2007-07-18 14:29:28 · 13 answers · asked by GE OTTO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell your parents "when you're lucky enough to find the gift of love, you don't worry about the color of the package!"
2007-07-18 14:34:44 · answer #1 · answered by Flying Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you an answer from a parents perspective. My daughter had just such a talk with her mother and me. We got away from any interruptions, no people, no phone, no Tv.
She completely and totally had our attention. It wasn't easy for her. I had to listen to her say things I didn't want to hear or deal with. But told us she did.
I got mad, she cried, her mother scolded me, but the bottom line was, she was committed to the relationship, and there was really nothing I could do to change that.
Funny thing about time, it really does soften feelings. I realized she was my daughter, I would lover her uncomditionally regardless of what she told me.
Things have turned out pretty well. Being Mexican, the young man's ideas about relationships are far different than mine, and I still get angry from time to time, but I now have two precious grandkids and I wouldn't trade them for the world.
It won't be easy, but you will get through it.
2007-07-18 14:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by doug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to bring up a similar topic and see how they react...they may surprise you. If their response is less than ideal, and you feel very strongly about the relationship, then I would follow the advice of answer #1. But give them a chance before you get in an uproar.
2007-07-18 14:34:17 · answer #3 · answered by mandy45503@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling your family that you understand their views, but you do have your rights to do as you choose. Explain to them that race is not something that matters to you, and try and tell them the best qualities about your partner! Hopefully, they will lighten up and understand! Good luck with everything!
2007-07-18 14:35:09 · answer #4 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to start by letting them know what year it is. If they do judge you or your partner for it, are they really worth worrying about. How about you try "hey mum, dad - I'd like you to meet *name*". You shouldn't waste time worrying about judgmental people like that. It matters who you like so be honest with them and stand your ground.
2007-07-18 14:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
too bad my parents have to deal with me marrying an english guy hehe
just tell them if they dont accept...cool..as long as love that person and if you feel like it's worth it 100% then go for it!
2007-07-18 14:39:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel. i like this one girl but my parent think i should b older to date her. but just tell her and hope for the best.
2007-07-18 14:35:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wellu might not have to tell them cuz ur the 1 dating him not ur parents and its not like they can choose who u will like. srry abt this prob. though. just tell them instead of hiding it from them. tht sumtimes just makes it worse
2007-07-18 14:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by lalala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weell Parents will all ways be your parents but if dont like that person .......i no you love them but you shouldt try to please them
do wat makes you happy .....and race should neva be an issue >Buuuuuuut Sometimes Mother Knows Best< So Listen to Ya mother she might have real reassons
2007-07-18 14:33:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the other answer you have, but remember to pay attention to your parents advice!
2007-07-18 14:32:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋