about finances or our 6 yr old stalemated relationship? I have brought a lot more to the table financially and am not afraid to share if he would do his share, both communicativly and finacially. The house is mine(was before I met him, He was a "fling" that never left. I need to know where this is going or am i wsting my efforts?
2007-07-22 15:56:10 · 5 answers · asked by jilliebean 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ps, he is usually strapped for funds but helps tremendously around the house. i know i cant have it all and im not greedym but ive helped him all i can and i want an answer....
2007-07-22 16:20:03 · update #1
If this has been going on for 6 years, your in big trouble if you continue this. And I hope that if your not married that you don't marry this guy. If in 6 years he has not been able to contribute to this relationship, he is not going to. Sounds like you can make it on your own and that's what you should do. As Dr. Phil would say "Hows it workin for ya"
2007-07-22 16:34:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like the steam has run out of this relationship. Are you waiting for him to end it? Sometimes its hard to let something go that is just running along a track with very little energy.
If he's not letting you in, you're not in.
2007-07-22 16:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by dietcokeani 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't talk much in general. And he sure does not want to talk about money or the relationship.....it's pointless for a guy to do that wityh a woman.
2007-07-22 16:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a waste.
2007-07-22 15:59:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you, get out now while you can...
2007-07-22 16:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋