so long story short, i'm looking for opinions as to what really happend. My sisters bf says he went over to a girls house who is known for getting around. He said they talked about this and that and that it was on a monday and they didn't have sex.
Now, when i talk to the tramp she says they talked about different things, it was a thrusday night, and they didn't have sex.
What i'm getting at is that there were two different nights of him going over there and they just are talking about different times.
The weirdest part of it all is that the tramp said my sisters bf just showed up at her appartment... when he doesn't even know where she lives... not to mention theres like 4 complexes and like 20 appartments to each one...
what are your thoughts?
2007-08-02 04:04:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he's cheating but dont go to your sister until you have some more evidence. What will happen is you tell her he'll deny it and she'll have to choose between you two on who to believe. And what if she doesn't believe you? This jerk could put a wedge between you guys and he's SOO NOT worth it. Be careful.
2007-08-02 04:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a third party, you should probably not be too nosy. Yes, it's your sister and you have every right to be concerned. However, if there happens to be a misunderstanding, you will be the one who will hurt your sister the most.
Get the facts right, and til then, your sister doesn't need to know. If it turns out that he WAS cheating on your sister, well it's a different story altogether. Post another question and we'll answer it. (:
2007-08-02 04:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. He had to have known where she lived or he wouldn't have shown up there.
2. Even if nothing happened, why is he putting himself in a questionable situation when he is with your sister? It seems there are problems in the relationship already that need to be dealt with.
3. It's your sister's relationship and really none of your business. She needs to handle her own problems.
2007-08-02 04:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your sister the facts and let her decide on what to do.
She knows her boy friend better than you and give the facts is the only safe way for you to get involved.
If you don't tell her she will be mad you didn't tell her if it turns out he was cheating on her if you do tell her and its nothing she maybe mad but at least you know she had the best intentions for telling her.
It's a finely line you're walking so only speak the facts you know.
Hope that helps
2007-08-02 04:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by Nitro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont understand.. if hes ur sisters bf WHY THE HELL is he going to some random chicks apartment.. sex or no sex.. he shouldnt be there because he is IN A RELATIONSHIP with someone already and he needs to respect that.
ok u can ask the girl.. straight up if she slept with him.. and see what she says..
does she know that he is ur sisters bf? if she doesnt know.. just tell her that u know he has a gf (but dont tell her its ur sis) and then tell her u want his gf to see how hes cheating on her.. so ask her to invite him over... n then show up there with ur sister.. but for this u gotta plan it out with the girl.. she'll probably go along with it.. cuz if shes like a "Tramp" or whatever.. then she must like drama.. n she'll be in it for that.. so yea.. its better then telling ur sis about it.. n making more WHAT IF.. guesses n stuff... its better to be sure.. n let ur sis see it with her own eyes.. cuz then itll just drag n she'll be playin guessin games
or yea. u can just tell u
2007-08-02 04:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can u show up to sumones house u dont know where they live? and it could b true that they didnt have sex.....but if shes the tramp you say she is then u answered your own question
2007-08-02 04:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by switchmistress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sisters problem
2007-08-02 04:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL her you think that and if she doesn't believe you tell her look out i didn't want to see you get hurt.
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2007-08-02 04:11:40 · answer #8 · answered by lauren s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He banged the tramp...
2007-08-02 04:08:44 · answer #9 · answered by Tina W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's cheating... tell your sister regardless if you're sure or not.
2007-08-02 04:08:51 · answer #10 · answered by Buttafli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋