Singles & Dating - 1 July 2007

My boyfriend and I have been going out for four months now. I love him to death and we've been friends for about a year and a half. About 3 months ago he planned on meeting me somewhere and he did not show up. He called me the next morning b/c he said that he had fallen asleep and he was so sorry. He works 2 jobs and is constantly tired, so I am understanding and don't mind. But then tonight, we saw each other in the morning and he planned a dinner date for us tonight. I didn't say anything and he said he wanted to go to dinner tonight and he would call me. Well, he never called me. We see each other every day and he ALWAYS calls me, except for these two times. What should I do and guys...how should I take this? Everything else is fine, he's a lot more affectionate than me and super romantic with me. It's not like him not to call (he only did it that once and now tonight)....

2007-07-01 17:54:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this guy... He is totally sweet & funny... and I like him so much... He's a GOOD BOY. It has nothing to do with looks, because in everyone's eyes, he's really not that cute... everyone i tell thinks that I could "do better," but there's no one else i want but him...

I've known him for 4 or 5 months... I've always felt something for him. He's just so easy to talk to, and he makes me laugh. One time, this woman saw us flirting, and actually told us that we should date!! He said, "Her? No way, noo no noooo," but he was sorta smiling when he said it. I was hurt, but my friends told me that guys sometimes pretend they don't like girls, when they do. So, we've seen each other at work an average of 1-2 times per week, for maybe 10 minutes per time...
Well, last week, he started dating this girl. She is awful. She has a nasty personality, is manipulative, fake, and is just out to hurt people. She's a controlling liar, and has tried to mess with me more than once... when she was supposed to be my friend... and, she's no beauty queen. Her outisides match her insides, basically. People always comment on how gross she looks...

I was so hurt when I found out taht they started dating. How could he want her and not me? I'm a nice person, I don't hurt people... and *if* he was superficial, I'm 20x better looking than her!

What do I do? I want to tell him how I feel, but if he doesn't feel the same way, he'll tell the girl he's with, and she'll humiliate me. I just can't tell if he likes me. I feel bad flirting with him, when he has a gf, and I try to stop myself, but everytime I'm around him, I can't help but smile and laugh. The worst part is, is that now he has a new shift, and it'll be weeks before I see him, unless he comes in to visit HER.

Help me? What do I do? Am I in love?

2007-07-01 17:35:59 · 16 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 1

how do you deal with it?

and what is it that annoys you the most

2007-07-01 17:29:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy that I used to hook up with i think is now stalking me... It all started last new years of 06 and I got like 25 calls from a blocked number on new years eve and ever since then they call occasionally. They left a message last year and it sounded like my ex- friend w benefit then I noticed when ever I saw him or if he knew I was at his neighbors house the blocked number would call. And they called last week alot the same day he saw me and I was outside at my friends and I saw him riding his bike trying to call.. I dont no what to do.

2007-07-01 17:26:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and i have been together for 2 years this July 4th, 2007. we have been engaged since january '07. we are living together and have been for quite a while. I work from home so i am always here but a few weeks ago on june 14th and 15th my mom and brother and sister came up and we went tubing, we were gone about 3 hours. my fiance did not go b/c he works third shift and had to get some sleep. He told me that he didnt get any sleep and just watched tv. he sent me a text message and i called him back and i swear i heard a woman say hello while we were talking, i shrugged it off as the tv or something. we had on our nightstand two condoms still connected together inside a glass cup. i was cleaning in the bedroom a few weeks ago before we went tubing and i KNOW they were there and connected. Then like 2 days ago i reached over to the nightstand and one of the condoms was gone. I asked him where it was and he said he didnt know and he didnt do anything. i did not accuse him and i told him that i was not accusing him , he told me he didnt do anything and that i gave him a look like i was accusing him. i still have not "found" the condom and i dont know what the hell happened because we do not use condoms for one and we have not been intimate in weeks, for 2. Any suggestions or advice please would be appreciated. i am freaking out over this and i do not know what to do or think. I asked him if he was cheating and he said no and he never has. any advice would be greatly appreciated, i hate feeling this way. i trusted him up until this point.

2007-07-01 17:24:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have had interest in many girls but i've either waited too long to tell them or they are already taken

2007-07-01 17:24:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really feel sick to my stomach. I the best I can describe it is it feels like morning sickness. They are friends again and it's killing me. Although I should be able to trust him because after all, I too am friends with my ex. I just have trust issues all around. But do you ever feel physically sick when you even hear her name? Or you know they are together hanging out and stuff?

If so, how do you overcome it? Thanks!

2007-07-01 17:22:14 · 7 answers · asked by Melissa 2

2007-07-01 17:20:31 · 22 answers · asked by Ric C 3

2007-07-01 17:04:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this girl at my school a year younger than me that i really have a huge crush on...i want to hang out with her. how do i get her to like me. we have talked before and we like alot of the same stuff. how do ask her if she wants to hang out as friends or just see a movie or something like that. (im also a shy person, but i'll overcome it just to talk to her)

2007-07-01 16:54:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yesterday was our one year anniversary, so we planned the whole day, we went swimming with dolphins followed by lunch/picnic on the beach. And we both enjoyed each other’s company.

Last night, we went out for dinner, it was something we didn’t plan together so she took it as a surprised. I made it very romantic; she told me that it was the best French restaurant she has been to, Kudos for me. So we went home to red flower petals all over our bedroom, we had sex and towards the end (losing my load), I screamed out my ex-girlfriend’s name.
I won’t go into details about what she did to me because male-rights group could probably sue her but I’m now sleeping on our sofa typing this question. How screwed am I? And is it possible to get her back?

Please Please help!

2007-07-01 16:49:29 · 59 answers · asked by Curious about the World 3

i was on myspace yesterday and a girl added me, she goes to my college and we have seen eachother around but i dont know her or have ever talked to her.

anyway we got talking on myspace and out of nowhere she asked where i live and where i study etc.

later in the convo she went "my friends arent even going out now, im so sad =[" and i had to go out myself, i said "sorry i have to go out, i would stay to chat if i could but i gotta go =[".

then after that she said > "if you werent going out id drag u out to meet me"

> now does this sound to you like shes interested because she wants to meet me even on the 1st day i spoken to her? or does she just want be friends?

i said does she want my no. and msn and she said yes, i said im shy with calling ppl, she said shes shy too but is talkative when she gets to know someone better.

also she puts more kisses at the end of sentences when talkin to me compared to other guys.

2007-07-01 16:40:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I been thinking that if my girlfriend and I ever broke up, that I would be hurt the most. I would do anything to avoid that, but if it's not meant to be, who knows. If someone is wondering about their partner, should they still put all of their energy into trying to make it work, or would it be wise to look for future "opportunities"? I mean, if anything happened between us, I would be so devastated I don't know if I could feel the same way about another girl again. And of course being as shy and weird as I am, I probably would be alone for a long time to come. I doubt there are many guys who would be as hurt by losing their girl as I would and I don't know if that's good or bad.

2007-07-01 16:24:47 · 8 answers · asked by jldude 5

Bitches instead of the nice, funny, smart ones who look hot as well?

2007-07-01 16:22:29 · 38 answers · asked by Brianna 2

i fell 4 him a wile ago. he broke my heart by going out w/ the girl i hate. and they broke up, we became friends and talked alot. now hes going out w/ my best friend, she talkes nonstop bout him even when i ask her not 2. i want 2 hate him but i still love him. why could that be? theres alot that happend that i dident wright. please i need ANSWERS!

2007-07-01 16:16:58 · 24 answers · asked by monkkeytheblue 1

What do you like about a girl? What do you not like about a girl?

2007-07-01 16:13:18 · 17 answers · asked by Love 3

She has contacted through text, she said "give me a call if you want to grab dinner or something sometime". I do want her back but am unsure because she did date someone right after me. But what would be the best thing to do here? I told her you give me a call, I don't bite. She is trying to make me look like I am chasing her, but in reality its the other way around. How do I reverse this on her so that she knows I don't feel comfortable calling someone who dumped me. But yet will meet her if she pursues this, not vice versa. Maybe I should not call and ignore for a while?

2007-07-01 16:11:54 · 18 answers · asked by D 1

We have been together now 2 years and she is going to LA, she signed with a talent agency for movies and singing. I live in Cleveland, Ohio. That is 2800 miles away from each other, we love each other and talk about family and marrige alot, but we just arn't ready for that yet. She says that she can't have me out there bc she needs top be able to do this acting/singing thing on her own, and she wants to know that she can do it by herself, she doesn't want me there to be able to bail her out if she is on a jam, she just needs to know she can make it on her own. She wants to stay together, here are her exact words "I know it would be fun and great to have you out here with me but I need to find myself and what I really want out of this life, and it kinda makes me sad that if you come with me, I will never know if I could have done it, I love you and whatever is meant to happen will happen. Everything will be ok. I will love you forever." Help me please, what this means, advice

2007-07-01 16:09:06 · 20 answers · asked by Dan H 1

i'm 28 years old, and i've never felt like i needed anyone. i've been in love a time or to, but still... i know i need a woman in order to have a family, but other than that, i'm usually more happy to be alone. everything is just so much simpler that way. has society planted this imaginary ''need'' in our minds?

2007-07-01 16:09:03 · 17 answers · asked by That Guy Drew 6

please help me..i was going out with my girlfriend for 7 months..n then she broke up with me..its been about a month now..n we still havnt gotten back..she says she doesnt like me anymore n i should move on cuz shes never gunna get back with me..n i was away for 3 weeks n she said she didnt miss me then so shes sure that she made the right decision!n im a lil confused..i know she doesnt liek me n stuff..but a part of me tells me that she still has some feelings for me..i dont know what to do?..i know i should prolly just move on..but is there anyway i can get her back..i really love her!n im really depressed..please help!

2007-07-01 16:06:57 · 14 answers · asked by seth 1

I like this guy that is 1 year younger than me. He flirts with me all the time but i think he flirts with other girls too. He talks to me non stop but i act like i so dont like him. Should i start flirting with him or what? But if I do one of my friends would think i am totally ridiculus. My friend went out with this guys older brother who is actually our age. What should I do?

2007-07-01 15:55:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm in love with my best guy friend & we've been friends forever but i would go to the ends of the earth & back for this guy. i love him so much but don't have the courage to tell him. i want to because i want to be with him so bad! he's nice & funny & we hang out all the time but the only problem i have with im is that he has a gf! but she doesn't deserve him one bit! what the saddest part is, is that i think about him constantly, & i flirt with hm shamelessly, sometimes even in front of his gf's face. i just want to go out with him so much but can't do it! help me please!

2007-07-01 15:51:55 · 19 answers · asked by lOvE LiFe & LoVe Me!!!! 2

umm would u rather have a girly girl that like is all about looks or a sporty girl who likes to where sweats and basketball shorts a lot? plz help me

2007-07-01 15:48:17 · 14 answers · asked by stephers r 1

2007-07-01 15:46:37 · 19 answers · asked by yoursuchafruit 1

tell me your thoughts on this...

2007-07-01 15:37:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-01 15:24:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-01 15:23:10 · 14 answers · asked by Orazali A 2

I am 18 year old guy and like to be alone. if I ever fall in love I will kill myself, cuz that is not who I am. people tell me it just happens and u cant control it well it doesnt happen to me I am a warrior. I dont have feelings like that and only give a damn about myself. I will not lose my edge by falling in love never happen and if it does I will end my life cuz that is not who I am or how I live. I highly doubt it will anyways cuz I just have never had feelings of love in any form towards anyone. except maybe before my parents died when I was 6, but I dont think I felt anything when they died so I dont think I really cared. But is it true that u cant control if u fall in love?????

2007-07-01 15:21:15 · 16 answers · asked by Me,Myself, and I 1

or... you would just go for a fling...

I know lower back tattoo identical to "tramp stamp"...

And most guys that I know would not consider marrying a girl w/ lower back tattoo... but just a hot sexual relationship...

What do you think?

2007-07-01 15:21:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i kno nutin matters if its true love nor religion neither culture. but still i saw ppl suffering for having diff. culture or religion.

religion is part of a culture but if u seperate it what do u c which is more imp. religion or culture?

2007-07-01 15:18:19 · 22 answers · asked by star 2