i like this guy but i have no idea that is he just flirting with
me or does he actually have feelings for me? this is really confusing. here are some hints: he always looks straight into my eyes whenever we talk, we always smile at each other, even just by looking at one another, he sometimes compliments me saying that ' i look nice today like to the next level' whatever that means, he even asked me how come i dont have a boyfriend twice. so what do you guys think? i dont want to ask him out b/c i want to really get to know him first, in other words i want make sure we both feel the same!
2007-06-24 17:05:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try giving him the same treatment. compliment him and all that good stuff. if he feels the same he will open up.
2007-06-24 17:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by bubbajoe827 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably home right now wondering what he has to do to get through to you. It is not uncommon for a girl to ask a guy out so he is leaving that open. You have a game of chess going on here and are headed to a stalemate like this. You need to ask yourself if you want to fall into that friend catagory while he finds someone else or are you ready to step up to the next level an become his girlfriend.
2007-06-24 17:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really does like you. These are not subtle hints, hon. You can go forward with confidence that he likes you. Try not to force someone "liking you" to mean "has deep feelings for you", though...at least not yet. Ask him out as kind of an indirect thing, like, "We're going bowling tonight. You should come. You can be my "date"? But no hand holding, ok?....until each of us at least gets one strike!" You're gonna do good with this guy! Have fun and let the feelings come later and grow every time you hang out.
2007-06-24 17:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by rlfesty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too easy, He has a thing for u for sure. He thinks you dateable, and attractive but he is being cautious as I am guessing you are.
Try throwing in some hints of your own and see if he bites, and if your too shy to go on a date with him ask him out with some of your friends or something on a friend date (so to speak). Then when your out you can either make moves or not, totally up to you.
2007-06-24 17:10:40 · answer #4 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
one i like guys who look straight at you, too
he's likes you that is evident but likes you as much to ask you out that is the subject....!
now check on few things
1. say u saw a really nice guy 2day....don't overdo but show that u were happy 2 find a guy like that around.....his expressions will show u the way 2 next level
2. how touchy is he.....to see if he's attracted to u.
3. see if he's that kinda guy who likes to be asked out....yes there are guys like that
4. see how personal he gets with u comfortably....that would tel how close he wants to get to u
5. if all these hints are positive tell u one line to say to him he will no whats in your mind but not directly
"don't you think there is something weird/ funny between us ??"
this line I've personally seen fetches results
his reply to this would tel u to make the next important move or not
also i suggest don't rush to ask him out
i guess men must be allowed to come to us with their own pace
pushing them never works
thank you
gud luck
2007-06-24 17:43:22 · answer #5 · answered by biogal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he might like you, or he might just be a friendly flirt. It's hard to tell for sure. He could also just could be trying to be nice.
You should get to know him a little more before you ask him out.
2007-06-24 17:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK LIFE IS TO SHORT TO WAIT IT OUT AND SEE, I WOULD JUST ASK HIM! IF HE SAYS HE LIKES YOU THEN ALL IS GOOD, IF YOUR WORRIED HE WILL SAY NO, PLAY IT OFF LIKE IT DOESNT MATTER EITHER WAY~ FROM ALL THE SIGNS IT SEEMS LIKE HE DOES AND HES JUST A SHY GUY! SO GO FOR IT!!!!!!
2007-06-24 17:11:33 · answer #7 · answered by kandjforever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aren't girls supposed to have a higher EQ than guys? I suppose u could eat lunch with him with a couple of friends, (as friends) I guess u'd know then.
2007-06-24 17:09:39 · answer #8 · answered by vince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you ask him out, you can get to know him more in depth when you go out with him.
2007-06-24 17:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by Musically Minded 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he really likes you ask him out i am sure he is wondering if you like him he is probably trying to work up courage to ask you out
2007-06-24 17:10:06 · answer #10 · answered by TERESA R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋