Does this mean I've moved on?

Question

Okay i'm gonna try to keep this short:
-this guy broke my heart when he broke up with me over a year ago
-I kept hope that we would get back together
-We both got into different relationships
-I didn't want him to know I had a new boyfriend, not because i had any wrong intentions, only cause i was afraid for some reason
-After months and months i finally put a pic of me and my boyfriend up on myspace and sent my ex a message saying hi
So my question is, does this on some level mean i've moved on since i don't care now if he knows about my boyfriend or is it some thing else?

Answer 1

I think you have moved on and good for you. It takes a year to get over a broken heart. You need to build a year's worth of memories without that person in your life.

The fact that you can send your ex a message and not care if he knows about your boyfriend is another good sign. It shows that you no longer think of him as your partner, more someone who can be a friend.

My ex Husband broke my heart by leaving me for another woman. It first I could not speak to him, now we will swap the occasional e-mail. However as it is so innocent and with nothing to hide, I tell my new Husband about the mail.

Keep up the good work.

Answer 2

Memory just came back and you learned all good things in your past relationship. It is a wonderful feeling that outgrowth within yourself and keeps it in your heart where nobody knows, just don't delete it because the moment of truth already part of you. You are moving on unless you let your love decides however your mind will help you to reason it.

Answer 3

I would say yes, except that you sent your ex a message. Why does it matter if he knows or not? Sounds like you might be trying to make him jealous. Don't use another person's feelings to make someone jealous. It is not only wrong, but it will be emotionally painful to the person that you are using. Very very unfair to your new bf.

Answer 4

doesnt sound like youve moved on really. your afraid that your ex would find out you had a boyfriend. and now your trying to contact your ex. which would probably cause him to try and get back with you and then youd break your current boyfriends heard then your heard will be broken again by the same guy. on some level you moved on alittle

Answer 5

the fact that you asked this question and the fact that you still Care what your ex thinks.. means you Haven't moved on yet. It's more like.. "I'm hurt.. and i want you to want me back by getting jealous and seeing this picture... because you didn't come back to me right away, so now this is all i can think to do..."
sorry but it's just the truth. you just need to move on.
the fact that you sent a message saying hi to your ex right after you put that picture up especially shows that you wanted to make that statement and fact that he Saw it clear.....

Answer 6

Why would you put a pic of you and your bf up then message your ex? You wanted to make sure he saw that pic, that's why. I think you still want him back and are trying little tactics to see if he still has feelings for you.

Your ex may have saw it that way ^ too.

Answer 7

Why would you send your ex a message? Sounds like you are the one trying to hang on. You need to leave your ex alone if you care about your current BF.

Answer 8

I don't think u r over the relationship completely, but u r progressing slowly but surely so don't stop keep it moving!!!!

Answer 9

I think you're quite far from moving on. You'rea sking us if you moved on? as if you need assurance? You sound like you still like him

Answer 10

i don't really know
just ask yourself what u would do if he asked u to get back together with him and if u would say yes then u aren't over him yet