Im 14. I turned 14 in february of this year. Im goin into highschool. & I have a voice of a child or almost a girl!! When im on the phone & sound like a gay guy & in person but not as bad as on the phone. & ive noticed alot of people that dont know me think im gay or very feminime b/c of this. Just about every guy I know has deep voices even guys 2 yrs younger than me! This is like my whole school except for about 3 gay guys have voices maybe a lil higher than mine. Im afraid this will knock me out of gettin g/f's & hangin w/ guys. Trust me where I live it will! & I DO care no matter wat yal say. So will my voice ever get deep to at least sound like a guy!!?? And is there ANY POSSIBLE way whatsoever that i can make my voice sound any deeper? besides smoking? Im really self conscious about this & idk why I cant have a deep voice & everyone else does. I think if i were to shout or scream itd sound worse than michael jackson!!!! PLEASE help.
2007-07-18 15:01:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
..geez, stop complaining. You sound like a girl now..just wait and give it time, your voice WILL change.
2007-07-18 15:04:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just going to have to wait it out. There isn't anything you can do, it'll just happen on it's own. You'll probably notice a change in your voice within a year or so I would think. You're just a bit of a slow starter I guess. Don't worry too much about it.
And whatever you do don't worry about what people in high school think. While it may seem like they're all important at this point in your life, they're not. Once your out of high school you'll realize just how unimportant they are from a social standpoint.
Good luck!
2007-07-18 15:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by Digital Haruspex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first you and all the people that judge you because of your voice need to grow up and realize that everyone hits puberty at different times. If it doesnt by 16-17 than you have a problem, but right now ur just a kid! The pitch of your voice has nothing to do with your sexuality.
2007-07-18 15:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you still going through puberty, second if people think you gay the beat 'em up, simple as that, even if you get knocked the hell out, you will win fight and lose some, but if you dont show fear, then you will get respect, and will have any girl you want, even if you a bloody purple color, i have gotten the crap kicked outta me by the scariest lookin mofo's on the planet, and the still picked me up and asked if i was ok, so just keep cool, cuz you voice will evntually come, but till then, just crack some skulls and no one will make fun of you
2007-07-18 15:16:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, you are still so young. You will get your manly voice soon enough. One year you will come back from summer vacation, have a deep voice, a more filled out body, and a nice tan and all the girls will want you. Just enjoy the time you have left of your youth. I know its rough, but you will get through it!
2007-07-18 15:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by lisa42088 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry with time your voice will get deeper and you probably will have more girlfriends than those knuckle heads that think you are gay now. It is very natural for you to feel this way.
2007-07-18 15:06:07 · answer #6 · answered by Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone hits puberty at a different time, so don't worry... your voice will change and it will be lower like a man's. And no, I don't think you can make it change or will it to change. Smoking to make it change? Uh, no, you may end up with lung cancer or oral cancer later in life. Not worth it. It'll happen, when your body is ready, so be patient.
2007-07-18 15:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your father when his voice changed. usually boys take after their father's time of puberty. for example if your father's voice changed at age 15 maybe your voice will change at age 15 too. o and ps i think guys whos voices start to change sounds soooo hott so talk to u soon.
2007-07-18 15:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE ... CHILL OUT !!! ... your voice changes when you go through your body goes through its growth spurt ... there is nothing you can do to speed it up ... everybody has a different timetable for their bodies ... i always wondered when i would get chest hair all through high school and even my first couple of years of college ... now it's like a fricking bear skin rug ... trust me, nobody cares and you are seriously stressing about nothing
2007-07-18 15:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
calm down its common for it to change later dont listen to your friends who say that your voice should have changed by now the the stages of puberty are set in stone somethings happen late and others early btw mine didnt change untill i was 16
2007-07-18 15:05:51 · answer #10 · answered by bubba333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, your voice will change in a year or two.
2007-07-18 15:08:24 · answer #11 · answered by Ian F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋