its not exactly double timing that he wants to do thoug....he fancies this girl but he loves me and all our friends and family members know that...some of his recent friends tell him that we should break up and is trying to influence him....i'm doing as much as i can to tolerate all this but i just cant anymore....i want my love with me......i cant share him with any otherperson.........never........how do i keep him under me now.....how....plz advise.......cuz i really need it.....
p.s.......we r soulmates n r to get married in 2 years....
i'll never be able to accept him if he ever goes to any girl....n he noz that......but he says that he wants me......i'm really confused about this matter........should i kill myself??????????
2007-08-02 19:40:34 · 5 answers · asked by faseehar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No killing.
Dumping his sorry butt is acceptable however. He's asking your permission to cheat, so he's a dog. He knows you don't want to share him, but he's still asking. So he either is looking for a break up excuse, or he thinks he's got you so wrapped around his finger he can do anything he wants.
You're better than this and don't deserve it. So dump him and move on with your life. Find a man that isn't going to treat you like this and be happy.
And remember, no killing. I expect you to keep me informed.
2007-08-02 19:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of, there are no good reasons to kill yourself. Second if the guy doesn't love you enough to stay it's simply because he doesn't love you, probably making sure that if it doesn't with that other person he can always come back to you. If it's the case you'd be crushes (backup woman). I personally never cheated on my gf or exes even when I didn't love them or even when we were fuckfriends, it's a matter of respecting the other person. Even just suggesting it is not a good sign of love, most likely the opposite. Take a look at the words dependency and co-dependency and I'm sure you'll find yourself in there.
2007-08-03 02:54:55 · answer #2 · answered by Grifter Cash 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No killing yourself is not the answer to any problem. He sounds like a complete idiot. If he really loved you he wouldn't let his friends influence him to cheat on you or break up with you. If he is telling you he wants to double time you than he is not serious about the relationship. Never think about killing yourself over a relationship that want wrong. No one should come before you. You should love yourself more than anyone expecially some loser who is not worth your time, believe me i knew many in the past. Be ur own person, forget about him, tell him i deserve better, its over i want to be with someone who cares about me who is honest with me and who puts me before his lame friends. After u break up with him he is going to call u maybe a week from now a month or even a year telling u he change hang up the phone and avoid him at all cost.
2007-08-03 03:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him not to "double time" you and if he doesnt listen to what u say he cant b a very good boyfriend so u should dump him... and also dont kill urself. how can u even think that dont u wanna live and see the world and in a couple of years u probably wont even remember this moment even though it seems like a big deal now so ne way dont kill ur self!
2007-08-03 02:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by fxdvbkjbhyr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand. Has he told you that he wants to go with this girl? Just because his friends tell him to leave you doesn't mean that he will. I didn't and still haven't left my girlfriend after everyone one of my friends but one told me to or tried to break us up.
There is no need to kill yourself. When I lost someone that I thought I loved, I tried to slit my throat. And while it didn't work and I basically bled, with no effect on me dieing. I still wish I hadn't tried that.
He said that he loves, you. He hasn't done anything, so there is no problem.
2007-08-03 02:49:40 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋