what do u do if your best friend likes your boyfriend?
2007-08-02 18:36:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, make sure he doesn't like her back. I've been through this and it didn't end pretty because my boyfriend liked my friend.
2007-08-02 18:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by KG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask questions, let her know that what she is doing is wrong and that it makes you uncomfortable. Make sure you really know that she likes him in the way if think you are describing. If she can't respect your request to back off then obviously you don't need her as a friend. If the boyfriend likes the fact that she is interested in her then maybe you need to find a new best friend and boyfriend. Men come a dime a dozen. Friends are a lifetime. What kind of friend is she truley?
2007-08-02 18:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by amithidius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMFG...
I dont see how that is a big deal...
as long as nothing is happening between the two, its most likely not a problem
plus.. if I was your best friend i would be very sad that you would think about DE-Friending me.. because of what i felt like, and i wasn't acting on my urges...
and.. if you trust both of them, or at least one of them you should give them that chance...
i dont think anything will happen..
and then if something does, it shows that you shouldn't be friends with her, and you shouldn't be galfriend to the guy..
fun fun, gooodluck
2007-08-02 18:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by Kassidee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's really not much you CAN do except be sure to let your friend know he's with you and you're not sharing. :)
Also, if you truly trust your boyfriend, you shouldn't have to worry about anything ever happening between them. If you don't completely trust him, then you should probably find someone whom you can trust.
2007-08-02 18:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust both them. If you don't simply find a new boyfriend or best friend. After talking to both of them seperatley!
2007-08-02 18:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by Nessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW well if ur boyfriend is like flirting wit her 2, then just let him go. any guy that goes behind ur back with ur FRIEND is no gud. if it's just her, set her aside and talk to her or try to keep the 2 apart.
2007-08-02 18:39:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. stop calling her your friend... best friend at that.
2. how do you know this??
3. ask him how he feels about it.
remember.. a guy never comes between a friend. some people get this confused and give up their boyf for their bestf. wrong. she already gave up your friendship by liking your man! she should have kept that to herself! or at least told you before you started dating him!
2007-08-02 18:40:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, Morgan, but neither of them are friends. Find new ones. Life on this earth is too short to spend it being sad and lonely. Forget about them. Find someone who appreciates you.
Peace be with you,
Annamaria
2007-08-02 18:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by Annamaria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U tell her to get the **** over him! I dont think she is much of a friend if she likes ur b/f....maybe she just thinks he's hott but wouldn't ever do nething with him. U better have a little chat with her bout it.
2007-08-02 18:39:26 · answer #9 · answered by Abby Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she likes him and does nothing about it, as if to like him from afar, then you do nothing. She is a good friend to you.
If she likes him a trys to 'get with' him the drop her fast as a friend, she has no respect for you or him or herself.
2007-08-02 18:39:03 · answer #10 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋