on friday night he never came home and supposedly he was with some friends.when i woke up saturday morning i called his cell phone and he claimed he was up all night with his brother and some old friends.when he finally came home i looked in his phone and saw a number that was in his call log numerous times so i wrote it down and put it away.sunday mornig at about 3:30 am his cell rang and it was that number, i answered it and they hung up. ten minutes later the phone rang again from a blocked number. i gave him the phone and heard a female ask what are you doing? he was like, i'm sleeping i'll call you tomorrow. when we woke up i asked him and he said it was his friend alex.then i went into the room where we had 8 condoms 2 were missing and when i asked he said they were in his pocket. when i looked in his wallet there was one. i asked him if he still had both and he claims he gave one to his friend.later on i called that number and sure enough a girl answered. i'm stuck...
2007-06-24 17:30:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first off slow down. there's a big possibility that that you're reading into it too much. it may not be what you think so first thing just cool yur jets. Plus even if it is a girl that may not be doing that. i would think he could still talk to girls. but if im wrong once a cheater always a cheater
2007-06-24 17:34:52 · answer #1 · answered by dont think about it 2009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself why your boyfriend is carrying condoms in his pocket in the first place when he goes out. I think the answer is right in front of you. He's obviously being dishonest about who is calling his phone so what else is he dishonest about. Do you really want to stay in a relationship where you're always checking up on him because things don't make sense? Dump the loser! You're playing the fool.
2007-06-25 00:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by Brie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his stories are not adding up. you keep finding things that make you concerned and with good reason. he's cheating! you have enough evidence to convict him even though he does have some decent excuses for each thing you come up with but lets keep it real.........aint nobody stupid! when a man is caught doing wrong the least he could do is tell the truth to (one) give you closure to the incident and (two) to assure you that your not crazy. anything else is an insult to your intelligence. what you need to do now is figure out if this is what you want to keep dealing with or do you want to handle this straight up like a real woman and give him the boot like he truly deserves cause he's not done. whats it gonna be, girl!
2007-06-25 00:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always ask him who he gave the condom to and ask them if they were even with him and all that stuff.
Or you can call the girl and question her.
If she says nothing is up with them ask her why in the world
is she calling your man and 3 in the morning, and how does she know him and all that. you might lose his trust but, its
still very odd. i had to look like a psycho girl calling my boyfriends ex to see what was up. and even after she told me alot of stuff he still denied it saying "she just don't want us to be together" then later i found out that for a whole three months while we were dating he was messing with a totally different girl that he worked with. i paid him back to.. called my ex up and started hanging out with him. then after me and my bf broke up i was blowing it in his face that i was with someone else. but now a year and a half later i'm back with him... haha.. very weird story actually. but i say call the number and talk to the girl. Good Luck. and hopefully you're just scaring yourself and he is being a good faithful boyfriend just having a little fun with some old friends.
2007-06-25 00:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by ohsosweeto2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be sure, it's obvious he's cheating. Why would you doubt it, or to put it another way, why aren't you sure? I wish I was there to hear him try to explain away all this evidence. Get rid of the dude, if nothing else, a guy should be at least faithful to you.
2007-06-25 00:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by Kalamazoo Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your gut. If you have to keep asking, you may just be playing the unavoiding the obvious game with him. Ask yourself if it's worth worrying over, if he's worth crying over. A real man who loves you won't make you cry out of frustration or suspicion and won't play games with your heart and head.
2007-06-25 00:34:41 · answer #6 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-06-25 00:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by fine touch of class 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, he is cheating on you. If you want verification, call the girl from another number and tell her you want to talk to her face to face. Meet her at a public place for protection. ( a restaurant)
2007-06-25 00:37:26 · answer #8 · answered by hotmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your intuition is on the right path. I would advise raising it directly. You'll have a gut reaction on whether he's covering his tracks or being straight with you.
2007-06-25 00:35:06 · answer #9 · answered by Michael 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably cheating. Sorry. Atleast he is using condoms! You should just ask him. Or better yet, as the girl whose number it is.
2007-06-25 00:34:25 · answer #10 · answered by baby.c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋