Singles & Dating - 1 July 2007

Hi Friends, I am from India, 31 years female and still single. When I was 16 I was fooled by a guy who later went on to marry his ex. After I got over him, another guy came into my life when I was 25 and he too cheated me, used me to forget his ex. Later he dumped me saying that I could not help him forget his ex. He married a girl of his parent's choice. There was another guy who was 5 years younger to me who tried persuading me to marry him. I did not accept it because I was 5 years older to him. Finally when I agreed, he refused saying that the 5 years of age difference will be a problem. I believe in marriage and love, but they dont seem to come to me. I dont believe in physical relationship before marriage with anyone still as I consider marriage to be important. I am educated, though I do not look very beautiful, I am good looking, I have the qualities that the guys say they want, but then I do not understand that why does anyone not love me enough to marry me.

2007-07-01 03:29:54 · 15 answers · asked by A P 1

Her mom said she could go out with guys and so we three wayed her ex-boyfriend @ like 1 in the morning.Her mom asked her who she was talking to that late and she said me.She didn't say me and Sean(her ex) cuz she knows her mom would freak.She lets her daye but all she sais is "If you don't love him..Your just using him" and "Whatever..your just going out cuz thats everybody else does."But she really wants to go out with guys!!How can she get her mom to believe and trust her.She talks to her mom about it and she hears..she just doesn't listen!!

2007-07-01 03:29:06 · 11 answers · asked by ♥whit. 2

Im 33 married with children but I connected so solid with this girl wearing an AC/DC shirt mowing grass at a jewish church. I am wondering if I should let her go and just have that memory or is she the one....
What should I do?
I think the feeling was mutual but there was no mention of this connection in our short meeting but she had to feel it ...

2007-07-01 03:11:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My b/f and I have only been going out for 4 months now and he is being soo pushy about sleeping over at each others house. I'm still not comfortable yet because we both live with our parents. His parents are chill, but mine are conservative. We got into this house arguement last night b/c he crawled into my bed and fell asleep..w/o my permission. I got upset. He keeps pushing and pushing and says if it doesn't happen, we'll break-up. Should I convince my parents to have sleep overs with him, or is he being a baby and wanting his way...I dont want to lose him over something soo lame. (Note: he's 20...I'm 23..)

2007-07-01 03:08:41 · 6 answers · asked by LiL JoJo Sneakers 1

my bf of 2 years works nights and i work days so i dont see that much of him.he has made friends with a woman from the czech republic with whom he works with. my bf tells me he loves me and nothing is going on between them... i have text her too and she says that she only thinks of him as a brother... she comes round our house 2-3 times per week when im not there and apparently watch films?... yesterday they had a bottle of wine between them and watched a film... this i was told about.... obviously i wasnt happy about it, i had a feeling something else had happened so after my bf went to work i looked on his computer at emails etc... they email nearly every day... then i found a video of them sat on the sofa, my bf with his arm around her, legs entwined, rubbing her thighs and arms and obviosly looking straight down her top... both still deny anything is going on.... he tells me he loves me... i just dont know what to think any more???

2007-07-01 03:05:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Dear _____(fill in)__ :

Well, it was good while it lasted, but now (check appropiate answer):

___ the county health services wants your phone number.
___ time wounds all heals.
___ you can have an intimate relationship with your answering machine.
___ is the time for all good men to come to the aid of the party.

I finally got the
___ message.
___ picture.
___ joke.
___ right cologne.
___ blood test results.

I don't
___ like
___ want
___ need
you.

Too bad, because when you want to, you can be
___ beautiful.
___ handsome.
___ intelligent.
___ very psychic/psychotic.
___ a sex maniac.
___ God's answer for having too much fun.
___ Arnold Schwartzenneger's prototype for Terminator 3.

I would greatly appreciate you taking responsibility for
___ your own "stuff,"
___ feeding the starving sharks,
___ paying for your own lobotomy,
and being
___ confused.
___ a nutjob.
___ a preoperative transsexual.

I didn't
___ have an impure thought,
___ tell anyone about your operation,
___ write to the National Enquirer,
___ bribe that short guard in cell block D,
but I wish I had.

Thank you for helping me to see the light about you. I now no longer feel like
___ seeing you.
___ knowing that you ever existed.
___ flushing the toilet for you.

2007-07-01 03:00:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i usually like white or asian guys.... im not sure why...

i never really had crushes on Africans, Indiand, Muslims, or Mexicans, or Islanders before....

2007-07-01 02:44:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is perfect in my eyes but to the world he is far from it. I love him so much. My best friend use to be really close with him then he moved away. Julie[my best friend] introduced me to him. I always talk to him everyday for HOURS AND HOURS. But I have never met him. I tell him EVERYTHING. Things no one else knows. and he tells me things back. He says he loves me back and I can tell he does.VERY much. He would die for me but that brings up more problems. Hes very suicidal and depressed and Im truely the best thing in his life. I have stopped him from killing himself many times. A lot of this is because of all the stress he has. His dad is really abusive and that makes me sad. He is HIGHLY addictive to drugs and he is really tied up in them. He is also a HUGE dealer which I hate. He has tried to stop many times for me but each time he fails. Idk what I would do if I lost him. He means so much to me. He makes me feel a way no one else has even gotten close to. I love him.idk what to do!

2007-07-01 02:41:58 · 8 answers · asked by emma 1

my boyfrind and just went to bed for the first time, as I went down on him . I discoverd he is hung, at least 9 to 10 and thick. as I sat on him , it hurt. when he got on top of me he made me pee. however it felt great my head almost poped off. I s he hung, this is the second man, I have ever been with, my last boy friend wasent that big and he never made me do this,what happend, to me. Will this happen all the time. he is still in my bed and SLEEPING, and I want to do it again, but I'm afraide he will leave me, it was a mess my bed is still wet. but it felt awesome, girls I need help!I want him to do it again to me from behind ,I need advise, will this hurt me in the long run, will this happen all the time, is he normal size, is something worng with me or is this normal

2007-07-01 02:41:45 · 7 answers · asked by jnsevier 1

hes not even my bf. hes just someone im dating.

2007-07-01 02:35:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

even if you have someone to sign in and out for you.

2007-07-01 02:31:59 · 11 answers · asked by girl 1

If you found out you were dating a sngle mother. how would you react to that? If you really liked her would you run or stay? Would you date her to see where it would lead? Would you want to take her kids out with you some times on dates to get to know they kids? how many would relly want to date her to marry her? And how many would date her just for the sex? and how many wouldn't date her at all?

2007-07-01 02:22:19 · 17 answers · asked by sassylassy2876 4

2007-07-01 02:19:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-01 01:56:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

every time i am nice to men they think i am an easy target to be nasty to but if i am the same as them i get respect...why not be nice anyway?...to everyone

2007-07-01 01:47:03 · 2 answers · asked by shiva 1

Hi, I really need your help. I have no idea of my own what to do so that is why I am on here trying to find help.

I have been madly in love with a guy for 2 years now. We are only friends though at the moment. We are really really close and get on really really well with one another. I found out about a month ago from one of his best mates that he is leaving the UK to go live in Africa. As you can proberly imagine this upset me quite a bit. I really love him and I have fought for him in previous problems over the past 2 years. The only problem I face now is, he's leaving for Africa in less than 2 month and I still dont know how he feels about me. I have done everything over the past 2 years to drop hints on how much I like him to see if that would make him confess his true feelings for me but it hasnt. As I say, he's leaving in less than 2 months and I really dont want to loose the one thing that means so much to me.
Also he is my teacher, well now ex - teacher.

Please help me

2007-07-01 01:33:52 · 14 answers · asked by I have no idea.... 1

My best friend and i have been friends for about 5 years now. When we were 15 he moved away. I havn't seen him since, but we've kept in contact and we are still really close.

I'm going to be going up in August to see him though. Then next year I'm moving to his city for College.

We've been talking about starting a relationship together. I love him and he's told me he's in love with me.

In August I really want to sleep with him. It'll both our first time.

I'm 17 and he is 18.

Is this ok?

2007-07-01 01:17:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey everyone

Ok this girl i obviously like started not talking to me
so i basically returned the favor for like 4 or five days

on Day 5 she had asked half my friends what my fkn problem is. welll i think she got the message now i wanna startup talking to her again how can i break the ice??

PS does her asking what my problem is a good sign because she wants to talk to me or is she thinking my silence was a clue that i liked her

2007-07-01 01:03:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous