and please be honest.
What is it about me that I only seem to get with guys that are abusive and are not really very good to me? I consider myself fairly intellegent, I've been told I'm pretty, but yet somehow end up in relationships that are unhealthy. Please I would welcome any advice and once again... be honest!
2007-08-02 18:44:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you just keep going for the wrong type of a guy
2007-08-02 18:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I've heard that when people get with somebody like that, they tend to keep going with someone like that, I've seen it happen to my brother, weather that's the case for everyone I'm not sure. I would just say, don't take any of there SH!T... but if your pretty, and intelligent, then I'm sure you have no problem finding someone good, but it could be the ones that are attracted to you, are the A$$holes so to speak... Good luck... Never change or bow down to any man, stand tall and strong ;)
2007-08-03 01:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by Matt 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok, u aint alone. guys get into these kinds of things all the time. guys (and girls) know what to look for in their 'victims'. they know who can be easily pushed over, bent, and bossed before they even get into the relationship. i really dont think you would know any better because your used to that sort of ****. which sucks, i know. but if u think ur low, that ur gonna do w/e the guy tells you, then that's how it's gonna play out for you. u gotta look the jerk/***** in the eye and stand up for urself. u gotta know how u should be treated, and more respectable guys will find u.
2007-08-03 02:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by poor_mans_hero 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You like a dominant man, but maybe not into guys that are just as nice or not as strong as you.
2007-08-03 01:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by PixieStix 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you reached out to them because a 'nice' guy doesn't challenge you enough?
2007-08-03 02:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by Iron What? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i couldnt resist
we are in the same exact boat.
i think it has to do with past.
or what you saw when you grew up.
like who ure parents are or if they divorced who they dated
2007-08-03 01:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by ... 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
where r u meeting these guys? bars? that could be part of it...
Expect a guy to respect u...meaning....have self confidence and u will attract different men.
2007-08-03 01:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by pure1simply 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋