2007-08-02 13:07:38 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, you tell him. Don't let whitey off the hook.
2007-08-02 13:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Is the issue that you're pregnant and don't want to be or is the issue that he's white and you are black? If you are still dating him, then I believe you should tell him. If not, then you need to make a decision and tell him if you decide to keep it.
2007-08-02 13:11:45 · answer #2 · answered by Lara S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you must be a very young girl to be asking this question and second thinking about telling this guy that you are pregnant. Race has nothing to do with this situation. You need to give this guy the respect he deserves and tell him that you are pregnant with his child.
2007-08-02 13:59:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell him. What does your race have to do with it. That's just one consequence of having sex with someone you hardly know. On the bright side, being pregnant isn't the end of the world, its the beginning. Everything in life happens for a reason.
2007-08-02 13:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by Boss Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously is this something you are even having trouble with!!!! Of course you tell him, and if race was such a big issue why didnt you use protection or better yet if race is such a big issue with you that you are considering not telling someone he has a child because he is white why are you sleeping with him??? My advice to you is don't sleep around with anyone you wouldn't see a future with.
2007-08-02 13:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by Shavon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-08-02 13:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by Strike2? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should defintally tell him so you guys can talk about what you are going to do to handle this situation. Dont keep him in the dark because once your stomache starts to grow there is no way of keeping it hidden. So better sooner rather than later.
2007-08-02 13:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to spend the rest of your life with this guy? Would he make a good father? Have you heard from him since you had sex? Do you think he used you? There is so much to consider here. Talk with a professional or an adult you trust. I don't think a stranger can help you with this decision.
2007-08-02 13:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whaaat!!??? wow, yea u should tell him. But if you all just had sex and that was it, he might try to say he dont think its his. But thats the risk you must take. Plus you took the risk of sleeping with him, and now ur pregnant. YES u need to tell him, so he can pay some child support if you all dont hook back up.
2007-08-02 13:13:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he has a right to know! And you do not know what a condom is for? Pregnancy now at a time that you are probably not ready for it. But yes, you have to let him know, and then go to family court to get child support.
2007-08-02 13:11:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should and its very important that you do it. don't make mistake that some women do and child grow up fatherless not knowing their dad. a father plays a very important role in a child's life that no one can substitute for ,so tell him and get it over with .
2007-08-02 13:24:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋