I was having a talk with a guy I was going out with for about a week. We were just hugging a little before leaving each other for the day. Out of nowhere, he asked me 'Do you see Mike often?. Mike (false name!) is a great friend of mine and a guy that he knows also. I told him that it depended.. sometimes more often, sometimes less. Anyway, I'd talk about him before saying that he is a nice guy and all (and he is). All of a sudden, he tells me.. 'Well, he would make you a nice boyfriend, you should go out with him'..
I asked him why the h** he was saying that and he responded 'I don't know...' a little embarrassed with a shy smile.
2007-07-22 17:08:23 · 2 answers · asked by Azucar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means you're not doing it for him and he's giving you your freedom back. He was just suggesting someone that you said was nice. what's wrong with that?
2007-07-22 17:12:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is confused, either he really likes you and does not want to be vulnerable (not good), or he is not into you but is to cowardly to tell you (not good). Either way, I would question the relationship with him, no one likes ambiguous comments like that, they lead to confusion... If that were me, I would ask him the next time I see him, if he would rather we not dated... and I would ask for an honest answer. If he could not be honest and straightforward, I would dump him and move on.
Also, it is a possibility he said that, because you speak highly of your friend.. and he is jealous. I would get to the bottom of this and quick before time is wasted.
2007-07-23 00:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by EM-water2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋