Singles & Dating - 24 June 2007

Condoms, pills, what is the best if any?

2007-06-24 19:49:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this question seems silly, but since I've never had a girlfriend I have yet to know what people I always see at the movie theaters and on the side of the streets are saying to one another.
When a guy is leaning into the girls ear...whispering "sweet nothings" into her ear...what pray-tell might it be about? Is it light & romantic or personal? Is there a boundary...

2007-06-24 19:43:16 · 4 answers · asked by Stephen J 3

I am extremely shy and I don't usually get the girl she gets me is there any way I can reverse this and get in the drivers seat so that I can start making the moves?

2007-06-24 19:26:28 · 5 answers · asked by Kenneth B 1

I'm head over heels crazy over a particular guy... he's sweet, sensitive, perfect, attractive, everything I could ever want in a guy... And no, I did not just meet him, I've known him for over a year and I have absolutely no doubt that he's THE one.

A couple of minor details, though... I'm Catholic, he's not. He's divorced. These things don't bug me at all, because we respect each other's differences. However, I've had some people tell me that Catholics can't marry non-Catholics within the church... also, there's the little rule about divorced people remarrying becoming adultery/fornication?

I'm sure there must be some way to work around these things, STILL get married in the Catholic church (my family will shun me if I don't) and NOT get excommunicated....

Any help or suggestions greatly appreciated!!!

2007-06-24 19:18:48 · 10 answers · asked by ashleythequestionasker 2

ok so me and my boyfriend we always seeing eachother in the halls and in class while we r in school. now i havnt seen him since graduation adn i really miss him. i saw him last week for a beseball game but he was playing then he left. and i saw him on saturday for a game but he left and it was raining and everything. i really like him and he says he really likes me. i really miss him and he says he really misses me. i have called him and text him and nothing from him and same with our friends. they havnt heard anything eather. should i be freaked?

2007-06-24 19:07:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently met a guy that I really like. We've been out together, talk all the time, etc. Things are going wonderfully, but I think things are TOO good. In the past, when i've liked a person as much as I like him, things don't work out, and something happens to where we no longer keep in contact anymore. None of my relationships have really lasted. I can tell this guy likes me too, just by the way he is around me, and the way we are together. My problem is I am very scared things aren't going to work out and that he and I are going to end up like me and all the other guys. So I was just wondering what should I do? Should I talk to him less and stop spending so much time with him? I don't want to hurt him but I also don't want to be hurt either. It sucks to find someone you really like, only to have that fall apart afterwards.

2007-06-24 19:04:43 · 12 answers · asked by Class_Act83 1

Ya, you ladies all say the same thing. You want a good listener; someone who will be there for you; honesty is the best policy. Yaddayadda. Now, what is it that REALLY attracts you to a guy. Is it that hot bod? His eyes? The way he looks at you? The six pack? His shapely bottom? His dimples? The fact that he can cook? The way he treats others? The fact that he can make you laugh? His sense of style? The way he talks to you? The experiences that you share? Things you have in common? His unique talents/qualities? His car and his wallet (his position of power)? His outrageous self confidence? The fact that you have to call him? That he makes YOU chase him? - And is it true you ladies are better at repressing your sexual desires than us guys? How do you do it? I'd really like some insight on all this. Feel free to post personal stories etc. Please specify your preferences in order and use specic examples/details!

2007-06-24 19:02:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

the person is single and really wants to meet the person but has no reasons why.... why could that be?

2007-06-24 18:54:39 · 8 answers · asked by avocadoadam 4

i really like this guy and i kinda wish i didn't. i've known him for awhile now and i've liked him for months. we tried dating once but neither one of us had time so we ended it. he says he really likes me and he said he thinks he loves me. i want to believe him and i want to be with him but sometimes he can be so mean to me. he has weird mood swings like one minute we'll be laughing it up having a great time and he'll go off like "your so gay" or "your an emo whore" i asked him not to and everything and he said thats how he gets around girls he likes. it really hurts me thats why i dont want to like him anymore really and i've asked him to stop but he wont. he also tries to make me jealous commenting on other girls. i just idk if he really does like me or if he's just playing with my heart. i've spent so many nights crying over him. i'm 14 and he's 16, i dont see how someone like him could like me either....please anyone please tell me what i should do, or how 2 get over him if i shud

2007-06-24 18:49:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-24 18:35:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have had cases of the woman I have been with flirt to much or have cheated. So now I am labeled as the jelous angry guy in my new relationship because I don't allow certain things like night clubs or drinking without me around. So my question is should I just sit around and act like I don't care when she flirts with guy's or hangs around them. Or should I dump her and not be in a commited relationship with a flirty woman. To many times have i seen friends cheated on and them not know it, including myself.

2007-06-24 18:32:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 22 and I like this girl but I found out that she likes older guys; I'm talking 11-17 years older. She says they are more mature, arn't as focused on sex, etc... So apparently it's going to be hard for me to turn her.
I cannot even begin to fathom why a girl would even consider going out with a guy near the age of her father; it makes completely no sense to me. My range for women is like 18-25.
These older guys must just be after the sex, or something...?
What is with you girls? How can you rather be with such an older guy than one your own age?

2007-06-24 18:26:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know you cant for no reason but is it possible to be like raped or something during the night and not know and become pregnant from it???

2007-06-24 18:24:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

When ever i am talking to women that i find attractive I seem to keep checking them out and keep thinking about having sex with them. I really hate that i do this.. How can i stop and stop thinking this way ?

2007-06-24 18:19:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-24 18:14:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well i really need some advice..
This guys ex- girlfriend is one of my good friends too. And he's asked me out on a date but i cant be honest with him because hes to emotional and will cry. What would you do?

2007-06-24 18:06:58 · 9 answers · asked by katiee (: 4

I love him ..I do so much. He went away this week and I miss him terribly I email him everyday. He went out with another girl and I wanted to rip her guts out. He tells me I'm the one that I'm the only one he wants, but yet I broke up with him, I broke his heart. But I still love him and he still wants me, y can't I just be with him. My family doesn't like him and yes I had my reasons but when I miss him so much I can't remember y I broke it off and I don't care I just want him back, but then when I'm around him for along time for like days at a time I remember. Whats wrong with me!

2007-06-24 18:04:49 · 12 answers · asked by whatdoesitmatter05 2

she was pretty [ dont say a fat girl can't be pretty causeI know they can], tallented, smart, creative and a wonderfull person.

even if your friends gave you **** for dating her?

2007-06-24 18:00:38 · 3 answers · asked by wondering 2

this boy i like an he like me back bt he ma he bff brother an he 13 he is 10 months older than me..........but im 2 shy 2 make the 1st move an he want 2 kiss me bt i dont no wat 2 do!!!!!!!!! can any 1 help me im on ma begen

2007-06-24 17:55:39 · 15 answers · asked by boys 1

Is it right to let your anger control your decisions? DOn't you think what you have decided will affect your entire life badly? Do you ever stop and think.. "oh maybe I should've calmed down and talked to her first.. now i lost her for the rest of my life.."

*Fightings all the time... He told her he couldn't take it anymore..He went out with someone else.. Now.. She's Butt hurt.. SO she went out with a person that likes her alot, and started paying attention to him.. Because she's thinking "Oh.. well... theres no way i'll ever have this love back.." He gave her the impression that its all her fault, and that she is the worst lover ever. That he hated her so much. So now she's happy with a new relationship and a thought of him crosses her mind not so often anymore. Now she decided to move far away from him and they would probbably never see each other for the rest of their lives.

2007-06-24 17:48:33 · 2 answers · asked by C12H22O11 4

I'm stained...the blood is on the knife....i've gone and done it now...I can not believe that this is happening...the blood is on my fingers as well...I did not want for it to come to this...I know it is wrong but I did not deserve to treated this way...I can't resist myself to cut some more and look at the blood all around...i'm so enraged right now....I ordered my steak well done dammit!!

2007-06-24 17:37:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I always seem to meet a nice guy and we date well for around a month. Then they always leave me! I dont know why! I'm not an overly sassy girl or anything and I when I do choose a guy I do what he wants sexually (even I hate swallowing). So why is that? How can I keep the next guy? I really have no confidence now.

2007-06-24 17:34:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

on friday night he never came home and supposedly he was with some friends.when i woke up saturday morning i called his cell phone and he claimed he was up all night with his brother and some old friends.when he finally came home i looked in his phone and saw a number that was in his call log numerous times so i wrote it down and put it away.sunday mornig at about 3:30 am his cell rang and it was that number, i answered it and they hung up. ten minutes later the phone rang again from a blocked number. i gave him the phone and heard a female ask what are you doing? he was like, i'm sleeping i'll call you tomorrow. when we woke up i asked him and he said it was his friend alex.then i went into the room where we had 8 condoms 2 were missing and when i asked he said they were in his pocket. when i looked in his wallet there was one. i asked him if he still had both and he claims he gave one to his friend.later on i called that number and sure enough a girl answered. i'm stuck...

2007-06-24 17:30:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok..theres dis guy @ my school. he's my friend n ive known him since 5th grade. we're going in2 8th. im 13 n he's 14 (he started a year l8) well, i lyk him a lot but idk if he lyks me. here's sum stuff he does:

-asks me 2 quiz him b4 a test
-asks help 4 hw (a lot)
-teases me
-asks me 4 money sumtimes
-we have permanent marker fights when da teacher isnt lookin
-we always lyk 2 compete wit each other
-im usually da 1st person he asks 2 c wat i got on my test/hw
-played wit my hair once

but im not sure if he lyks me. cuz we've had fights b4 n yes i did cry b4 b/c of him. in front of him 2 n he actually cared n apologized ovr n ovr. but last year dis kid told him i lyked him n he said he didnt n den sumthing happened n we had a big fight n we didnt talk 4 a whole semester!

one of my teachers think he lyks me. wat do u ppl think?
do u think he's cute?

brown hair
bluegreen/hazel eyes
taller than me (im 5'3"), sporty
rly funny (sumtimes idiotic)
smart
sry its long.

2007-06-24 17:29:28 · 13 answers · asked by i ♥ ♪♫ 2

and my bf is aggressive to that why i stay to my self and when i try to branc out there and meet a nice guy its always that same type just like my bf so what should i do

2007-06-24 17:29:13 · 4 answers · asked by glrgrice 1

Im a mother to a 16 year old boy. His father and I are divorced and we live in separate states 1600 miles apart. My son lives with his dad for the school year but stays with me in the summer. He has a girlfriend back home. Since he has been here with me for the summer, he totally ignores her, and is now hanging out with this girl here and claims that the new girl is now his girlfriend. Yet he refuses to tell his old girl. I talk to his other gf on a regular basis. Should I tell her??

2007-06-24 17:27:14 · 18 answers · asked by tankysgal 2

I have new boy friend and we have been together for about 4 1/2 months. We have been intamite and it is very good but is starting to get repedative. (same positions same pattern every time). What can i do to heat things p with out going overbord into bizar or scary?

2007-06-24 17:26:19 · 16 answers · asked by coolseashell 1

i have a weight problem that i'm working on.....but how do i get over not liking her since she wants someone who's "hott" or "sexy" and i'm not??

2007-06-24 17:16:57 · 11 answers · asked by ~*Dana*~ 1

I'm a white guy and i'm really attracted to white girls, but i'm just wondering if they like white guys

I think we're much better looking than black men and if you look at the most desirable men for interracial couples it's white so why do some white girls want black, middle eastern men??

2007-06-24 17:13:49 · 20 answers · asked by aztekka07 1

i like this guy but i have no idea that is he just flirting with
me or does he actually have feelings for me? this is really confusing. here are some hints: he always looks straight into my eyes whenever we talk, we always smile at each other, even just by looking at one another, he sometimes compliments me saying that ' i look nice today like to the next level' whatever that means, he even asked me how come i dont have a boyfriend twice. so what do you guys think? i dont want to ask him out b/c i want to really get to know him first, in other words i want make sure we both feel the same!

2007-06-24 17:05:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous