I'm so attracted to this one guy I work with who is already involved. He has incredible features, dresses well and I love the way he talks. He is incredibly handsome. How do I stop being attracted to him? He knows I like him and tried to confront me one it. It was so embarassing for me but funny for him. It didn't stop me from liking him, though. I find it extremely difficult to like anybody else.
2007-07-22 16:17:28 · 17 answers · asked by Eva Selena 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i guess he thought it was funny bc he is much older than me but I dont really know why.
2007-07-22 16:59:50 · update #1
You have a crush on him...your feelings are not being returned so it is a crush.
You need to step back and see it for what it is. You also need to stop flirting with him. He has wife or a girlfriend and you need to respect that.
If you had a great boyfriend would you want someone else flirting with him?
Get out there and find someone who isn't attached and move on...please. This isn't healthy for you or your working environment.
2007-07-30 12:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by mareer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always easy to idealize the guy we are not really dating. So nice we get to make up fantasy of what he is like to have as bf-he is always better in daydream than if we were chance in real life.
Sincehe is older it sounds like he is not interested but enjoys the ego boost. Who cannot like getting complimentary looks, smiles, etc from someone.
When daydreaming about him write down all his traits you like and find so attractive then go out and find an available guy that shares those same traits. Then you will like someone else and forget all about him.
2007-07-30 04:40:25 · answer #2 · answered by Woman in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you say that he was already involved with someone?! What exactly do you want from him? Hot sex or maybe a relationship? Either way it probably isn't a good idea to pursue him just yet. It's ok to be attracted to him but it would probably be best to leave it at that.
2007-07-22 16:25:38 · answer #3 · answered by confuzed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are attracted to him just because he is involved. If he was free, you would play hard to get. BTW Are you attractive too? If not, think about the competition. You may be trying to play in the major league when you don't have the skill and are not major league product.
2007-07-22 16:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by The brain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you aren't gay or bi, many guys out there in their teens have been attracted to other men. Don't worry about it, it's nothing to be alarmed about.
2016-04-01 08:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life would be so much easier if we were built with on and off switches,you cant turn your feelings off. You could always look at his bad features and definantly start going out even if its with friends. Forget him!
2007-07-30 14:47:51 · answer #6 · answered by Shell E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what u wanna do is try ur best not to talk to him any more.. he will never be urs cuz he have a gf... u need to find another guy love. so u can be happy... try to just see him as a friend thats it.. i dont know hehe...
well if u need more advice write me to my email gilarma@gmail.com
2007-07-22 17:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear lovestruck
i can tellyouthis he sounds like he is just playing a game with you because he knows he can just goon with your life especially if he has someone else he is not worth the trouble
2007-07-22 16:23:20 · answer #8 · answered by littlebit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
occupy your time better at work. pay him no mind ..he start to be ugly in a matter of hours .you'll then ask yourself ..WHY? OR get you some..from someone else ..not him.
2007-07-30 08:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by Jackofalltrades216 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find other places to find men to date
2007-07-30 06:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋