice), but the thing is, I wonder if, at some point down the line in the marriage, I might start to get resentful of the fact that I never got any other experience, you know? I don't disapprove of sex before marriage by a looooong shot!! Lol, it was just a personal preference.
I guess what I'm trying to say is do you think it's a good idea? Is there anyone on here who did this?
Maybe just waiting to be in love again would be more appropriate? At the moment I stand by my decision, but I guess I'm asking for opinions, from personal experience or not. But only serious answers please. Thanks. =)

2007-08-02 13:22:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please tell me what you think:
Why do guys think that everytime you talk to somebody through IM that you are having an affair?

I understand that this can work vice versa, but this fits the situation.

2007-08-02 13:17:37 · 6 answers · asked by ♫Problem Child♫ 7

2007-08-02 13:07:38 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can a single person be self-content?

What defines loneliness?

What makes a single person lonely?

2007-08-02 13:05:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-02 13:04:34 · 4 answers · asked by lil_g_aka_nice 2

So I have been fooling around with this girl for the last few weeks and yesterday she told me something that just made my feel so dumb! She said "just because your done, doesn't mean I am" and I felt like the biggest loser. Everytime I finish I assume shes good to go too, now it just looks like I used her. Damn, any advice or comforting words?

2007-08-02 12:57:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my fiend likes agirl 4 years younger than him. he is 13 she is 9. I told him it was too much of an age difference at that age. What do you guys say

2007-08-02 12:56:00 · 7 answers · asked by 道森３ 1

Is it a good thing or a bad thing if when you are done having sex the guy tells you tham baby you worked me? Than the next morning he tells you that you are nasty for what you did last night I responded yeah but you liked it. So is it a good thing or bad thing???????

2007-08-02 12:55:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl I know was telling me she was upset because she was talking on the phone to her boyfriend of 8 months. Some how eyes came up and he didn't know the color of her eyes. Do you think she has a reason to be upset. I didn't know what to say because my long time ex of 8 years. Used to call me his brown eyed girl. He went out of his way to say how much he loved my brown eyes. He didn't like blue eyes. I know weird but he loved brown.

2007-08-02 12:52:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so ive been with this guy for four years! i love him very much, but i dont feel that i get the same love back. we recently broke up because to me he wasnt ready to be in a relationship... he was my priority and i was just an option to him! i gave him four years of my life i did everything for him! i cant say that we didnt have some good times because we did.... but for everygood time there was 5 bad ones... =( now that i broke up with him he wants to fix things and be right...... what should i do should i just give up on it? i mean he's said it all before! I'm Torn! Please help!

ReeN!

2007-08-02 12:52:47 · 9 answers · asked by ReeN! 1

Why do you think people cheat?

I think the internet has made it a lot easier for people to meet and cheat.

Your view?

2007-08-02 12:52:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-02 12:51:58 · 16 answers · asked by REGINA R 2

2007-08-02 12:51:47 · 12 answers · asked by G 2

2007-08-02 12:51:07 · 8 answers · asked by alaska282 1

What if you found out that your bf is gay and he going out with you what would you do what would you say to him and then you find him with a guy after he just said to you that he was gay should I stay with him or leave..

2007-08-02 12:49:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

to live with his parents?

2007-08-02 12:47:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently had sex with a guy, it was a one night stand and he was a virgin and i told him i was but i really wasn't, we went over to his place because no one was home, i obviously realized he hadn't lied, he was new to everything, and i thought i was too because this was about to be my second time(i only did it once and it was since january)so i thought i was going to freak out about everything, but it went smoothly. We did use protection, but i noticed something i was afraid to ask, he uhhh was having trouble, you know, staying hard. I'll admit, i enjoyed it and acidentally went crazy with him because it felt sooo good, but after i guess 30min into it, we stopped because it had gone down, and i continued to try to turn him on thinking it was me he wasn't happy with, but he kept getting hard and then soft again, so i ignored it and went on with it, and we lasted for way over an hour. (is that good by the way?) but with the same thing (hard then soft). Was it me or was it him?

2007-08-02 12:45:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is how the world sees is ( majority )

Guys asks girl out.
Guy buys girl dinner and pays for everything
Guy always gives her what he wants

And women just offer to be cuddly and have sex ?

Why has the world made it seem as if this is how it should be.

I hope none of you take it offensive of my question.

2007-08-02 12:44:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-02 12:43:42 · 11 answers · asked by alaska282 1

2007-08-02 12:38:00 · 14 answers · asked by monkeygirl2257 1

2007-08-02 12:33:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met someone else when I still was technically involved with another. It turned into a romantic relationship.
I fell in love with this her while i still had feelings for the 1st one.
I lied to both, lied to the 1st one - well that is obvious, I had to make time to see the 2nd, lied bout where I was at, being at work, going to the store, phone calls... Everything.
All the while telling the 2nd that I love her and that I am going to leave the 1st one, that there was no longer an intimate relationship there and that 2nd was was indeed my true love.
But when I got busted (3 times, yes I went back to the 2nd one twice) I never tell the 1st one I dont want to be with her, I turn my back on the 2nd one everytime. Even tho I cant leave her alone, think about her all the time. She has asked me to no longer contact her until the 1st one is TOTALLY out of the picture and that after a while she is going to write me off totally.
What do I do...What do you think of the situation?

2007-08-02 12:27:36 · 9 answers · asked by PDX 3

Ever since i saw movies like... white oleander and how to deal...i've wanted a boy just like paul, or whoevr the guy in that movie was...but you get the point i wanted a best friend guy like that, the retarded thing is i screwed that up without even noticing it...i mean he's been there this whole time, and i've never relized it at all, i just kinda wrote him off as stalkerish or really creepy...but he wasnt being at all he was just doing what no1s ever done for me...been intrested in who i really was, and wanted to hangout with me and find out about all my funny quirks n even when i was mean he kept coming back trying to ge into my crowd and be a fried n when i was sad n really down he was there to do sumting retarded just to cheer me up..n when everyone would leave n do there own thing he came to where ever i was no matter how bad i was at my new found sport to cheer me on, even when his friends laughed at me, till i blew it, one comment about us being good togetherfrom one of his friends freaked me out n yes i got up n made a stupid scene half joking like a shouldnt have n in front of all his friends i said thats the stupidest thing ive ever heard n was all eww no...n left him there with all his friend doing that retarded guy "oooooo burn " thing...n even thought he wont admitt it i know i hurt him...he went on being my friend for the last week of skate youth n now he makes no effort ever to talk to me even when i talk to him...i dont know what to do to get him back...n i misss him soooo much...

2007-08-02 12:26:04 · 5 answers · asked by shygirl27 1

My friend's girlfriend has been calling me nearly everyday to hang out at her place. She confides in me about her relationship with my friend and she talks about the problems they have. Then she says stuff like me and her get along really well and that we have the same mindset and that we could become best friends. (Best friends for godsakes?!!) Last night they got into a fight so today she spent the day with me just talking. I always try to get out of spending time with her but today she said she needed a lift. I didn't know about the fight. What's her deal. Am I betraying my friend by kinda being on her side?

2007-08-02 12:19:52 · 5 answers · asked by Adam Antium 4

hey i just entered a shelter for single women in queens and i feel so uncomortable.
it is 50 women in one big room that looks like a basketball court very large room.
evryone has to change in front of each other and the whole bit.
i am very shy woman and i am a person who dont evenlet my mom see me naked or in underwear.
the shelter is my only option i have no where else to go.
now the question is what would u do if it was you?

2007-08-02 12:08:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend Ryan, we've been really close as of late, he's been coming to me more than most of his friends about his problems (Since last year, when he helped with mine). We rarely hang out but when we do we can't stop laughing and if we watch movies or go swimming or outside, he'll find ways to sneak up on me and tickle me. He usually hates hugs, claims to be a kisser, but when I want a hug he'll give me one. Though one time he had said he'd teach me how to kiss, but I thought he was joking, thats how he is, always joking around. Anyways, I just wanna know if these are signs, of him liking me more than a friend. As a friend or like a sister? And if I can get some advice on how to act on it, would be great too.

he's 18 and I'm 17

I've also never been in a relationship, I don't trust most guys easily, so I'm not too sure on signs

2007-08-02 11:54:57 · 1 answers · asked by Redfox 2

Can you figure out this one honest opinions would be cool?
Can you figure out this one honest opinions would be cool?
my friend sarah and i had an argument, she saw my ex boyfriend out and they took a picture on her phone and planned to send it to me (but she never did) She knows i was hung up on him and apparently he (jon) had approached her out in a bar....she for some strange reason thought i was seeing jack her ex (I was not) and then they though it ould be funny to send a picture message of themselves to me..Why would she/he do this (they both have new partners)..is she a true friend for soing this (1 thinking i would even look at her x in that way 2 taking a picture) ....Should i drop her and why do you think he would do this???

2007-08-02 11:52:35 · 3 answers · asked by jamie m 1

guys wont be knowns as a man whore
but girls will be knwon for hoes whores sluts B*itches
and so on

2007-08-02 11:49:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-02 11:49:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well i really like this guy and im scared if we go out we wont be bestfriends anymore.Does it really work that way?

2007-08-02 11:48:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous