Singles & Dating - 1 July 2007

Ok so me and my girlfriend just broke up. We were very serious and we were together for 8 months. We had our share of huge fights. And she finally cracked and said that she couldnt be in the relationship anymore. So we broke up and we are just trying to build our relationship (friendship) up again. I have fixed my problems that caused a lot of the stuff that went on, and shes fixing her issues too. So lately we havent been talking alot, so she can have her space to work things out with. But today she called me, and we talked, and at the end she said i love you (normally im the one that has to say it first since the break up) and she also said that she does still care about me, but she just needs to be alone to work things out. Well today she left me a message on aim that said "i sure do miss my baby bear(my nickname with her)". In y'alls opinion do i have a shot at getting back together with her. Because i want do, i think that once we're ok she would too, but what do y'all think?

2007-07-01 12:08:30 · 5 answers · asked by Chris 1

i hate how i am soo shy around boys what do you guys recommend for me to do
any help will be appreciated

2007-07-01 12:06:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I heard once that when it comes to realtionships, men and women of teh same race are naturally attracted to each other. Although we see people dating outside their races dating, i have always wondered if those people were first attracted to their own race. Is this a true fact and what do you think about this?

2007-07-01 12:05:38 · 30 answers · asked by BKool 4

I know this boy, for a pretty long time. We are normal friends then everythig change when i told him who i like(it niot him) Then he doesn't really play with me anymore. And i felt sad that he not around no more. Do i like him or i hate him?

2007-07-01 11:55:41 · 4 answers · asked by kelly 1

me later? then the guy blurts out that the bartender has a
girlfriend? So, why did he apparently want to tell me later that he has had a girlfriend for one week? Why would he tell a guy he ha a girlfriend if maybe he doesn't?

2007-07-01 11:47:52 · 3 answers · asked by So adorable 5

Honestly.

2007-07-01 11:37:57 · 19 answers · asked by La Princesa 6

I really like this one boy, two of my best friends like him too! What should I do?

2007-07-01 11:29:11 · 11 answers · asked by London V 2

I have a huge problem. I like one girl very much. I had asked her out, but she always refused. She did'n tell why, just refused. period. She has some kind of APS (she criticizes herself, has rejected many boyfriends) But she is exceptional. She likes parties a lot, and has many friends. We were close friends until I asked her to meet me, so I could tell ,what I feel to her, but she was afraid. Then I realized, how many mistakes had I made, and how stupid I was. I kinda scared her. She likes chatting on the Internet, but is afraid to talk to me outside . Phone calls also make her anxious... Some days ago I left her a present and she was surprised. She wrote , that she is happy, that I had done so many good things to her. She said, that I was very brave (she didn't expect such a thing from me). Bu she hasn't rejected me. I try to tell her, that she is the most interesting person i've ever met. P.s. Sorry for my grammar. I am from a Baltic country

2007-07-01 11:13:37 · 7 answers · asked by House M.D 3

i really like this grl but i dnt feel comfortable comin out n sayin i like u any advice for droppin discrete hints either online or in person?? grls prefered

2007-07-01 11:12:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

we`ve been together for almost a week
but we`ve been REALLY good friends before.
now that we`re going out, we`re kinda shy around each other...
-he hasn`t kissed me
-he wants to hold my hand but hasn`t.

what should i do the next time i see him [nextweek]
should i just go ahead & make the first move?
if sooo. how?

2007-07-01 11:11:15 · 28 answers · asked by Taylor. 5

well...
theres this girl at school and ive known her for about a year now. We've got really close, and the other day she was saying abput how well we have got to know each other in such a short amount of time on MSN (im in her display pic for tht with her). Even one of her and my best friends noticed this and is trying to set us both up.

As soon as i log into MSN, she says hi to me (if shes online). On her myspace, she has a pic of me with her under her friends bit. She currently has the highest score on my myspace quiz (along with my best mate, but theres some stuff she obvs wouldnt know)

When we pass in the corridors at school etc, we always give each othe high 5s and say hi. I try to sit next to her in as many lessons as possible, and wen i ask her who she sits next to in a lesson she always asks me if i want to sit there.

We meet up in town quite a bit, mainly with others though, or go after school quite a bit.

I want to know if she sees me as a frend or more.....

2007-07-01 11:11:03 · 10 answers · asked by JAMMIN... 2

i aint picky im just hungry. oooooooooohhhhh yeah!

2007-07-01 11:08:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

In the Mormon and Catholic religion when you take vows with your partner, the sealing is very different. In the Mormon religion you seal with "For all time and eternity" while in the Catholic religion you get sealed with "Till death do you part" My bf is Mormon and I'm Catholic. I believe that no matter how you get sealed you will still be reunited with you family in heaven if you did good on earth, even if we're sealed with "Till death do you part" He believes that you will only be reunited with your family in heaven only if your sealed with "For all time and eternity" How is that? Does anybody know more in depth about the Mormons and Catholics? I'm Catholic but, not hardcore into my religion, while my bf is a return missionary, so he is really into the Mormon religion.

2007-07-01 11:07:35 · 6 answers · asked by Lina3 1

I've known them for over 9 years. The first time I met them I fell in love with the woman and felt my heart sink when I found out they were married. But I would never want to come between two people especially not friends. Well the guy dumped her 2 months ago after almost 14 yrs of marriage and I just found this out. I tried to get back in touch with them and the woman told me they were just divorced. She invited me to attend church with her today and then asked me if I wanted to get some lunch. She is devastated with him leaving.

Meanwhile inside I am torn. It was easier when they were together and so I never even entertained thoughts about the woman. But now that he left her, I want her. I know people need to mourn the loss of a LTR and I don't want to pressure her. But at same time I kinda feel like a liar because I am listening to her cry over her ex all the while I wished she was my wife. I feel like I should tell her the truth, but how and when? Help!!

2007-07-01 11:06:49 · 3 answers · asked by wtptoo 3

I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 months. I'm a Christian and wanted to wait to have sex until I am married but things didn't work out that way. He knew that I wanted to wait, it just kinda happened. We didn't plan it or anything. I really want to tell him that I think it would be best if we just waited now. I am really feeling guilty and horrible about what I've been doing. I'm sure he would be ok with it but how do I tell him?

2007-07-01 11:05:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

SOOO... I met this guy at a camp and we are now in a long distance realtionship. He is a really great guy, but I am very very vain. He is not like totally hot, but he's not ugly either! yeah, before anyone says it, i'm just RUDE. i'm 16 and he's 17. But he is sooo sweet. so i am supposed to go and visit him in a couple of weeks, but i keep thinking "he doesn't LOOK like a guy that i should date" u know? i really like him though, but the vainness keeps getting in the way. what can i do to overcome that?

2007-07-01 10:55:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-01 10:50:19 · 23 answers · asked by xxobabeejdolloxx 1

i personally believe that i am too young to get married, i'm 18years old, and constantly felt pressured into doing things i never really felt like doing.

I dont really see the benefit or advantage of getting married. its like all i ever felt was pain in my all f'ing existence i call the "fabolous life" so why commit myself to 40 (or however long) years to one person, who probably will only s.hit on me even more than the people i thought loved me, did.

i dont know, i just dont.

2007-07-01 10:50:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-01 10:48:09 · 23 answers · asked by Sara007 5

I met someone online and i didn't expect the have the feelings i did for this person who i had gotten to know so well. We've been "together" for 10 months now and at first we got along pretty well, nowadays all we do is fight -literally. It's been going on for so long and we can't seem to work it out. I'm a realist and pretty logical, i don't like being naive about things but he lives in a fantasy world. He gets mad when i state the facts about how things really are. We do love eachother, if i didn't love i would of broken it off but i can't seem to do it. I know we're not compatible, he has lied to me in the past about things big and small and expects me to forgive him everytime. I am able to admit to my faults and when i'm wrong even though i am a stubborn person, he can never do it. When we fight he becomes so bitter and immature and i know that fighting brings out a persons real side. I don't want to be with someone like that.

2007-07-01 10:36:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I notice that more women post constructive ideas to mend society and help the earth.

2007-07-01 10:34:25 · 15 answers · asked by CoolLuke 7

I show no interest in the opposite sex around my parents. I have never once said "he is hott" in front of them. I have told them that I am into boys I just don't feel comfortable talking about them to you. I am scared that they will start to think that I am a lesbian. They do know that I am really shy around boys at school. I don't think I will get a bf in high school because I am shy and I live in a small town. Do you think my parents will think that I am a lesbian because I show no interest in boys around them??

2007-07-01 10:09:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been with my gf for 7 months now, im 17 and shes 16. thingsve bin fine between us all this time, weve had our problems and weve managed to work around and work them out, family being our most recent one. its just these last few days she hasnt been talking much with me, everytime i say i love you to her, she doesnt say anything like that back to me nowadayz, i dont get it and its made me feel upset the last few days, ive tried confronting her about it by saying she hasnt been talking with me much and shes said shes been tired and hasnt been feeling it, and i dont know if this is with me or not :(. its not normal to all of a sudden stop talking to me compared to how she used to, ive had a few problems with one of best m8z not liking me and shes told me shes not upset with me for having a go at her m8, ive done nothing to wrong to her to make her feel upset or hurt once!! i dont understand :( i told her il stick by her no mtter what coz i love her alot. i feel pushed away :( advce plz

2007-07-01 10:07:39 · 5 answers · asked by lovestruck 2

Met a woman online & the chemistry was there. We became real close, real quick. However at 26 she has already slept with over 200 men / women & all I want to do now is run. She's done all the typical kinky stuff people do. 3somes, bi encounters, video & ect, ect. She was being brutally honest maybe too honest. She's beautiful, no kids, makes 6 figures & obviously knows how to make love. We spend hours every night talking but when I hang up. A lil voice is going she banged over 200 men & women leave now. What do ya think & be HONEST.

2007-07-01 10:00:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, theres this girl i really like and i always think about her. So once, i had a dream about her.We were at school.And this guy had something i wrote to her but he gave it to her.Then her cheaks turned red and she went up to me and started saying something to me but i cant remember.Then she hugged me. Then we were in class.She wouldnt stop staring at me. Then i started staring at her too.Then after class, we hugged.Is this love?

2007-07-01 09:58:16 · 14 answers · asked by tommym720 2

I'm in Highschool...

Background:

My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 1 month and a half. We kiss (as in peck) to say bye to eachother when we see eachother.

Problem:

We havn't madeout! I'm not trying to rush it or anything because I have never madeout with a boy before. But whenever I am with him, I really want to. When we are on dates we are either at the movies or in eachothers room alone. And those are the two perfect places to kiss boys with out it being awkward.

Question:

Any advice on what to do on the next date?

Is it okay for the girl to make the first move & how?

& please share stories if you want!! lol

...any help please!!

Thank you =)

2007-07-01 09:54:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

1.) People that don't date or have a relationship in high school, do they eventually get a bf or gf??
2.) Would someone not want to be with a person because they never had a relationship before?
3.) Do you know any late bloomers?? Did they eventually get a relationship and how old were they??
4.) If someone does not have a relationship in high school because they are shy or not ready......do their parents think that they are gay or lesbian?

2007-07-01 09:52:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-01 09:52:36 · 9 answers · asked by Sara007 5

2007-07-01 09:51:25 · 11 answers · asked by buttnut 1

ok i 13, we really hit it off, we talk for about two hours!! i didn't really meet him online though he is my bffs good friend, i sent him a pic and he told me i was really pretty, he isn't really good looking though but he isn't ugly i don't care that he isn't hott, but he asked if i wanted to go out sumtime, but he lives like four hours away but cums to visit around my town alot! shud i accept?? o yah i know he isn't a creep online i talked to my bff and she was the one who got me to talk to him

2007-07-01 09:50:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous