Singles & Dating - 12 June 2007

I'm really worried about one of my best friends. A few days ago she went out with a guy she's known for a while. He was quite pushy and they started doing stuff, but she explained that she didn't want to go all the way. He said that was fine and he wouldn't push her. He then asked her to turn around. She was wary but trusted him not to have sex with her and did as he said. He then had sex with her. She was very shocked but told me that once he'd started she felt the damage had been done and that even if she made him stop, she would still have had sex with him. So she didn't stop him and afterwards just went home. She's really upset about this but adament that she wasn't raped because she didn't stop him. I'm not sure because she didn't give her consent. It's difficult to talk to her about it because she gets hysterical, saying she refuses to be a victim. I love her so much and hate to see her like this. What do you think?

2007-06-12 05:12:11 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would be the best way of sleeping with my mates girl without him finding out,we had a kiss and a grope last night and now i want to go at her like mad.

All help welcome.

2007-06-12 05:04:34 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I was in class today doing some small group discussions in my Communications and Gender class and this kid next to me says, "So, how old are you?" out of nowhere, and I said, "Guess."
Him: "22?"
Me: Nope
Him: 23??
Me: higher
Him: 24????? (Raising eyebrows in shock)
Me: Try again
Him: 25???!!! Wow! Well I mean, you still look young!

HAHAHAHAHA. Wow. Then he says the classic,
"So how come you're not married yet???"
I say nothing. Because really, that nosy buggy question doesn't warrant a response, nor does it have an answer. And he says, "Well there's always the sperm bank."

HE SAID THAT!!!!! And when I looked at him to see if he was joking, he wasn't! He said, "No seriously, I mean that's always an option for people like you. I know a few girls who've considered it"

PEOPLE LIKE YOU!!!!!!!!!

So my question is, what the hell is Utah's deal?

2007-06-12 05:02:09 · 17 answers · asked by emmie 2

cuz im not sure he likes me but i like him so how do i let him know with out exactly telling him..?

2007-06-12 04:48:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

he didnt talk to me for a week, but now hes calling me and texting me. i dont understand why..

2007-06-12 04:45:19 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had a medical condition which caused me to balloon in size a few years back. ive now lost the weight but have been left with strechmarks and a few wobbly bits! im told im pretty but im scared that when it comes time to do the deed the guy im seeing will be put off! how superficial are men?

2007-06-12 04:37:15 · 38 answers · asked by pinkchick 2

I am going out with a guy I like a lot. Hes so sweet. But he has been having issues.I got his AIM password and I looked on it .I dont know why. So I went on there and I looked at it. wow. One of his "groups" was "girlfriends" and there was 21 PEOPLE!(I AM his GF!!)Then I looked at another "group" and it was "Hot Girls" and I am like "Well I wonder who is under that..and so I asked my friend to get on my AIM so I could see what I was under.(Becuase I am HIS gf)Luckile I was under "girlfriends" but you see other people were under it too such as my best friend and more of my friends.
We have1 class together in school. He flirts with a girl while I am sitting right there. He flirts with her like every day. And She is under "girlfriends" in his list on AIM. So I am scared.But I still love him so much and he dont know that I know his AIM deal.and he says he loves me but do I believe him? I dont want to break up with him.I love him alot.
please help.(without me breakin up)
Am I to yonge?..12

2007-06-12 04:27:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

For the record I have not shown any interest in men either.

2007-06-12 04:24:16 · 6 answers · asked by mattpfrog 3

2007-06-12 04:23:23 · 34 answers · asked by snowforestblue 1

or a turn off.tell me what u think guys

2007-06-12 04:21:06 · 7 answers · asked by jenny 1

When a girl is not interested in a guy, she still treats him very well and explains very clearly to him about their relationship...just for friends...

Why does other girl just ignore a guy's call, e-mail etc when she is not interested? That guy may have known and contacted with her for a long. And the suddenly forever ignore will make the guy feeling very upset, uncertain, lost etc...Is this a bad girl? Is she just wants others to suffer or what? Any opinion?

2007-06-12 04:20:07 · 7 answers · asked by Greattobehere 1

My best (male) friend started going out with a stripper. Now, not being a prude and selling sex toys as a side job (see? I SWEAR I'm not a prude. I DO get the "stripper" allure) I don't get it when you look at the baggage. She's 8 years younger (okay, a plus to men) but:

Married with a hubby in Iraq
Has four, yes FOUR, children
The youngest baby is from a different daddy than the soldier daddy
Gets my friend to babysit every weekend while she strips and lives with him on the weekend.

From her perspective, she's lucked out. A guy with a good job who doesn't mind her situation. But for me, on the outside? It sounds like a huge trainwreck. So my question is, Is the "stripper" thing enough to balance the other stuff? And, after a while wouldn't the "my girlfriend gives lapdances to other men" thing start to make you jealous?

Do I just not get this because I'm a woman?

2007-06-12 04:16:48 · 29 answers · asked by Karen 2

my ex cheated on me with a 15 year old girl not only that he ditch me for other girls and i know i was being stupid but i really love him i been thru alot since i was 14 and when i got with him i didnt trust nobody he show me how to trust now i wishing he didnt come in my life i was pregnant by him and the baby die he left me than we hooked back up then i got pregnant again and he cheated on me with my cousin that i cant stand him we got in a fist fight me and the girl and i lost my baby thru all the ddrama we still stay together now its really getting crazy cause now he cheated on me with this 15 year old girl plus i went to jail behind him because the girl was talking mad stuff and i told her i was going to kill her i moved to san marcos got my cna license and everything but just when i think everything couldnt get worse he moved in with her i love this boy but he needs to grown up you think if i let him alone for a while he'll changed or shall i say **** him(excuse my french)

2007-06-12 04:15:58 · 39 answers · asked by Raven_SO_F*kin_Sexy_09 1

2007-06-12 04:04:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this girl that heard a rumor that i liked her i thought it embarassing and said nothing to her the whole 2nd semester i didnt know her at all. well the next school year i approach her and asked for her number and she said ill give you my number later like monday she said and it was a friday. shes now dating some imature black kid in her class. shes indian. why do you think she was so cold and also lied and told me she had a bf when she DIDNT at the moment i asked her? the wierd thing is is that shes known as a hot girl but also really shy but she always flirts with me and never does anything- SHE doesnt treat ANYONE the same way. we both graduated just 2 weeks ago but i was wondering do yall think i ever had a shot or was she just playing. its so hard to forget about her cause i thought we'd always make a good couple. could she have also been on a little power trip since shes probably never had that?

2007-06-12 04:02:32 · 3 answers · asked by LDshayne 1

hello i am boy of 16 and i need to know what i should advoid doing in front of the girl i like, but at the same time i will get her to like me. i spoke to her last year and the past year we have not but she seems that she likes me what should i do.

2007-06-12 03:57:51 · 18 answers · asked by Carl F 2

2007-06-12 03:57:43 · 10 answers · asked by Toves 1

I and my long D ex, after a year on and off, we finally compromised to be friend for now. I did not really call him since then, as I think we are just normal friend now. Few days ago when I got the news that something bad happened in his home country, I was worried about his family there. I decided to call him and tell him that he should call his mom and see if things there were okay. The first time I called, he answered but he said he couldn't talk and will call back. So finally, I just text him and asked him to call his mom, then I went to bed. He called me back one hour later while I was asleep, I was half awake and can't remember clearly what he said. He said something like his mom was okay, thanks, where u got the news...I am just thinking if I did the right thing to call? or I should just cut the connection with him as he indeed hurt me a lot before.

2007-06-12 03:41:18 · 15 answers · asked by bebe 1

I have a girlfriend who is 26 yo. We are planning for marriage in 2 years, but I helping her to save about $100 to $200 per month. I had a hard time convince her to save up for our future. But she secretly spending away the saving account, giving excuses that she sometimes need money to buy clothes and pay her bills. And telling me that it is ok. When I hold on to atm card to prevent her from withdrawing. And sometime when ask her to put money into it. (I have no access to her account)She will say I am extorting her and say it is none of my concern. What would you do if you will me. In Singapore buying house and marriage need lump sum of money. If I don't help her save, end of the day I will be paying for everything, right. (Cost of living is high) Feeling helpless...

2007-06-12 03:38:20 · 6 answers · asked by ButterMilkQueso 2

Is it normal to be best friends with your first love after you have split up. My GF is says her best friend is her ex of 2 years and ive never heard of anyone being in this situation before and im worried caus i think he still loves her.

2007-06-12 03:36:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was seeing this girl for a while, and she was not my girl we just liked being together and we had sex a couple of times...The thing is, she is known to be a promiscuous person all over campus, and I hate to hear people talkin about her. I just told her we shouldn't be together anymore even though we did nasty!! I don't wanna be with her because she is known to be promiscuous, but other than that she is great!!

2007-06-12 03:33:05 · 31 answers · asked by iMack 1

I am black but I love latins girls, and have dated white, mixed, and asian. My family are not racist but want me to find a girl within my race. I am not prejudice agianst black girls and most girls i date are black. I just like who ever i am attracted to. is that a problem?

2007-06-12 03:31:33 · 18 answers · asked by playa4life01 2

i have a teacher who love us girls. it is so gross. hes like 60 yrs. old. we tried to tell our princapal but she didnt do anything. he get pics of his female students and keeps them in his desk. dont u think t his is wrong.also when the prettiest girl got sick he brought food and flowers too her house.isnt this wrong

2007-06-12 03:25:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex bf beat me up which is how i met the police man. hes been round a few of times for different reasons. hes seperated from his wife and im pretty sure he likes me, he says stuff like youve got muscey arms and i wouldnt complain if you had no clothes on, i think hes flirting with me. well today he has been round but hes not anymore as there is no need. how can i tell him i like him when all i know is the station he works at and which school is children go to. xxx

2007-06-12 03:16:08 · 15 answers · asked by princess 2

I always seem to meet guys that have not got over their ex's or have completely mentally scared them for life!! We meet up and we go out then a few dates later its usually i have got back with my ex or i am not ready for a relationship. I am beginning to wonder if its something to do with me?? and will i ever meet a guy that is over his ex i am 27 and it keeps happening!!

2007-06-12 03:14:56 · 30 answers · asked by british gurly 3

My boyfriend and I broke up a year ago after 5 years together. He dumped me for some girl he works with. I was so hurt and cried for 8 months. I was finally moving on when he contacted me to tell how much he misses me and how much I still turn him on and he wants to get together to... you know, but he's still with this other girl!! They live together. I don't know what to think. I still love him so much. If his relationship with his new girl was so great, he wouldn't be willing to risk their relationship to mess around with me, right?? Now I'm sad again and I don't know what to think. I want to be with him again so badly, but is he just using me or could he have relized he made a mistake??

2007-06-12 03:14:43 · 19 answers · asked by Kat 2

i am this long distance relationship and he is 6 yrs older than me. im not ready for sex but he is and he really respects that im not and im glad cuz not many guys do. (i get to see him on the weekends) but everynow and then when he is just dyin to have sex he will break up with me just for the week or a little longer. then when he is done with his wild week we will start goin back out. (im just glad he does that instead of cheatin on me when he wants to.) what should i do? should i stay with him or next time he breaks up with me leave him for good?

2007-06-12 03:11:28 · 14 answers · asked by STiLL<3HiM 2

what makes a woman approachable?

2007-06-12 03:00:22 · 9 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3

Who is a black girl has dated two white men in the past. Every time she wants a proper relationship with them they always tell her that never what a serious relationship.

Is it that they are ashamed to take home a black girl home to meet family/friends?

Just using her for one 'thing'.

Both have said to her that they are not racist.

Yahoo answers readers views please.

2007-06-12 01:17:51 · 28 answers · asked by Sam L 1

would you say seven and half inches is big or just average

2007-06-12 00:54:21 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous