I'm not a shy kind of person, I just, I don't know.
But i think its the reason I havent had a boyfriend in a while
Help?
2007-07-22 15:45:02 · 8 answers · asked by mhunny79 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its hard to give real advice with such little info so ill toss down some ground info. A good thing to know when talking to a boy that you think is cute is more than likely he thinks you are cute also, when you speak to him and or when he speaks to you his mind is racing about what to say. He is scared out of his mind about talking to you because you are attractive, trust me he would rather talk to the president of the united states than talk to you face to face. If the first words are the hardest for you thats a easy solver, all guys like to talk about things they know allot about so find out what he does and bring it up. Ask tons of questions and it will start a conversation. Now if its just general guys like once you know them the info above will help just stay cool and calm and make sure you giggle that helps guys more than you think. Good Luck!
2007-07-22 15:50:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Social skills are like anything else: they take practice. Just give it a shot. The more you practice, the more confidence you will gain. Just speak to a guy like it's no big deal, just two cool people making small talk. If it turns into something more, great! If not, maybe you'll at least gain a friend, or at very least some practice with your social skills.
2007-07-22 15:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way, but I have a boyfriend...I'm still shy, I've been told that I'll grow out of it the more comfortable I get with a guy...like some of my guy friends I can talk to about almost anything! but that's because we're close
2007-07-22 15:49:02 · answer #3 · answered by lady_buss_54 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel.I have a hard time talking to gals especially if I don't know them.But it's all in the mind.Choose the one you want to approach and just say hello.Main thing is to have self confidence in yourself that you can do it and you will overcome it..Wish you all the best in that.
2007-07-22 16:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by The good guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about it. Just talk to them like they are a person.
2007-07-22 15:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so uptight around boys. Be yourself. Have fun talking to them and be yourself..it'll work out for you soon!
2007-07-22 15:54:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend they are a girl and talk like you would if he was just a friend. good luck..
2007-07-22 15:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by TheLuckyOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well give me your number and I will talk to you.
2007-07-22 15:51:22 · answer #8 · answered by Andrew Milano 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋