I had a dream that I was getting married to my boyfriend. Someone asked me to see my ring and I didn't have one and I said that it was last minute. When I got to the church for the wedding there were a lot of people there and everyone was getting sat down. I wasn't dressed up at all. I was wearing khakis and shirt with a jacket. My boyfriend hadn't shown up yet. So I was waiting and waiting out in the lobby for him while everyone was sitting down. After a while people were looking at their watches because it had been so long and I looked at my mom and said that he wasn't going to show up. The wedding was his idea though. I cried and cried. Afterwards, people left me cards saying how sorry there were and told me to keep the presents and money anyway. I had a conversation w/ my boyfriend the night before and told him I wanted to spend more time with him because we only go out a couple nights a week. I was upset. He thought I was blaming him but was't. What does this mean?
2007-06-24 02:21:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No ring , NO show === NO TRUST === MOVE ON!! Why are you not content with a couple of nights a week?? I'll tell you why ....cause you don't trust him . You need to find somebody you don't have this issue with. TRUST ME
2007-06-24 02:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by aspecialfred 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you really love the guy and maybe want to think about marriage, but you have doubts. or you think he has doubts.
Dreams can mean so many different things.
Before my wedding, I dreamt I was wearing an awful green dress, and painting...got paint all over the dress, and the worst part was the groom was not my fiance - it was an ex-bf!! yikes.
2007-06-24 09:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by J3NN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, it is only a dream, and that is that, you had your dream because you want more from this relationship, and because you told your boyfriend, and he got upset, and you came home and went to bed with that conversation on your mind and that is where your dream came from.
To put your mind at ease, I would talk to him about how you really feel, and communicate with him, communication is the best in any relationship!!!
After you talk and he finds out where you are coming from and you find out where he is coming from, then your dreams will subside.
2007-06-24 09:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means you are very anxious about your relationship, and you don't think he cares about you as much as you do him.
I don't think going out a couple nights a week is too bad.
However, if you have doubts about his commitment to the relationship, and you are dreaming about it, your inner consciousness could be telling you he's not the right one for you.
2007-06-24 09:28:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This dream is similar to the very common one of walking down the street and all of a sudden, finding you are naked. It just a way of your fears and anxieties that you keep hidden surfacing. These kind are very common. Everyone has them. Nothing to worry about.
2007-06-24 09:26:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is .... you are wrestling (internally) with the question "Am I ready to get married?" Why do I say that? Well, your dream has signs of things where you are the one who is out of place. No ring, no dress.
More important question I'd ask myself is: Why do you want to get married?
2007-06-24 09:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by seanroyce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also pay attention to my dreams. I typically look them up on an online dream page. I look up the individual symbols in the dream dictionary and piece it together. I compare the dream to what is happening in my life and figure out the meaning. I hope this helps.
http://www.dreammoods.com/
2007-06-24 09:27:22 · answer #7 · answered by m_adamson8 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must have gone to sleep thinking about getting married, dreams are weird.
2007-06-24 09:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by swiftyknife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The subconscious mind is a weird thing at best, explain to him what happened!
2007-06-24 09:27:17 · answer #9 · answered by Luminare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are afraid he won't be there for you in your most important moments in life.
2007-06-24 09:24:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋