Singles & Dating - 22 July 2007

My partner and I live together in my rental house, I have a 5 year old daughter. We moved in together almost immediately after beginning our relationship as he had to move interstate to be with me. He has now bought a house here and is moving into it in a few weeks. I am conflicted as to whether I should find a new flat mate and stay here, or move with him. Reasons being, he is dreadfully insecure as a result of being cheated on by previous partners, he doesnt trust me and can be controlling at times. This has already caused a rift between my friends and family. He is horrible and accusive when he drinks, so has now stopped drinking. He has gone onto zyprexa to quit smoking and is trying hard to change his trust issues. My mum tells me to get, while the gettings good, but i cant help wondering whether she is overreacting due to the DV situation i was in with my babies dad. I want to make our relationship work, just not sure whether a step backward or a step forward is the best choice.

2007-07-22 17:08:47 · 4 answers · asked by Vicarious 4

I was having a talk with a guy I was going out with for about a week. We were just hugging a little before leaving each other for the day. Out of nowhere, he asked me 'Do you see Mike often?. Mike (false name!) is a great friend of mine and a guy that he knows also. I told him that it depended.. sometimes more often, sometimes less. Anyway, I'd talk about him before saying that he is a nice guy and all (and he is). All of a sudden, he tells me.. 'Well, he would make you a nice boyfriend, you should go out with him'..
I asked him why the h** he was saying that and he responded 'I don't know...' a little embarrassed with a shy smile.

2007-07-22 17:08:23 · 2 answers · asked by Azucar 1

I'm 18 and my girlfriend is 17. I am a virgin and i told her so when she asked. Then she quickly said is also a virgin. I thought that she wasn't because she was in a relationship for a year and a half and her ex would brag about having sex with her, but i have my doubts about him because he seems like the kind of guy who would lie abot that to look cool. But then today someone who knows my girlfriend but is not good friends with her but used to be good friends with my girlfriend's ex said she was pretty sure my girlfriend was not a virgin.

Now, i trust her because she has never lied to me about anything but there is a seed of doubt. How do i bring this up with her to ease my mind?

2007-07-22 17:04:14 · 25 answers · asked by Tristan R 1

2007-07-22 17:00:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

im leaving in about a month and me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months now and i dont know if we should break up or stay together and have a long distance relationship.

2007-07-22 16:59:03 · 8 answers · asked by yo mama 1

long story short, i am in an unconvential relationship (no titles)with someone i love. i think i want to leave, i have, but i come back caue of all the emotional attachment. generally speaking hes an amazing guy, and i feel lucky to have him, but how do you know when a person is "the one" i mean i find myself planning my life with him in it, and we talk at length about kids. sometimes i feeled overwhelmed and stupid, other times i feel great.

2007-07-22 16:56:17 · 8 answers · asked by sunshine 1

Ok,

I have this co-worker. He is 8 years older than me. I wasn't attracted to him AT ALL at first, but after the first few months, I think about him more and more every day. We started out joking, flirting with each other, sending little memos to each other about how sexy the other was. It progressed to phone calls, and sexy pictures being exchanged. We've even kissed each other, but in the back of my mind I am wondering if this divorced man is just out for some tail. I have been burned in the past. I have been in relationships that were just for sex. I am really starting to care deeply for him even though its only been a few weeks since we started flirting. He emails me and tells me he likes me a lot and finds me to be sexy, but sometimes he also seems like he would rather be doing something else then talk to me, but this only happens when he's doing his own thing at his house. He doesn't outright tell me that. Am I overthinking this? Does it seem he really does like me?

2007-07-22 16:50:51 · 2 answers · asked by hollyjerricho 1

okay... so 2 of my guy friends are really starting to weird me out. idk what to do.. help would be wonderful...

taylor- funny, smart, sweet, caring. he is perfect in almost every way. everyone says i am too pretty for him, too good for him. but its not true!! we used to be really good friends but then something happened... ? and won't hardly talk to me anymore. idk why though! one of our mutual friends keeps watch and says he checks me out a lot and looks at me a ton with a 'stupid smile' on his face. i don't want to make the first move though because he goes to my small church and it would be awkward.

george- he showed all these signs that he liked me last year (walked me through halls, asked for my #,etc) and even called me & talked for about 30 minutes. but in that time he let slip he had a girlfriend, but wouldn't tell me anything else after that. then he had to go,promising we'd hang out. he hasn't called me since. i know we are friends, though

2007-07-22 16:50:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I cheated on my boyfriend when i was a crazy teenager and i also had a crazy night with a married man. Will karma get back at me??? will i have to pay for what i did??? what if right now im good??

2007-07-22 16:46:58 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

With out sexual intentions. This happened to me in school, my guy friends knew that I was married, but they still kept their friendships with me. However my husband don't like guys aproach me since he told me all they want is sex.
I want to prove my husband wrong by posting this question on Yahoo

2007-07-22 16:44:59 · 14 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5

I said a month ago that "if we didn't go to WeFest together then I wouldn't go alone" I said that believing that he was going with me. and now he isn't going and doesn't want me to go. In fact he'll break up with me if i do go, because I will be breaking a commitment to him. Well I'm working at WeFest and got hired on last year. I worked there last year also. I've went for the past 6 years. I was hired for this year before I met my fiance. Is he making to big of a deal from it? If I go would i really be breaking a commitment to him? Should I go or should I stay? Guys, do you think he'll really leave or is he just bluffing? he still says that he loves me and feels the same about me now as when he asked me to marry him. Why would he leave me?

I would like some help and opinions from both the girls and the guys.
Should I go or not?
Is it really that big of a deal?
Will I be breaking a commitment?

2007-07-22 16:43:08 · 7 answers · asked by singlemom 2

I'm a guy, I like to watch porn. But afterwards I feel bad/guilty. Should I? The girls in porn are so perfect they aren't even real. Nobody looks like that. & if they do, I have no chance to ever get with them. Anyone ever think about this? Is porn bad?

2007-07-22 16:38:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been friends with this girl for a long time, she knows how I feel but doesn't want to ruin the friendship.

2007-07-22 16:34:04 · 8 answers · asked by Lee 1

not trying to be slutty or anything
but how can i make you say wow she's hot or she's beautiful
without being naked of course haha

2007-07-22 16:26:43 · 22 answers · asked by jess 2

I have a mid toned not bad hickish accent.. can you change this and what do girls like foreign accents, deep toned or what?

2007-07-22 16:26:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-22 16:21:42 · 14 answers · asked by piggy 2

I really need to know soon

2007-07-22 16:19:50 · 2 answers · asked by 2bit 7

I'm so attracted to this one guy I work with who is already involved. He has incredible features, dresses well and I love the way he talks. He is incredibly handsome. How do I stop being attracted to him? He knows I like him and tried to confront me one it. It was so embarassing for me but funny for him. It didn't stop me from liking him, though. I find it extremely difficult to like anybody else.

2007-07-22 16:17:28 · 17 answers · asked by Eva Selena 2

I would like an honest answer from all of you, please.

Let's just say you are single man (or woman) and there is a single young nurse in her early 20s....

So the questions are:

Would you be more interested in her because she is a nurse?

If you are, please write down your age, sex, and your profession. I just want to see what age and professions are attracted to a nurse or not.

If being a nurse doens't matter to you, please also write down your sex, age and your profession.

Thank you!! :-)

2007-07-22 16:16:36 · 5 answers · asked by summer 2

Looking at my avatar do you think I can get a boyfriend because i haven't a boyfriend in a really long time?

2007-07-22 16:11:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

just wondering

thanks!

2007-07-22 15:56:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

about finances or our 6 yr old stalemated relationship? I have brought a lot more to the table financially and am not afraid to share if he would do his share, both communicativly and finacially. The house is mine(was before I met him, He was a "fling" that never left. I need to know where this is going or am i wsting my efforts?

2007-07-22 15:56:10 · 5 answers · asked by jilliebean 5

im 14 nd so is mi boyfriend we have been on nd off for a year nd hes friends r sayin tht we needa hav sex but i dont want to bcuz i wana wait until im married wat do i do?
do i break up wait him?
or do i stay wit him nd hav sex even though i dont want to?

2007-07-22 15:48:06 · 22 answers · asked by BEBA 1

I'm not a shy kind of person, I just, I don't know.
But i think its the reason I havent had a boyfriend in a while

Help?

2007-07-22 15:45:02 · 8 answers · asked by mhunny79 1

2007-07-22 15:43:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

would you trust the person
or would you try harder to figure them out?

2007-07-22 15:40:51 · 4 answers · asked by . 3

I have a date on Tuesday with my friends cousin whom i've never met before. Anyways , we've been talking a lot and seem to get along great.I only have problem, I'm wouldn't consider myself very fat , but I tend to be self concious with my size.( I wear an 8 or 10) Its a problem i've always had and something I'm trying to work on. Anyways back to my question , I feel like I need to warn him or something that i'm not super stick thin, he's seen lots of pictures of my face and only 1 or 2 of my body, which you cant see much in anways. Should I not say anything and see how it goes, or should I let him know in advance so hes not expecting something different? I know I'll probably get some negative answers about my weight, but thats the price you pay for using the internet. But thanks in advance for your advice!

2007-07-22 15:39:41 · 20 answers · asked by Stacy C 1

2007-07-22 15:33:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-22 15:28:48 · 13 answers · asked by eastwick 1

I really, really like this man and I know the feeling is mutual. I haven't spoken to him since about noon yesterday. He called to make sure I made it home okay. On our last date, Friday, he cooked dinner for me (no other guy had ever done that for me) and we watched movies at his home. I just want to tell how much I enjoy being with him. Do you think it's okay for me to send him an e-greeting telling him how much I enjoy his company or should I wait a little longer. I've been seeing this man for about 3 weeks now. It's about once a week that I see him.

2007-07-22 15:27:42 · 10 answers · asked by Ana D 3