Hi, I really need your help. I have no idea of my own what to do so that is why I am on here trying to find help.
I have been madly in love with a guy for 2 years now. We are only friends though at the moment. We are really really close and get on really really well with one another. I found out about a month ago from one of his best mates that he is leaving the UK to go live in Africa. As you can proberly imagine this upset me quite a bit. I really love him and I have fought for him in previous problems over the past 2 years. The only problem I face now is, he's leaving for Africa in less than 2 month and I still dont know how he feels about me. I have done everything over the past 2 years to drop hints on how much I like him to see if that would make him confess his true feelings for me but it hasnt. As I say, he's leaving in less than 2 months and I really dont want to loose the one thing that means so much to me.
Also he is my teacher, well now ex - teacher.
Please help me
2007-07-01 01:33:52 · 14 answers · asked by I have no idea.... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A man knows within a few minutes of meeting a woman if he is going to marry her! This has not happened in this case. If he had feelings for you he would have acted on them for a LONG time ago. He is a friend. Not a future husband. You have been putting all your energy into something that is isn't meant to be. Let him go to Africa. Open your mind, heart and soul to the universe. The right person will show up when you least expect it. You need to trust in the universe and the right man will come along.
2007-07-08 19:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by Alea S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop dropping hints and get on with the real thing. 60 days or less is gud euff for you to express yourself. Madly in love with someone and still looking for a way to tell him? You both have been so close that you dont even need an excuse to get along. Go up to him to tell him that you are in love with him and cant live without him anymore. Put your foot down before his africa trip sweeps you away....Let me know how you did it... next time then... God Bless!
2007-07-08 21:31:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you. How old is he. Do either of you have partners. If both are consenting single adults and have been for the last two years then tell him how you feel. If not leave well enough alone the grass is not always greener on the other side. Might be a case of wanting what you know you cant have
2007-07-01 02:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted a relationship - he would have got the hint - this is typical pupil - school teacher syndrome - even though he is your ex teacher - going out with you could cause him problems even only if it was suspicion of having a relationship with a pupil.
He knows how you feel and doesn't want it - the only sure fire way to find out his feelings are to ask him direct.
2007-07-01 01:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by jamand 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have been dropping hints for 2 years then the guys a little slow, your hints were to subtle for him, so there is only one thing to do, grab him by the front of his shirt and ask him what the heck is going on?
2007-07-09 01:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suppose u tell him....... u will not have much to lose. If he loves u, well he might think twice about Africa but if he doesn't, better still he will be out of ur space.
Suppose u don't ........u might regret it later, therefore stop fearing the unknown
2007-07-09 01:31:24 · answer #6 · answered by zulusoul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so simple
hes not in love with you
u mean a lot 2 him as a friend only
dont even mention your love to him because ur gonna get dissapointed
2007-07-09 01:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by sarolla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have done everything . but u r not getting things u want. your mind wants to here what u like thats what u r expecting. but if it is not going to happen let it go. time will do everything right. and one main thing
BE WITH SOME ONE WHO LOVES U NOT WITH WHO U LOVE.
2007-07-08 07:25:53 · answer #8 · answered by monti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go straight to him and talk to him. tohugh i doubt its gonna stop him for mleaving to africa. but yo got to get closuer. so go speak to him
2007-07-09 01:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by chuckguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him face to face how you feel about him. If he doesn't feel the same way o well move on.
If you don't tell him before he moves you'll regret it forever.
2007-07-01 01:39:50 · answer #10 · answered by jreeses2673 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋