Please tell me what you think:
Why do guys think that everytime you talk to somebody through IM that you are having an affair?
I understand that this can work vice versa, but this fits the situation.
2007-08-02 13:17:37 · 6 answers · asked by ♫Problem Child♫ 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IM can be a great tool to stay in touch. If your BF is having a fit over you contacting someone else? Can you spell Control Freak? Maybe it's time for a new BF.
2007-08-03 09:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by Iggy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well most likey if it's a guy it's kinda obvious.
Make sure you talk to them like say....
Hey my friend (whatever the persons name is)
and i are hanging out, or we've been talkin....
we've known eachother for a while
but we are not having a relatinship.
We are just friends
if he is not ok with it you can just tell
your friend that your husband
(boyfriend) doesn't accept us
hanging out this much
make sure you ask the guy
(the person that your going out with)
if you can at least still b friends with
your friend and be able to talk to
eachother
every once in a while...
If he says no then either
(a) just listen and partially b
friends with the guy but don't
let him (your bf or husband) know.
OR
(b) don't listen to him just say
you know what just because we
are together doesn't mean you can
tell me what friends i can and can't have...
you don't control my life or anybodies, just
let me have my friends and u can have yours
be nice at first and if he gets on your nerves...
get meannever start out mean it will
turn him into a bad mood and it would
b very hard to calm him down...
hope this helps!!!
2007-08-02 21:38:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i only have e mail but i would never think like that, im happily hitched! but i realize some people are like that.
2007-08-02 20:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by Ol Uncle Dave 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are not very confident and have low self-esteem?
2007-08-02 20:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because its how I had mine.
2007-08-03 14:13:09 · answer #5 · answered by btceng64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe cuz they're insecure.
2007-08-02 20:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by pixiestix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋