Singles & Dating - 24 June 2007

i am going on a date with this guy for the first time. i cant think of anything. but i want it to be low budget but special. any suggestions?

2007-06-24 04:56:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Split up with my ex a few months ago, and I know we weren't ment to be. I'm jealous of couples when I see people together, because I gave so much in the past relationships and know I can give more than the girl with the guy can. It just seems to have backfired.

Give me your advice to believe that I'll find somebody that's right for me, and will give back what I give them. Nobody has came along in the couple of months, and there are so many gorgeous guys out there that are taken.

2007-06-24 04:33:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can someone please tell me everything is gonna be ok? This girl i seen the other night, came to work and seen me. She said she was starting to like me alot. We even kissed about 4 times before she left. .. . She has a boyfriend. I havent spoke to her since then. She also told me that her boyfriend was coming over to spend the weekend with her. Could it be she doesn't want her boyfriend to find out? I'm just scared that she doesn't like me. I mean, i kinda left her alot of phone messages and alot of offline messages yesterday. ... . Please help.

2007-06-24 04:22:12 · 9 answers · asked by Jeremy Medlock 5

plz someone i need advice

2007-06-24 04:13:54 · 30 answers · asked by joey t 1

i'm from philippines and naturally, my complexion is quite dark but not really close to black,just right, but i'm a bit darker than other filipinos. i'm just wondering if guys get a turn off just because of my skin color. i do have a good personality, i mingle with other people nicely, i'm outgoing, has a great sense of humor,got some talents and an active student. i'm 20 and on my senior year in college. back on the old days, when i was in grade school, my classmates used to call me "negra", which means ****** and i'd get pissed off 'cause they're making fun of me. but now, i realized having dark skin is not an inferiority, i believe i'm pretty enough..or what?

2007-06-24 04:10:54 · 22 answers · asked by lannifel 1

...but they are not willing to put in what it takes to MAKE a relationship???!!
I think they should go for casual sex.... but they say they 'want more than that'

2007-06-24 04:10:42 · 13 answers · asked by chandra 6

it freaks me out a little bit but shes a nice enough person so it doesnt really matter that much.

2007-06-24 04:08:14 · 18 answers · asked by jamiecoxy79 2

2007-06-24 04:06:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Weve been together for 3.5 years and have a daughter together. Weve broken up twice in the past 6 months because of HER cheating and lying. She cried her eyes out and I came back again for the third time. She has assured me she wants to be with me and that it took her this time to realize that...but regardless Im still paranoid and worried that it will happen again. She doesnt act very happy with us all the time and gets annoyed by me asking soo many questions and being paranoid. I never used to be like this...but since shes cheated and stuff Im very worried but i love her soo much and want badly for things to work out. Ive told her that if she thinks shes going to so it again or if she isnt happy to just tell me so we can save ourselves the trouble of being hurt again and wasting our time. She said this is what she wants and she is happy but actions speak louder than words.

2007-06-24 04:04:05 · 18 answers · asked by tome615 2

he always looks in my phone to see my text messages and who calls me and I would freely give him my phone to do that but his phone has a unlock code and I am not able to go through it .Should I be worried or not that he is cheating?

2007-06-24 04:03:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

these are 2 poems i wrote a bit ago for my fiance. I am leaving him bcuz he does drugs way too much and i cant handle him anymore. I need help, which poem is best for him to read after i go?

HATE:
i hate that you changed
i hate that ur still the same
i hate that you left
i hate that you stayed.
i hate how i cry
i hate how you make me smile.
i hate how i miss you
i hate how i feel.
i hate how it hurts
i hate that its my fault
i hate that its urs.
i hate that i cant be around you
i hate that i lost you
i hate how i found out who you really are.
i hate how i cant tell you any of this.
but most of all,
i hate how i cant hate you
not even a little
i hate how i still love you.

GOODBYE:
i dont really want to say goodbye
i dont really want to leave you
but i have to go away
i have to stay far away from you forever.
what we had was something special
deep down in our hearts
but now its time for me to go away
and leave you from my heart.

2007-06-24 04:00:42 · 21 answers · asked by Littyah-Love 2

Its been a month since my breakup. We made a clean break and have had no contact. All my friends say that the best way to get over a heartache is to get under another man. Ha ha.. Thats so not me. They all say that as soon as I sleep with someone else I will forget about him. I don't wanna just sleep with someone but I would like to date again. I just dunno if I am ready?

2007-06-24 03:59:22 · 14 answers · asked by Allsad 1

After you said something, she only wrote, "I see..."

Does it mean bad?

Okay, that is what sometimes this friend of mine wrote after I said something in my text like, "I have just read this book by Paulo Coelho.. It's quite nice.." or "I have just visited Lurlene McDaniel's website.. She got lot of books.."

Sometimes though, she would ask another question, like yesterday she asked about the Silver Surfer in F4 and Ratatouille, or Eldest, and other instances she would in turn ask me what books I have read.

The 'I see..." thing, does it 100% mean she's not interested?

What should I do?

2007-06-24 03:56:16 · 8 answers · asked by En Route 1

lol this sounds like a really dumb question i know but hear me out! one of my best friends has this white bf and we hang out a lot. hes awesome and hilarious.....she wont let him touch her hair though because you know...black hair is different i guess..whatever. so we flirt a lot but its like playful and stupid and he knows im really lax with my hair..(ive dated white guys my whole life so) and its not really a big deal but hes ALWAYS touching my hair..and not like tapping it - like running his fingers through it and all that mess..i guess its funny but sometimes im just like "no ***** stop!" and we laugh about it anyway...just curious: are white guys like fascinated with black hair? im guessing hes just doing it because shes kind of uptight about it..i dunno...

2007-06-24 03:54:22 · 15 answers · asked by Gone, Gone, Gone. 4

I supposed to be seeing a guy but he is only out for one thing. He phoned me at 4 o'clock yesterday afternoon and I was at my parents so I'd left my phone upstairs. I him back as I missed that call. He text me back asking if I was sleeping at my parents or if I'd come visit him and sleep there. As I have to clean the room out for my sis anyway as I have officially got a place of my own I decided to stop at my moms. Besides He would only be getting what he wanted when he wanted if I said yes. He knows I want a relationship and I've tried asking him where I stand. he tries to bypass the question. It feels like one big game as we dont really text and call each other that often. Im trying to play hard to get. but he seems only intrested in one thing.

Come on now guys You ain't all after one thing are you? I had A use me for money, sex,and space. Where is mr suite me.

2007-06-24 03:52:08 · 26 answers · asked by Hybrid 2

There's a girl at work that approaches me everytime she sees me and I pretty much blow her off everytime. She has a boyfriend, so i think she is only seeking me out for friendship, however Im not looking for her friendship so I try my best to avoid her. She's hot and taken so I don't really care to be her friend. Not becuz i'm a jerk but becuz I don't want to fall in love with a girl I can't have.

Finally I thought she got the hint the other day but then today she approached me to say hi to me. I just said what's up without looking at her and left it at that. Instead of ignoring her, should I just give in and be her friend?

2007-06-24 03:26:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's very confortable with that, but im not, she has a very nice body, and i would like to be the only one to see it...am i being selfish??! I love her, i don't wan't her to be around naked to other guys....it's not right for other guys to see her sweet body....it's just not right

2007-06-24 03:21:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is the love of my life, i been waiting for this day for years, he says he loves me and that we are going to try again, get engage and marry me. i luv him to death,. if he ever gets STD's he would get fire of his job (just for the type of job that he does)., what am i going to do? i dont wanna loose him, but yet; i dont know how to explain him what i have. i am so scare of loosing him, so scare of what he is going to think of me, and if he leaves me? i dont want him to loose his job. he will be here next month, and first time in 2 years that we see each other again, and this time should be for-good. how or when should i tell him? or should i keep it a secret? since i am on medication he wont get it ( i guess, and hope) i dont know what to do please, please help me :(

2007-06-24 03:13:53 · 13 answers · asked by SG 2 1

me with my m8 n fings at home aint been every gurd eitha n all i wanted to do was cry n so i slit me wrists n i told a couple of me m8s who told me they have done it be4 n der eya 4 me n im scared of gettin hurt again its happened so many times n i have slit me wrists lik 4 times in me life i ust feel it gets away the pain n now im fallin 4 dis lad but i found out e a playa n i duno wt 2 do helpppppppppppppppp..x

2007-06-24 03:12:22 · 5 answers · asked by Pink..Suga..Fairy..x 1

Long hair or Short Hair?

Blue or green or brown eyes?

Tan or pale skin?

make-up or none?

blonde or brown or black hair?

I need to Know!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-06-24 02:58:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating my girfriend for a few months and we are living together. I have a very checkered past and I have told her about all my affairs in previous relationships. Her sister moved in a couple of months ago. I told my girfriend I was not sure if it was a good idea considerying my past. I started sleeping with the sister shortly there after. I just came clean to my girlfriend. She said she has known for a couple of weeks. She came home early and heard us in the bedroom. She didn't say anything at the time. She said she does not want to loose me no matter what. So I said in that case I want to date both of you. I could tell she was sad and yet she just said okay.Her little Sister is happy with the arrangment.This is the first time I openly dated let alone lived with two women at the same time. I like not having to sneak around.Is this all going to blow up in my face?Is it doomed to fail?can I somehow make it work? If it were up to me I would keep it like this til my death

2007-06-24 02:56:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I lied about my age in a personal ad. (I am 43 and I said 40). I met someone who is younger and we’ve been dating for 4 months and plan to move in together next month. To sit her down to confess my real age seems somehow unreal to me. Do I tell her my real age before she moves in with me, or do I wait until we are living together and when an easy opportunity presents itself?

2007-06-24 02:55:15 · 15 answers · asked by chnx 1

my bf does not want me to go ballroom dancing , when he is busy, but I see anything wrong with ballroom dancing

2007-06-24 02:40:44 · 11 answers · asked by ang7371 1

This guy he knows I am in love with him but he clammed up on me. He often tells me he can never get angry at me and one time whenIi got angry at him because he won't answer me so II told him he sucks and he still isn't angry ( I apoligized later) but why can't he get angry at me? He doesn't have much time because he is doing his military service. He is not under the American system we are both in Asia. I can't understand whatever I do he never gets angry at me is this strange?

2007-06-24 02:35:30 · 13 answers · asked by iloveanairforcesoldier 1

well yesturday my girl told me to find a better gf because she was not going to chance the way she is because she do stuff that will make her go to jail and i told her that i will help her chance what should i do about it

2007-06-24 02:34:16 · 3 answers · asked by Jose C 1

I met my boyfriend (now ex) at this car wash at school.
so we met and stuff it moved quick, we started having sex on the first date- while gettting to know each other. so i didnt have no boyfrined- i wanted one dude to be with to see everyday. so basically we never put no title on our relationshipp until the thursday after the tuesday we had sex on the first date.
So his possition was that he had a suga mama, giving him money just for him to have sex wtih her that was there agreeement - thats what he told me.
So basically we were togheter for 3 weeks lovely i saw him everyday.
until i stoped seeing him. i cant see him during the summer cuz of my situation my parents wont let me out of the house , only for school time.
Anyways he used to call me every day during those three weeks, after he stopped seeing me everyday , he stopped caling me for 2 weeks.
So i wondered what happend to him.
he gave me the fone number to his boy- and his boy told me last week -he advised

2007-06-24 02:29:29 · 9 answers · asked by ErOtIC DeSiReS 2

all of the girls in my grade say they love their boyfriends the first day they are going out, but i seriously doubt they do. i dont love my boyfriend yet, i just really enjoy being with him and spending time with him. he knows how i feel about the word love. very few girls think the way i do. in my opinion if you say you love them that soon, youre just setting yourself up for heartbreak. what are your opinions on this?

2007-06-24 02:24:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a dream that I was getting married to my boyfriend. Someone asked me to see my ring and I didn't have one and I said that it was last minute. When I got to the church for the wedding there were a lot of people there and everyone was getting sat down. I wasn't dressed up at all. I was wearing khakis and shirt with a jacket. My boyfriend hadn't shown up yet. So I was waiting and waiting out in the lobby for him while everyone was sitting down. After a while people were looking at their watches because it had been so long and I looked at my mom and said that he wasn't going to show up. The wedding was his idea though. I cried and cried. Afterwards, people left me cards saying how sorry there were and told me to keep the presents and money anyway. I had a conversation w/ my boyfriend the night before and told him I wanted to spend more time with him because we only go out a couple nights a week. I was upset. He thought I was blaming him but was't. What does this mean?

2007-06-24 02:21:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is part of my circle of friends and there is so much pressure on us to stay together because we always hang out as a group, but he's older than me and getting too serious too soon. I just want to be single again but I know he will be so hurt. How do I break up with him so that we can still be friends afterwards?

2007-06-24 01:42:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK well first of all I'd like to say that some girls give other girls a bad name! I mean i was watching this youtube video and it was to show guys how to treat girls and there was all this stuff like "you need to tell us you love us every hour so we don't get upset" and "we get upset for no reason so deal with it" and "we don't understand football so don't get angry when we complain about you watching it" I mean i would HATE for a guy to tell me he loved me every hour and i dont just suddenly out of nowhere get upset at someone and I LOVE football. I dont understand why a girl would make a video about that if I was a guy that would put me off dating anyone ever again! MESSAGE FOR GUYS NOT ALL GIRLS ARE LIKE THAT!!! and what i really don't get why girls get so emotional and clingy when they date someone and then when they break up they either hate the guy for the rest of their life or get all mopey and be like "you were the loveof my life i can't live without you" its just dumb!

2007-06-24 01:19:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous