Split up with my ex a few months ago, and I know we weren't ment to be. I'm jealous of couples when I see people together, because I gave so much in the past relationships and know I can give more than the girl with the guy can. It just seems to have backfired.
Give me your advice to believe that I'll find somebody that's right for me, and will give back what I give them. Nobody has came along in the couple of months, and there are so many gorgeous guys out there that are taken.
2007-06-24 04:33:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be patient and don't compromise if it gets delayed to find one!
2007-06-24 04:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by Juliu C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"...I know we weren't ment to be. I'm jealous of couples when I see people together...I can give more than the girl with the guy can....and there are so many gorgeous guys out there that are taken."
It sounds like you need to figure out what you want in a relationship. It sounds like you want to be with someone as an accessory. This may not be the case, but I'll respond to what I think is best given what you wrote.
I would say, and I'm probably the fish that swimming against the stream here, but you need to figure out what you want in a relationship and why you want a relationship. Is it for the companionship? Is it for someone to compliment (compliments not in the "giving a compliment" sense) you?
Take some time and figure it out. If not, there may be the possibility that you bounce from bad relationship to bad relationship...and that would hurt more.
2007-06-24 04:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by sphere_68 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it has only been a couple of months! Give it some time. What are you doing to meet new people? Keep yourself busy, be independant. While it is good to be kind and giving, sometimes you have to hold a little bit back. Most guys, regardless of their intentions will treat you how you teach them to treat you, if you are always there, always "giving" to them trying to keep them, it will push them away some. Be strong and act like you expect something in return for all of your giving. Try not to let your whole life revolve around the next guy that comes along, the more involved that you are with other aspects of your life, the more a guy will chase you and once he gets you, he will respect you more.
2007-06-24 04:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by civic9497 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is like life itself. Its fullof chances and choices. Sometimes you pick or choose the right one and sometimes not, but to enjoy life to its fullest one must try as many as one can and whatever happens learn from it and move on to the next one. You tried one love and it wasnt meant to be so try another but youll be more selective and careful which is a normal reaction, but if you dont get back into the game then youve lost allthat life offers. There is someone out here for everyone and when you least expect it and in the most unlikely place Mr or Ms Right will suddenly appear, but then comes the big problem will you recognize them and know what to do with them ? Life is full of 2nd and 3rd chances,you just have to recognize them but dont ever quit. Good luck
2007-06-24 04:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, it sounds like you are a giver until there is nothing left. It is about give and take. I notice givers never notice other givers because it is not their objective to take. The takers will sure notice you, and take all you've got. You have to let him lead. Ye ol male ego does not like to feel useless and powerless to you. The gift of giving is hard to top. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Just don't try to top him. Yep, see how many men like to feel superior? We let them think so. A lot of them like to feel like they are doing something we could never possibly do or out do. You have to put that pride away sometimes, too. You have to humble yourself to really get the man you want.
2007-06-24 05:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by Kathleen b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it like this. In a relationship, someone is going to love someone more. They can't love equally since one had to work hard for the relationship. And also there are plenty of fish in the sea. And i read somewhere that someone's going to have this period of time in their life where many people will love you at the same time. :D *i'm believing that it's true cuz it means life's going to be fun :D*
2007-06-24 04:41:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did the relationship fail? It sounds like you have a lot to "prove" and that may get inthe way of what yo are looking for.
I would see what flaws there are within myself and amend those before heading out again.
You run the risk of falling back into the same situation, and getting the same results
2007-06-24 04:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When you meet the right person, you'll know it. I promise. It will be like nothing you have ever experienced before. And you won't have to constantly give and get nothing in return. Keep looking. You will find him.
2007-06-24 04:39:37 · answer #8 · answered by Runa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When, you fnd the answer, e-mail me because I feel that there is no one out there that is truly for me, truly worthy of my love. I have so much to give, but nobody that's worthy to give it to. I'm getting up there in age (30), and I'm sick of the games! I feel your pain...
2007-06-24 04:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
that guy is out there still... dont give up hope... just try not to look for someone cause you usually end up looking to hard and never find the one... sometimes they are right infront of you :) hope this helps... good luck! :D
2007-06-24 04:38:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋