Hey everyone
Ok this girl i obviously like started not talking to me
so i basically returned the favor for like 4 or five days
on Day 5 she had asked half my friends what my fkn problem is. welll i think she got the message now i wanna startup talking to her again how can i break the ice??
PS does her asking what my problem is a good sign because she wants to talk to me or is she thinking my silence was a clue that i liked her
2007-07-01 01:03:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK you guys are the fkn best
I just walked up to her and started talking and she replied with a HUGE smile. any way after talking to her her everyone in her dept was wondering what i said to her to put her in such a good mood, anyway just before lunch she wanted my cell # so she could send me jokes and stuff.
after i gave it to her I told her that i thought she was gonna make me ask for hers.
Any way she's coming over for the forth
wish me luck
2007-07-04 02:02:53 · update #1
Salespeople call this tactic "The Great Takeaway". She was testing you to see where you stood, to see if you'd fight for her interest. Next time, don't let it go 5 days, just say what you mean, and mean what you say. Headgames are painful and habit-forming, if she wants to play them, find another flame.
2007-07-08 22:11:30 · answer #1 · answered by ghemcartographer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give up playing video games and admit first on your innerself which you like this woman and that this can not be a relation wherein you are going to sell off an further nicely soul. Take it straightforward, you ppl already began no longer speaking??? comprehend her larger by way of spending time along with her, appreciate wen she says she doesnt like chinese language nutrition. Be her frend for sometime and then on a similar time as you recognize her by ability of making use of n by ability of making use of, she is yours.... coz you recognize what she needs to be thoroughly happy in life and in case you will have the flexibility to furnish her all the affection and happiness, she is definately intense time yours. Be someone, if she doesnt call you in an afternoon or 2, communicate up and ask her quantity and tell her that its time which you heard her voice too maximum in many situations... Bells r ringing..... rapid
2016-10-19 01:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop playing games and admit first in your innerself that you like this girl and that this is not going to be a relation where you are going to dump another good soul. Take it easy, you ppl already started not talking??? Understand her better by spending time with her, appreciate wen she says she doesnt like chinese food. Be her frend for sometime and then when you know her through n through, she is yours.... coz you know what she wants to be happy in life and if you can give her all the love and happiness, she is definately prime time yours. Be a man, if she doesnt call you in a day or two, speak up and ask her number and tell her that its time that you heard her voice too often... Bells r ringing..... Quick
2007-07-08 20:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See.. problem is .. you started playing a game.. and it is the same game that she was playing.. so now you are in big trouble.. cause you have to either end the game or go and ask all her friends what the $%#n problem is with her.... My thoughts are these..
1) Never get into the games women play ... you can't win.
2) When someone is not talking to you.. go and ask them "are you OK cause it seems like you not talking to me"...
3) NOw you have to end the game.. go and see here and say "JB said you asked wtf is wrong with me.. and I thought I better tell you in person.. cause the problem is Im hurtin cause you wouldnt speak with me and I like you.. a lot.... somethin like that..... and I'm just a dumb boy that doesn't know how to talk to girls so will you ever forgive me, please ... right now would be good if you have it in your heart"
Something like that... you know men should tell the truth more often... you can get a lot of mileage out of it... and not have to remember the spin you used later.
2007-07-01 01:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by Icy Gazpacho 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately it sounds like the girl didnt get that yooh liked her so heres what yooh do. Next time yooh see her just say "Yooh look beautiful Hunneh" and walk away. It may take balls but she will think "omgosh" Then the next time yooh see her ask her out. All that time yooh left between telling her shes beautiful and askin her out will give her time to sort her feelings so that when yooh do ask her out she isnt put on the spot. Good luck Babe xx
2007-07-01 01:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by Claireluvsyaxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her asking shows she noticed you are not talking to her If you like her call her and talk to her like nothing happened and if she asks just say you had allot of crap going on and it had nothing to do with her and sorry if you felt ignored, this has worked for me in the past good luck
2007-07-01 01:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop playing games
2007-07-08 22:32:22 · answer #7 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋