Coworker texts me all the time, I like him, he says he likes me, but hasn't asked me out!?

Question

Ok,

I have this co-worker. He is 8 years older than me. I wasn't attracted to him AT ALL at first, but after the first few months, I think about him more and more every day. We started out joking, flirting with each other, sending little memos to each other about how sexy the other was. It progressed to phone calls, and sexy pictures being exchanged. We've even kissed each other, but in the back of my mind I am wondering if this divorced man is just out for some tail. I have been burned in the past. I have been in relationships that were just for sex. I am really starting to care deeply for him even though its only been a few weeks since we started flirting. He emails me and tells me he likes me a lot and finds me to be sexy, but sometimes he also seems like he would rather be doing something else then talk to me, but this only happens when he's doing his own thing at his house. He doesn't outright tell me that. Am I overthinking this? Does it seem he really does like me?

Answer 1

If a guy really likes you, he will let you know. I would not read too much into it, and I would guard my heart if I was you... you probably deserve much better. The fact that he seems distracted also is a sign, to walk away. When love is truly there... you will know it and those little signs you would not question. Also, it is totally disrespectful and inappropriate for a coworker to say that you are sexy, indicating the guy has poor professional judgement, possibly bad judgement in other areas.

Answer 2

he wants u for sex.