Singles & Dating - 2 August 2007

I always have a hard time keeping the conversation going after I get through the name exchange, I go from "Hey, my names Chris.. What's yours?" ...kinda try to get a background of the person, where they are from. but after that im usually stuck with an *awkward silence* and about 10 thousand thoughts going through my head but nothing to say.

2007-08-02 19:42:22 · 10 answers · asked by Christophe 1

We had talked about an hour before and agreed to go to the gym, but when I called her home 3 times over 40 minutes, she didn't answer. I figured her plans had changed and she was ditching me for some good or lame reason. She has done that before. I didn't try her cell phone because she has ignored messages from me in the past, and I'm kind of tired of spending my whole evening pursuing her all over town and not getting to do what I want to do. So I left for the gym without her. Then she called and was upset and acused me of being passive aggressive. I apologize because I missread the situation, and I was sorry I hurt her feelings, but I felt like she has given me just cause to do what I did. I didn't intend to hurt her, but she feels I did want to hurt her. Who is right? Was I passive aggressive? I suppose I could just try to ignore my conditioned triggers, and call her home and cell phone, and give her a half hour, then go without her if I can't reach her. Would that work?

2007-08-02 19:41:11 · 12 answers · asked by Bill X 2

its not exactly double timing that he wants to do thoug....he fancies this girl but he loves me and all our friends and family members know that...some of his recent friends tell him that we should break up and is trying to influence him....i'm doing as much as i can to tolerate all this but i just cant anymore....i want my love with me......i cant share him with any otherperson.........never........how do i keep him under me now.....how....plz advise.......cuz i really need it.....

p.s.......we r soulmates n r to get married in 2 years....
i'll never be able to accept him if he ever goes to any girl....n he noz that......but he says that he wants me......i'm really confused about this matter........should i kill myself??????????

2007-08-02 19:40:34 · 5 answers · asked by faseehar 1

I met this guy, he is a guitar player in a band. We were smiling at each other throughout his whole concert, and the next day we were smiling at each other and winking etc. Well, I signed the bands guestbook online, and by the comments that I left, he figured out it was me, and emailed me right away. Now we have been emailing continuously for almost 3 months and have gotten to know each other quite well via email. He is married, and never mentiones his wife, anything the do together, or anything at all. They have no kids. I dont know if this is like cheating or not. We do flirt in our emails, but dont do like sex emails or anything. I dont know what to think because I am really getting to like him, and i'm going to see him in a few weeks and he wants to meet with me. What do you guys think???

2007-08-02 19:28:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-02 19:27:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay i'm gonna try to keep this short:
-this guy broke my heart when he broke up with me over a year ago
-I kept hope that we would get back together
-We both got into different relationships
-I didn't want him to know I had a new boyfriend, not because i had any wrong intentions, only cause i was afraid for some reason
-After months and months i finally put a pic of me and my boyfriend up on myspace and sent my ex a message saying hi
So my question is, does this on some level mean i've moved on since i don't care now if he knows about my boyfriend or is it some thing else?

2007-08-02 19:25:22 · 12 answers · asked by umbrella 3

How many of you that have been in a relationship for longer than five years have NEVER forgotten the birthday of your significant other or your anniversary.

I say everyone has forgotten at least once, but my friend disagrees. Just trying to get a feel for how many have been perfect in this regard.

Honest answers please.

2007-08-02 19:22:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is your relegion? What does it means? I know whats relegion means but i mean does she like me? how come she's asking me that allready?

2007-08-02 19:20:46 · 9 answers · asked by Jamsky 1

on what i should wear the first day...you know first impression is the main thing in high school...im a sophmore and would love if you kould give me good tips

2007-08-02 19:15:20 · 6 answers · asked by mexican_boody 1

i have like 10 bffs but, their is one that is like my bfff. she has this bf and she is totally in love with him. He is know around school for being 'perfect'; his grade, his looks, his sports, and his personality. At first when they started dating i was jealous but, i quickly got over it bc i saw how much he ment to her. A couple of hours ago he was over my house and it was just us. I tell him how happy I am that he and my friend, lets call her Jenn, are going out and how cute they are tougether but, then he tell me me that the only reason he asked he out was to get to know me becasue apparently im ' hotter, smater, and more popular' than her. I Then he tells me that he wants to go out with me, so i say no and start leading him towards the door and ont he way out he tell sme that he really likes me. I think that I like him but, idk what to do bc she is me bfff and what he did was wrong. what should i do?

2007-08-02 19:07:45 · 9 answers · asked by Kasey 1

2007-08-02 19:07:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-02 18:54:24 · 29 answers · asked by odangitsxkristal 1

I get this emotional peaceful warmth about him and I really enjoy his company. Sometimes, I even stay home all day and cancel plans to see if he'd come. At times, I wait for him to message me back and I wait every second pretty much [alot of the times]. I get disappointed when he has to leave home [we live two blocks away] and just.... idk. I guess he is on my mind. Sometimes I realize Im daydreaming about him. And in my mind the kiss will feel good. But when I think of reality, it isnt so good.... like bleh. The thing is, Im not so physically attracted to him. I dont want to go out and I have put myself in that position with him and I get like "=//// Blah." You know what I mean?
I just dont understand what Im going through.

2007-08-02 18:53:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

even tho i said i was sorry!
y would he continue being mean to me?
what should i do?

2007-08-02 18:51:11 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ 1

there are things i wish to be done in bed secretly but i am always too bashful to tell guys what i want. and also, do guys like it when a girl tells them what they really like or do guys like it when a girl stays shy about it? so should i stay shy about it OR tell the boys want i really want?

2007-08-02 18:48:55 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 19 and he is 20. However, he is not a virgin and I am. The problem is that I know that if I lost my virginity to him I would feel very sorrowful and guilty afterwards. Now, I am not condemning people who choose to have sex out of marriage, but I was brought up to believe that it is immoral to do something like that. Now, he has never pressured me to do anything sexual but I feel that if I don't eventually have sex then he is going to find it somewhere else because he is no longer a virgin. With that being said, the next thing that comes to mind is marrying him. That way, I won't be committing a sin, but the problem with that is that I am in college and i long to get my degree and establish a career beforehand. What should I do?

2007-08-02 18:45:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

so me and this guy i really like, and he knows it, are going to a movie, possibly alone, he asked me if i wanted to go and i said yes. he insisted on paying and does that mean anything? and i don't want him to spend money on me, should i let him pay, i don't know what to do, is this a date? or two friends going to the movies?? i'm freaking out about this, cuz it's taking place on saturday. anything i should do while the movies going on, just sit there, enjoy how he smells? what?!

2007-08-02 18:45:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

and please be honest.
What is it about me that I only seem to get with guys that are abusive and are not really very good to me? I consider myself fairly intellegent, I've been told I'm pretty, but yet somehow end up in relationships that are unhealthy. Please I would welcome any advice and once again... be honest!

2007-08-02 18:44:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really havent ever got the chance to like have a boyfriend or w/e and i've just never kissed anyone...and now i'm afraid to go out with anybody cuz i'll prolly suck at making out....

2007-08-02 18:44:04 · 22 answers · asked by happygolucky 1

wwell i broke up wit this guy and he was ballin wit money better than any one i eva dated win i broke up wit him we became friends but he said he loves me wut do i do??

2007-08-02 18:43:27 · 16 answers · asked by MOST_HATED AKA:ALYSSA 1

well i was mad for my ex telling me to get over it since i was crying on the phone with him because he wouldnt believe me when i said i didnt go to the movies cuz he said he saw me but it really wasnt me&i was sad cuz i thought he trusted me.....so he calls me two days later,andtells me i tht i really had to hve my friend tell him happy b day since i was still mad @ him but i was trying to be mature and hve her say hppy b day 4 me,and hes lke,"oh thts nce you hd ur friend say happy b day instead?"and i was still mad @ him & tld him how ifelt,but he just said im being a b****,so i try calling him nxt day to ask him sumthin & he just says no & says hes gotta go.so today i went to the park with two friends & a cute gut tht i kno who lkes me.....& i ended up givin him a peck on the lips.....i wnted to but i felt bad cuz if my ex found out he might nver tlk to me ,but he IS mean to me all the time to me & im tired of waiting 4 him even though i still really care about him!was that wrong??

2007-08-02 18:41:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do u do if your best friend likes your boyfriend?

2007-08-02 18:36:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

can you tell me how he acts
please be specific.


like i ran into him today.
and like he was so happy to see me.
and iiii told him i would call him(its 2007 not 1950)
and he was just like you looked so good today.
just giving me all these compliments like that.
and like he was like we should hang out some time
you should comeover and swim. ....
seems kinda suspicous to me.

2007-08-02 18:35:09 · 5 answers · asked by ... 2

what is ur favorite part of a girl that u like? honestly

2007-08-02 18:31:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-02 18:31:10 · 10 answers · asked by enitskilenmi 1

what to do when a girl is attracted to an adult who might be attracted to her...only 11 years apart.help

2007-08-02 18:30:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really have feelings for this guy. I ask him to do things but make it sound like it is for my son. He came to the stables to see my horses, flew a military helicopter over my house( for my son to see of course) and a lot of other things. Is he really doing it for my son or does he have feelings for me?

2007-08-02 18:27:31 · 9 answers · asked by Shannon M 1

why is it that the average, and lower than average guys (look wise) who complain and want someone go "ohhh why are women such bitches and dont date me" ...have they ever thought its because they are only aiming for people who are kinda out of their league? i realised in high school... average and lower than average girls get little attention... from any guy. period. ALL the guys are going for the hottest girls ever. basing it all on looks. and dont even look at themselves. i tend to like the more average lookin guys, i dont go for anythin to special.. i like personality, and uniqueness and originality, it keeps me goin more than a stupid *** typical hot guy....but guys they just want A TYPICAL HOT CHICK. dont say those are only the guys "lookin for sex" cause its not. guys all CARE about there girl bein hot, 4 there image ..so basically what happens is us not "hottest chicks ever" get no attention...and lots of guys dont get girls, cause theyre so damn picky..guys, have anythin to say?

2007-08-02 18:22:39 · 6 answers · asked by sacalovesme 1

she kicked him out and he's stolen her Computer.

He's at work and she wants to go get it.

how should she handle this legally within the night.

Austin Tx

If I'm found dead, he did it.

2007-08-02 18:17:59 · 1 answers · asked by Mercury 2010 7

2007-08-02 18:16:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous