tell me your thoughts on this...
2007-07-01 15:37:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you aren't breaking any rules on your end, but your ex's best friend is a total ****** if he goes out with you. That's very uncool.
2007-07-01 15:42:18 · answer #1 · answered by perchorin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can date who you want but uhhh..unless they live in separate cities I would say no. Only because it can be a sticky situation. I am curious..has the guy come on to you or you are just thinking about it. I would be leery if he came on to you because it could be a set up. If you are thinking about it dont do it there are too many other men to choose from. Besides all of this in the end your reputation will be tarnished. If this is your ex's best friend, you will be seen in the bad light not his best friend. And you definitely do not want to be a subject of their conversation since comparing you will become inevitable.
2007-07-01 15:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by philly_q_t_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it just depends on how long you and your ex have been broken up. I think maybe at least 3 months before you date his best friend. Hope I helped!
2007-07-01 15:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your question rests on your answers to the following questions:1)did your ex's best friend have anything to do with your break-up?2)do you care for or love this friend or are you trying to use him to get back at your ex.3)do you still have feelings for your ex4)does your ex's friend have feelings for you; if yes, since when and have both of you been intimate during,after, and since the break-up5)have you talked to his friend about this issue6)are they still friends and do you mind destroying that7)And, finally, ask yourself how you would feel if your ex decided to get together with your best friend.Would it meet with your approval or will you be p.oed big time.Now you know the best answer to your question.
2007-07-01 15:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I wouldn't date an ex's best friend. Because then...they will talk about the things you do together. It wouldn't feel right. That's my opinion
2007-07-01 15:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by Kim W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I" think depends on how long since you all broke up-two,three, or four years. I could have done it but my friend was worth more than a piece of ***. But if she was Oprah or someone in that category my friend would have to understand. But someone who is just a everyday person who may look good today, HELL NO its not worth it.
2007-07-01 15:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by warjo2611 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your ex's friend was that tight with your ex..he may not oblige..but if they werent that tight..then maybe they werent that tight to begin with..my take on it is..how long ago did the ex become the ex..if it was recent then its insult to injury..if not..then these things happen at times,and i wouldnt fret too much about it..heck my own brother married a girl i used to have a crush on..it happens..
2007-07-01 15:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by raul d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you're still friends with you ex or something, who cares! and even if you are still friends with him, he's your ex, what difference should it make to him? if you're comfortable with it and the new guy is comfortable with it, that's all that should matter.
2007-07-01 15:42:04 · answer #8 · answered by heatherr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. Unless you want them comparing notes.
2007-07-01 15:41:28 · answer #9 · answered by BuckeyeGal57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. see http://www.howtodealwithabreakup.com
2007-07-01 15:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by JK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋