he do not want to use protection and i do.
2007-07-18 13:30:59 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just let him know that you want to use protection and if he says no then you tell no you'll not doing anything with him. If he loves and respects you he will understand. But be firm with you desicion. Good luck.
2007-07-18 13:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by SKY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one if he doesn't want to use protection he isn't a good boyfriend to have. He should be respectable enough to wait til you two get married if that's the case. I believe you shouldn't do anything in that sort because you don't what could happen, even with protection. If you get pregnant he could just leave you. It happens all the time. I say dump him because he's not worthy of you if he wants to get involved in stuff like that that would cause you harm.
2007-07-18 13:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by ~Living4HIM~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you two are quite ready until you can agree on this issue. Sexual intercourse is something that should not be taken lightly. It is something that comes with A LOT of responsibilities and could change your life forever after just one time.
If I were you, I would stand your ground!
2007-07-18 13:34:59 · answer #3 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant speak from the position of a girl but for us MEN using protection (Condoms) is less of the experience than unprotected. Certain areas of our body are 100% pleasure seekers and so wrapping it in rubber is just not a fair deal for the superior sex.
Have you forgotten, this is a MANS world.
He wants maximum pleasure for his time and effort and money.
You do understand that from his position, in order to jump you he is called on to daily tolerate you his girlfriend. Have you ever asked your self just how much of a pain in the butt are you?
How does a living god (man) put up with your daily demands and complaining.
Is rewarding him with a little sexual pleasure really asking all that much from you.
Remember he is such an amazing and wonderful man.
He is putting in the effort, he wants his hard earned reward.
Maximum pleasure and performance in the bedroom.
Is it truly fair for you to deny such a man his right to pleasure?
Your body is his.
But understand that he is making NO long term commitment to you.
If you work long and hard he may even consider allowing you to service a few of his mates but only after he has finished with you and got that blond girl from down the road on her knees.
If your lucky you will fall pregnant before he disposes of you for the next girl. That
way you will have the honour of looking after one of his many children for the next 18 or so years.
2007-07-18 14:03:49 · answer #4 · answered by xxx000au 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, anyone who says 'just use the pill' is borderline mentally retarded and completely misinformed. It says in HUGE RED letters on any birth control that it DOES NOT PROTECT against STD's. I remember what it's like to be with your first bf and nervous he's gonna be over you if you argue this sort of thing but PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE make him use protection if he wants to have sex with you. Also, not to sound parenty (I'm only 22) but you might not want to give it up to this guy. The right guy would be more than happy and smart enough to use protection. Not using protection is for when you've been dating for a long time and are in a very very committed relationship. Good luck! Please please take this advice!
2007-07-18 13:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by takingbackhaley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be a mistake not to use protection, you need to stand up for yourself and insist....boyfriend will cave because he wants to be with you. If you are in a serious monogamous relationship where trust has been established you could then consider switching to the Birth control pill..
2007-07-18 13:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by belladonna25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not the right boyfriend if he wants to have sex before marrage. All you'll get out of it is a little fun then kids. If he can't wait, find a new boyfriend that respects you enough to wait until your married. If you don't get married, then you don't want to have sex with all the boyfriends of the future that want it. Be a clean, healthy, respectful person. Don't give in to boyfriends that just want your body. If they love you, they will wait.
2007-07-18 13:37:31 · answer #7 · answered by Tex S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd get rid of the boyfriend and find one with a brain. My boyfriend's daughter just has a baby; she dropped out of school, didn't graduate, go to the prom, doesn't see her friends anymore, doesn't have any training to get a job, and now he doesn't want to have anything to do with her because he doesn't want responsibility or a baby and wants to go out with his friends and spend his money on himself. She lives with her mommy and is entirely dependent upon her and sits at the house 24/7 taking care of the baby. Wait until you're older and have a boyfriend who is a man to have sex with; forget this immature and self-centered child you're dating now.
2007-07-18 13:39:14 · answer #8 · answered by telaine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you use protection, at least at first. Then as your relationship progresses, maybe using just birth control. Also, make sure you are both tested for everything, and be sure that you COMPLETELY trust your boyfriend. If you feel that you are ready, and if he really cares about you, he'll agree to compramise. If he doesn't, then as much as it hurts.. thats something you need to know.
2007-07-18 13:35:14 · answer #9 · answered by April D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use some protection. try pills or spermicidal foam that YOU put in yourself, it will not protect you from STDs but may help against pregnancy.
Show him a picture of a screaming baby and see if he still wants to use no protection ;-)
2007-07-18 13:36:27 · answer #10 · answered by denonvillier 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋