like my boyfriend and i plan a nice romantic date and he didnt even show up even if he did call to said he could not make it how can i seek revenge?
2007-07-18 14:19:25 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Umm... I think what you really need to do is ask yourself,do you even love this guy? Cause if you did I don't think you would want to get revenge on him. Sure I know your mad but come on he is a guy what can you expect? They are going to do that, and if your relationship is strong you will be able to look past this. I hope you do the right thing. Good luck!
2007-07-26 12:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by Ashes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would not seek revenge, I would be woman enough to tell him what I thought, and how I felt after he failed to show. Revenge is never good, BECAUSE WHAT GOES AROUND SURELY COMES AROUND BACK TO YOU do you plan on getting revenge on him every time he doesn't do something or call, thats not good, and maybe you should consider as to whether or not you want to be in a relationship. There is going to come a day when you will be in the same boat would you want him to take revenge out on you. revenge is a terrible thing, it just makes the person or persons angrier and I truly believe that you are much better than that. TALK TO HIM AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL AND USE KIND WORDS, DON'T GO OFF, A KIND WORD TURNS AWAY WRATH. Good Luck :)
2007-07-26 08:30:24 · answer #2 · answered by pookster4262 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me let you in on a little secret. The best revenge is looking out for yourself. If you feel like you need to seek revenge, spend that energy thinking about enhancing your life. The best feeling in the world is knowing you were a good partner and you did the right thing the entire relationship. If you decide to leave him, his suffering from the loss of you is revenge enough.
2007-07-26 13:50:19 · answer #3 · answered by hamptoncutie204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is not a mature emotion. Nor is it something to build a relationship on. Especially since he called to say he couldn't make it. For pity sakes, have you never had something come up. I'm married and my husband and I have things that come up in my life all the time. Especially with work or church or our child. We understand and support each other.
If you want revenge then break up with him. It will make you feel better and it will be the best thing that every happens to him. He will be free to find a woman who is grown up and can understand life happens.
2007-07-18 14:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is this someone you actually care about? Why would you want revenge? You would get better results if you talked to him and let him know how disappointed and hurt you are over the whole situation instead of acting like a teenager.
2007-07-18 14:26:00 · answer #5 · answered by bigmom 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he called to say that he couldn't make it then why do you feel the need to seek revenge? Grow up. Disappointment is a part of life.
2007-07-18 14:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by ..... 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dont seek revenge get a new man or just be happy by yourself~!!! You dont need a man to make you happy thats for sure~!!!
2007-07-26 10:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha perfect opportunity to show you dont care!!! Seriously, men love women thriving off them, so dont show an ounce of being upset!!!! Plus say that you forgot anyway and went out with a friend, then talk about a fantastic time you had!! He will grovel. They like to be needed.
2007-07-18 14:23:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out why he couldn't make ti. If it is not a good reason, get rid of him as soon as possible and don't waste your time any more. Don't look for revenge, look for somebody , who likes you.
2007-07-26 14:20:28 · answer #9 · answered by kalin70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you seek revenge you will be lowering yourself to a level beneath him. Now why would you want to do that to yourself?
2007-07-26 13:07:34 · answer #10 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋