What if you found out that your bf is gay and he going out with you what would you do what would you say to him and then you find him with a guy after he just said to you that he was gay should I stay with him or leave..
2007-08-02 12:49:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Very hard call.The reason is simple.If you're a straight person you must leave the guy.If you're in the mood of something bizarre, you must keep the relationship going and get the best you can.In the end, you're the only one who knows about the whole matter with details and else.
2007-08-02 13:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would ever make you want to stay with a gay man? I mean if hes gay then you obviously have something that he doesnt want or need and so just go out and find you a straight man that will treat you right and then you wont have to worry about who your boyfriend has been with every second he isnt around you. Unless you dont care about yourself!
2007-08-02 19:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by TJade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That hardly seems like a choice you have to make. If he's gay, somehow, I doubt that he would want a girlfriend, maybe a boyfriend. Maybe he's just using you until he decides to come out. Tell him that there is no need for you to be together if he's gay, wish him well and let him go.
Good Luck
2007-08-02 19:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by 3rd LIFE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he told you he was gay so I think he pretty much broke up with you. You don't want to be with someone that isn't interested in you or the female species. I would probably be really pissed off that I never knew and then I seen him with another guy, but leave him please.
2007-08-02 19:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by lil_rebell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you need to leave. he could give you hiv very quickly. It's not even worth it girl. Just go out and have some fun just being you. Dont even worry about being lonely, love will eventually find you.
2007-08-02 20:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm. talk to him first. you are never sure if you never ask. just be like. hey i think we should talk. and ask him, you know, are you attracted to guys. if he says yes then, you should probably stop going out with him. Honestly, if someone is gay and doesn't like you, why bother going out with him. But it still doesnt mean that guys cant be friends. Of course you two can still be friends and figure a way out. but on this one, you gotta talk to him one-on-one.
2007-08-02 19:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by shhweet candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are these questions even being asked? Lets see here..... you are female.... he is male..... stay with me here......he is gay.......that means he likes other guys........that leaves you out of the sausagefest.........obviously you would break up with him and find someone who likes a dumb girl.
2007-08-02 19:53:52 · answer #7 · answered by Rick R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave. It is pointless. In case he's lieing, also notify everyone that you are leaving cause he is gay and you are straight. It just won't work.
2007-08-02 19:52:22 · answer #8 · answered by late4ever 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow, the same thing is happening to me right now and I have the same exact problem. This is a good question. I haven't even old him that I know yet.
2007-08-02 19:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by heartzablaze215 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes gay..y would u stay? but u can still be friends
2007-08-02 19:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by lalala 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋