or more outgoing girls, it seems that they only like outgoing girls
2007-07-18 14:19:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys like friendly girls.
Too shy can come across as stuck-up and not interested.
Perhaps you have low self-confidence because you think that you have to make everyone like you in order for you to be considered a good person. This is an impossible goal, because some people will never like you for absolutely no good reason what-so-ever. You must realize that the negative opinion of just one insecure person does not determine who you are. Get your affirmation from your close friends and family, not from strangers. If someone does not like you, then assume that their negative reaction says NOTHING about you as a person; it probably says more about THEM, or the kind of rotten day that they are having, than it does about you. In other words, quit taking it personally whenever someone doesn't want to talk to you, or they otherwise react in a negative way to you. There are hundreds of reasons why they don't want to talk to someone right now that have nothing at all to do with you, or what you just did/said. Quit taking rejection from strangers personally. If they don't like you, then tell yourself that it is their loss, not yours, since they missed out on getting to know someone as nice as you.
It can help your self confidence if you assume that most people are nice, and that they have no (good) reason not to like you. If you come across as confident, positive, funny, and happy, then of course most people will want to talk to you. If you come across as needy, desperate, shy, and/or no self-confidence, people will assume that something is wrong with you, and they will run away. To some extent, you do make your own reality when it comes to making friends. If you assume the worst, then you will get bad results because you make it happen. If you assume the best, you will usually get good results, because you will make it happen. Your attitude will be contagious.
2007-07-18 14:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shy guy+Shy girl=Shy Relationship
2016-05-17 05:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys I know like more girls that are outgoing sorry. Try to be a bit more comfortable with them. I think it just goes further with someone more outgoing.
2007-07-18 14:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm shy and yes they definitely like the more outgoing type. Shyness may stem from insecurities, work on your personal growth so that you feel happy and comfortable with yourself and in your skin in all situations. inadvertently that translates into your social life and you will see that people notice the difference. I don't know how old you are but the older you get the more confident you become. I'm in college and I'm still "blossoming" for lack of better description.
2007-07-18 14:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by Ana H 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and sometimes an outgoing guy can be shy if he has a crush on someone. It happaned to me before with a few popular guys of different grades(funny how I'm not popular).
2007-07-18 14:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends, if you can get a hint of a girl how she really is then we go for it. it becomes with maturity, you really learn how to tell the difference with good girls and great girls, outgoing or shy does not matter
2007-07-18 14:29:27 · answer #6 · answered by doc cool!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well see that depends which guy you are talking about. I mean some guys like shy girls some guys don't, and sometimes it can be as simple as both of you having the same interests as eachother. If any guy don't like your shyness then you aren't meant to be.
2007-07-18 14:26:52 · answer #7 · answered by GreekWidStyle 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I like shy girls more but the problem is that they don't show any response so it is really difficult to read their mind. We are not mind readers so that we can tell by seeing a girl that if she is interested in them. You have to give us some sort of signal, direct or indirect.
2007-07-18 14:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by samranelahi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy. Everyone likes different things. There is someone out there for you. Don't rush you have your entire life a head of you to find a man to drive you crazy!
2007-07-18 14:22:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I like shy girls. I still fondly remember a shy gal I had a crush on in college. But I was shy too and never told her how I felt. :(
2007-07-18 14:22:27 · answer #10 · answered by HandsomeAnd47 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋