Singles & Dating - 18 July 2007

Im 14. I turned 14 in february of this year. Im goin into highschool. & I have a voice of a child or almost a girl!! When im on the phone & sound like a gay guy & in person but not as bad as on the phone. & ive noticed alot of people that dont know me think im gay or very feminime b/c of this. Just about every guy I know has deep voices even guys 2 yrs younger than me! This is like my whole school except for about 3 gay guys have voices maybe a lil higher than mine. Im afraid this will knock me out of gettin g/f's & hangin w/ guys. Trust me where I live it will! & I DO care no matter wat yal say. So will my voice ever get deep to at least sound like a guy!!?? And is there ANY POSSIBLE way whatsoever that i can make my voice sound any deeper? besides smoking? Im really self conscious about this & idk why I cant have a deep voice & everyone else does. I think if i were to shout or scream itd sound worse than michael jackson!!!! PLEASE help.

2007-07-18 15:01:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

All of my friends have kissed boys and I haven't, how do I get more boys to notice me and not call me their "buddy"?

2007-07-18 14:56:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Tonight I'm asking out this guy that I've been friends with for a really long time. I've tried for the past year to ask him out but never could get the courage to do it. I'm gonna ask him out within the next couple hours, but i'm so nervous, how do I calm down enough to ask him out?

2007-07-18 14:51:09 · 4 answers · asked by slipknot_is_wicked 2

2007-07-18 14:49:44 · 6 answers · asked by pcr85 2

I met this man who lives in Haiti and we have become good friends. He keeps asking me about being in a relationship with him. I would like to know what that biggest differences in our views of "a relationship" might be. I wan't to understand where he is coming from before I make any kind of commitment. I don't want to accidently end up married to the poor guy from something I say...?! Thanks for your help!

2007-07-18 14:49:25 · 2 answers · asked by lisa42088 3

Rebecca loved her boyfriend.
They adored each other, just like a good trend.
They both shared a passion for wanting tattooes.
Sadly they both caught the blues.

They seperated for a week but that's all it took for Rebecca to be found dead in her bed with a bottle of pills in her sheets.
Her ex found her first. He ran home to soothe his thirst.
He didn't know she was dead.
He thought she was just sleeping.

Later that night, her parents found Rebecca laying in her bed.
She had a note taped to her arm
It said "I'm waiting for my love to come to me."
Her family was devastated.
Her Ex freaked out and locked the door to his bedroom.
Then he went to work.

He knew he had crushed her
he had killed her in a way
they were supposed to be together,
get tattooes together,
and be happy!
He knew in his heart he would be able to do at least part of that

So,One week later he was found in his bed with these words carved into his skin:

"I'm coming to you my love. I am. I am.

2007-07-18 14:47:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a Filipino guy and I was just wondering if any white girls would ever consider having a Filipino guy as a boyfriend? Or does it just depend on the person and not their race?

2007-07-18 14:43:01 · 13 answers · asked by ZACH 3

Me and this girl met once...had a great time. Then had a second date, and we had a great dinner and kissed goodnight...like hardcore kissing, it was awesome! But she def wants to hang out again and I think we really like each other. I don't want to scare her away! But I don't want her to think I wasn't interested either! Is there some sort of protocall? What should I do? Arrange a 3rd date for someone over the weekend? I don't wana to F it all up!

2007-07-18 14:36:19 · 8 answers · asked by The Rainmaker 1

2007-07-18 14:34:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-18 14:29:28 · 13 answers · asked by GE OTTO 1

I am 18 and I wear a diaper. I don't use it, when I use the restroom I take it off and use the restroom just like underwear , but it is like a security blanket it me, nothing sexual it's not a fetish eww, it’s totally innocent, it's just emotional, I have seen help and they tell me if it's not hurting anyone then there is nothing wrong with it, I’m not a bad person ,it does my heart good, I mean some guys prefer boxers, some briefs, I prefer a soft cushy diaper, to me it's just another piece of my clothing, so could any girl accept this, if she liked me and knew me for a few years before she found out?

2007-07-18 14:26:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-18 14:26:30 · 13 answers · asked by thugster17 2

2007-07-18 14:24:58 · 19 answers · asked by stunston 2

Ooooowwowwwao

Come on wawatataawaat

Let’s get this on now come on

Owwwww! See dem guys hollerin atch you.

never seen a place so crowded too

Come on girls get it down real low.

Mr. dj do ya hear me crack it up real high!

You think ya lookin so cool

Dancin like a fool?

Oh no! dad a deddade

Make room now come on MO---ve!

I aint cool but I still no how to MO---ve.

Let’s get on the floor and make it real loose. Come on wawatataawaat real loose.

Let’s get this on now come on

Owwwww! See dem guys hollerin atch you.

never seen a place so crowded too

Come on girls get it down real low.

Mr. Dj do ya hear me crack it up real high! (Echo- crack it up you)

You think lookin so cool ((background echo HAHA ye right)

Dancin like a fool? (Background singers hey sexier)

Oh no! Dad an eddied NOOOOOO!

Make room now come on MO---vet! (You busting my floor’)

I aint cool but I still no how to get them MO---vest. (I want some mo’)

Let’s get on the floor and make it real loose.

Real loose. ( real low kinda like a whisper echo in background)move out biatchesss!)

2007-07-18 14:23:55 · 7 answers · asked by jessica m 1

2007-07-18 14:20:59 · 3 answers · asked by amber p 2

like my boyfriend and i plan a nice romantic date and he didnt even show up even if he did call to said he could not make it how can i seek revenge?

2007-07-18 14:19:25 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

or more outgoing girls, it seems that they only like outgoing girls

2007-07-18 14:19:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

What can I do before I get to that point?

2007-07-18 14:18:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm conflicted...I'm still in love with a man whom I dated for 8 months, had the best sex ever, and tons of fun. We broke up because he didn't feel in love with me...just cared about me and had fun with me. Now he's seeing someone new but still wants to play a few times a month with me. I would love to but know I couldn't handle it...or could I? Any similar experiences.

2007-07-18 14:16:29 · 22 answers · asked by pollyp 1

My boyfriend has had a problem with drugs. I told him that it was them or me and he chose me, but then i found out that he was just doing them behind my back and lieing to my face! I swore that i would never forgive him and i still haven't, i wanted to break up with him but then he went to his dad and told him the truth and now he's only allowed to see his father and I as well as taking drug tests. Im very proud. But should I stay?

he is doing better, he's doing really well and he does love me. And i love him.. but i still don't know what to do.

2007-07-18 14:13:55 · 9 answers · asked by April D 2

why do people ask the question:
" guys, would you date me? "
Seriously, half the time they're lying about themselves anyways, not to mention their too young.
Is it because they're so desperate and they want to know if any one will like them online or something?
It's pathetic in my opinion.
What do you think of it?

2007-07-18 14:11:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been given this advice by some elder..."Those who ignore always win"..when it comes down to relationships. Does that actually work? By ignoring someone that much...do they come back? He also told me this "When someone you take for granted disappears...theres emptiness in ones heart" What do you guys think?

2007-07-18 14:07:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

like when you can see their back...it's not bare all the way but halfway bare with no straps - is that hot? a turn on?

just in case you didn't know what a tube top looked like (girl in pic is jessica alba haha)

http://teamsugar.com/files/images/frown.jpg

2007-07-18 14:05:59 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-18 13:41:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

help me out!!!

2007-07-18 13:40:48 · 1 answers · asked by francisco c 1

Well, I am going into my second year of high school and I people who know me think I am a geek... The point is yeah I enjoy computers and technology I am happy because I am making $$$ a month of doing web development online... But yet again I have no girl friend... I am a nice caring guy. Once a girl said I was to caring ( she was emo ) But I am kinda skinny... But anyways... I am always their for a girl if they need help or advice on something I will stop what I am doing and help her...

Why don't I have a girlfriend yet? Oh, I am a little shy sometimes...

2007-07-18 13:38:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've was with this guy for two looooong years. we had a very passionate and deep connection. the day before it ended we got in a fight. we only argue about once every month or so. i thought i could just go home cool down and we would both want to make up the next day. i haven't had a phone conversation with him in 2 weeks..he sent me a text that said "your are the one who left. you walked out on our relationship" and when i called him today to see how he was he didn't answer and sent me a text that said "take a hint"..... is this a normal way to break up with someone when you are 25 years old and have been with them for 2 years? the day we last saw each other he said i love you, you are my hero and was needing every second of my attention even though we spend about everyday together....i am so confused..... i don't want him back now but is this an acceptable way to break up with someone

2007-07-18 13:35:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend has a guy friend who is in prison.He will get out in a few days and she has been writing him for the last year in the half he's been in prison and they've gotten close but are not together.She is trying to go to college and he wants to get out of prison and spend time with her first before asking her to be with him.My friend went out on a date with a guy who won't leave her alone and told him when he asked what was new with her he then blew up on her telling her how she's got all this drama and full of it and how wrong she was she told him she told the guy about him and he was still mad said it didn't matter.What's his problem they aren't together?

2007-07-18 13:31:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a guy friend whom I work with. One day recently we were in a group of collegues talking about a patient who was very ill. We were trying to guess her height, and my friend said he thought she was about same as me. And another guy said, "Yep, but her chest is BIGGER..." and giggled... refering to the patient. Yes, it was rude, I know. Patient was NOT within earshot. SO... I said, "At least my chest doesn't sag!" (yep, I can be tacky, too.) but here's the weird thing. My guy friend says, "It sure DOESN'T!" refering to my chest. It made the atmosphere very awkward. We have NEVER been intimate, or even suggestive. I wear modest clothes, too. But it seemed as if his words slipped out, and there they hung in the air... and he wasn't able to take them back. Later he mentioned in a different conversation that men can tell what a woman's chest is like just with their eyes... even as if they can feel them. Has he been looking at me this way??????

2007-07-18 13:31:51 · 6 answers · asked by kittykat 42 1

he do not want to use protection and i do.

2007-07-18 13:30:59 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous