Singles & Dating - 12 June 2007

Suddenly, Jonas had felt anxiousness and visions had quickly flashed through his mind.
Jonas visions included all of the horrible and terrific events that had occurred in his life
Including all of the precious lessons from the Giver about the real world, and the times spent together with his beloved family.
Tears started to roll down from Jonas eyes, while wondering if this was an end for him and Gabriel. Jonas hold Gabriel tightly, while kissing her on her smooth pimples cheek, knowing that they would soon separate from each other, forever. “Gabriel, as we spend our last minutes together, I hope that you will always remember that no matter what happens, you would always be in my heart, deep down.”Jonas tightly closed his eyes, while holding Gabriel tightly against his chest, knowing that something tragic would happen next in their life. But after a few minutes, he had felt no pain at all, it was completely weird.

2007-06-12 13:04:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend who made the mistake of giving this guy her cell phone number and from day one he will send her 50 or more text messages a day....it stopped for almost six months and now they are starting up again...its so bad her text message mailbox is always full by the end of the day.....she doesnt respond and he leaves messages like "what are you doing"...."Are you busy"....even at wee hours in the morning.......like 2am....I told her why dont she just tell him to stop......she said she did once but it hurt his feelings....now she is asking me what should she do?......What are your thoughts on this....

2007-06-12 13:03:45 · 9 answers · asked by T B 4

me and my boyfriend both have never kissed anyone; but i know were going to. the thing is, i dont want to look like a COMPLETE idiot and ruin the special moment. and dont say like "oh dont worry. just do it and it will come naturally" or "dont worry; he probably feels the same way." because that doesnt really help. i need some REAL advice. (and that does not include practicing on my pillow or hand)

2007-06-12 12:58:07 · 14 answers · asked by Melissa m 2

2007-06-12 12:57:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-12 12:56:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parant never told me how to have sex how do you?

2007-06-12 12:52:18 · 13 answers · asked by david-rea@sbcglobal.net 1

I have been going out with my girlfriend for almost a year now. I love her very much. I have seen her every single day since we started dating except for the days that I have to travel for work. I have always been sort of an independent and I really enjoy the time I spend with her, but I enjoy my alone time very much as well. Does this make me a bad person?

How can I tell her I would like an entire day to myself a couple times a month at least? Is that too much to ask? As the past year has come and went, I started to realize more and more that I really enjoy being alone when I get a chance, plus, seeing her after a long absence feels really good. What should I do?

2007-06-12 12:52:06 · 12 answers · asked by still_feel_gone83 2

I was just wondering if there is something specifically that makes a girl hott. What does a hott girl wear? What's her hair like? Just wondering. I've been told I'm hott and that my friend isn't but I'm not sure why....What makes a girl hott?

2007-06-12 12:46:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so I’d liked him for 2 years and at the time, [ 2 years ago] I wasn’t noticing how immature or dumb he was, I just loved his very funny personality. We had this thing called ‘the stare game’ where almost everyday in one way or another we’d always be staring at each other. This especially happened more when the two classes of mine he was in, in my 8th grade class were suddenly without his presence as the semester ended and a new one began. As we moved on to high school, the staring was just the same [if not a little more even], but we didn’t have any classes together so we never spoke, though various times I would find a way to make myself ‘noticed’ to him by walking into the class of the same teacher I had a diff. period and asking him (the teacher) a random question, though I’d never be bold enough to talk to my crush himself. So as the year when ton nothing between us really happened, he just looked at me a lot and vice versa. Then this year, EVERYTHING had to change. He came to finally be in one of my classes and at first I was kind of upset that he was, but then I started being happy a little. He never really talked to me unless he had to, or wanted something, but then we started getting used to each other I guess and he started joking around with me a little like he used to. As the months progressed I was once again on a dumb roller coaster ride. There were days he made me happy and I just knew he absolutely liked me, and then days he would just ignore me or flirt with other girls and I’d end up crying for that stupid reason. The staring was still going on by the way, at lunch or when ever he was with his friends he never really stopped. There was one day where my I was sitting in my desk reading a magazine and my teacher told me to put it away and my friend just blurts out [to him] “Why are you always staring at her? Do you like her?” and he answers (in the most un sarcastic voice ever) “Yea, I like her…” then starts rambling on about how I was putting away the book all slow after the teacher had told me to put it away…So that really got me thinking. Then we went on Holiday break for two weeks and came back. Nothing really changed that much. He was still staring and I was starting to think of ways to tell him how I felt. Then, he started being really mean to me. I mean really. I don’t even know why I still liked him after this, but yea. He’d yell at me and sorta push me out the way when I was up getting my book or the papers we were supposed to be getting that day, and he and his little immature 9th grade friend were always laughing and looking at me, so I knew they were talking about me. Stupid as it was, it made me cry, but I still had feelings for him. And the staring was ending either. Then exactly a month ago tomorrow, I did something I’d never dreamed of doing. I told him I liked him. I wrote him a note and told him how I felt. Just three days earlier he’d called me ugly because he thought I’d been talking about him, when it was really my friend who was making the joke [I was just laughing w/her]. So, why I wrote him the note still, I guess you could say I’m just really stupid. If you can’t tell by now he’s way immature to the point where he acts like a 6th grader trapped in a 10th grader’s body, he’s not the brightest bulb in the box and he’s very outgoing and can make friends with almost anyone whereas I’m maybe almost the exact opposite. So for the next 9 days I was DYING anticipating what his reply was going to be because we were on Spring Break and I didn’t see him. Come the Monday we come back……nothing happened. I was so sure he was just going to give me a note back telling me he didn’t feel the same way or something, but he didn’t even do that. He never even tried to talk to me. So I couldn't even bring myself to look at him during the period, but my friend told me he was staring at me. And for the rest of the week nothing happened. He never talked to me, but stared, and continued to laugh and play around in class like he’d never even read the note. Then the next Monday, I decided to talk to him about it. After class I went up to him and asked him if we could talk and he agreed. I asked him about the note and why he never wrote back (I also noticed how nervous he’d suddenly become) to which I got the reply “I don’t write notes,” which is understandable because I guess most guys don’t. So I then asked him what he thought and how he felt. (by now he was half way to his seat in his next class and I was standing there in the doorway) “I just wanna be friends.” Came out of his mouth and I said Ok and left it at that. ‘Friends’…what type of friends he thought we were I don’t understand that. How you can call someone who you’re so mean to a friend, I don’t know. The next couple of days, I was pretty happy I’d just even had enough guts to talk to him about it, but then I started realizing how much I really wanted to add a d onto the “I like you” I’d written in the note. Because by the time I’d wrote the note I was already starting to get over him slowly and I felt like the note was just “something I needed to do” to finnaly get over him. The day after that little talk he stared. And then a couple of days later his little 9th grade friend was like “no eye contact!” when he’d gotten up to get a paper he needed, making me think my (ex) crush had let his friends make his decision for him instead of he making it himself. So now we’re here and the staring (though diminished just a tad) still happens sometimes, we never talk in class anymore he goes on with his life in class just as happy and immature as ever and without a care. Finally, my question to you is, do you think he did like me? I only care because I felt like he really did at some point. There were so many things that he did that at one point I was so sure….and if so, what do you think could have happened or changed that made him give up as I now have on him?

2007-06-12 12:39:30 · 5 answers · asked by cherry♥cola~ 1

ok so whats the deal with him...i heard from all his friend co workers that he likes me, and they tease him about it, he knows i think he's cute...but hasnt made a move. he gives some hints like he doesnt say hi,or be playful with me but is goofy around everybody else, once i was talking to him and he was at the computer and he turned around and looked straight into my eyes for the longest time while i was talking to him, i always catch anaylising every move i do (say i look at him or smile or laugh), and asks his female co-workes what that means, etc, once i caught him staring at me when i was walking toward his direction until i got near him and had to go to the other side and lost sight if he was looking...i was told he was dating this girl at work but i never see them together she was even making fun of how he likes me to other co-worker the other day,so i think that a rumor. also he must know i know portuguese cuz he was said hi to me in port. and said he was learning the language

2007-06-12 12:37:47 · 2 answers · asked by 101 1

2007-06-12 12:32:07 · 4 answers · asked by I hate pink 3

He could have any women. He's perfect, sweet, kind, loving understanding and a genius in Columbia law school currently going at 20. He is goreuous 6'9, broad sholders, tan, black hair, blue eyes, in amazing shape. One problem he is a virgin, by choice philosophical/religous reasons.He is Catholic, doesn't act holier than thou and very understanding. I used to date him. his last two girlfriends werent virgins one lied to him other cheated on him after 4 month, they said they were sorry loved him. a week after, i was asking him about relationship then he said he would Never date or marry a non-virgin I WOULD RATHER NEVER GET MARRIED AND DIE A VIRGIN. I died on the inside.he was never like this before im not a virgin and he treated me the same a gf who was. he said there is a double standard with guy virgin he is right. so do i have a chance. I thought i was too young to be serious i threw away the best guy ever. i have date other guys. all the other guys out there are real losers

2007-06-12 12:24:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont really care abt someone's look... but this guy just caught my eyes, i never talk to him.. attraction..crush wutever it is it is... its serious...
at first when i saw him i just thot he's good lookin but after a few days after seeing him i just cant stop thinkin abt him... he's close to my locker and we take the same bus(not everyday tho).... i m really a shy girl when it comes to this kinda matter.. but frindly and nice to everybody... wut shud i do now.. iwanna talk to him so bad.. just want an excuse to talk to him...how can we have a conversation.
btw... sometime i stare at him... and he knos smt is going on my mind... he is kind of reserved guy but frindly too... dats wut ppl say... girls u may have same kind of situation as me... and guys if u know the guy thing wut can i do now....

thx for answering

2007-06-12 12:05:34 · 13 answers · asked by star 2

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and I love him with all my heart and we are even going to get married soon but the thing is I think he is too controlling. He wants to know everything, where I go, What i'm doing, who I am having lunch with, call him before and after lunch. When he calls me at work on my direct line and I don't pick up he keeps calling and calling untill I answer and then ask me where I was or what I was doing, and then blames me if I was with someone else and if I love him ect. He has to go everywhere with me, I meanwhen I go to lunch at work and I want to run an errand and he ask me why didn't you do it after work? Then goes on about me cheating on him because I didn't wait to go with him after work. I mean it startting to get alittle tiring trying to tell him I love him and would not ever cheat on him but I feel like he don't belive me. I tell him everyday that I love him and he means the world to me. I am confused weather to marry him or not??

2007-06-12 12:03:49 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am currently dating some one, who I've been with for almost a year. Recently I've been thinking about my ex, who I was wit for 2 years off and on. He is currently talking to another girl and I have my boyfriend. But he was my first love and I also love the boy that I'm wit now. I don't want to give up what I have now but these feelings just won't go away. Last night I read some letters that my ex wrote me when we were together(it probably wasn't the best thing to do) after I read them I started pouring down crying. What should I do? What can I do?

2007-06-12 11:59:17 · 4 answers · asked by Lost_In_Love 1

2007-06-12 11:53:42 · 19 answers · asked by david h 1

2007-06-12 11:51:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whenever I wear I sweater, my mom makes me take it off even though I think that its cold. I try to tell her that I really am cold but she thinks Im faking it for attention. Why wont she beleive me? How can I get her to beleive me?One more thing, and why am I always so cold?

2007-06-12 11:49:10 · 5 answers · asked by gothic_and_proud936 1

This is not the first time I have posted questions about this female. She told me today "If you want to be with me and have anything to do with me, you will have to give up everything". And yes, that even includes my DOG.

2007-06-12 11:46:35 · 42 answers · asked by psycho magnet 4

Ok, so me and my best guy friend finally admitted that we like eachother. He tells me and his friends that we are "kinda but kinda not together", and he says "there are no strings attached" and says "sure will get jealous, but we still have freedom". I ask him if it will be like this for long or will we soon make it more of a commitment?, and he say yea. His friend even tells him that he is leading me on. And he is the biggest flirt when it comes to other girls. Is he just leading me on, or does he really want us to be a couple? What should i do? Should i just go back to being just friends with him? or get closer to him and finally be a couple?

2007-06-12 11:46:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would be the best way to tell someone you love them if it isn't someone you can see in person on a regular basis?

2007-06-12 11:42:26 · 3 answers · asked by southernsweetie 3

some guys tries to look up your skirt and you are in 8th grade and he does to other girls in your class

2007-06-12 11:39:54 · 15 answers · asked by ♥k-pod♥ 3

My fiancee has been in Iraq for 2 years, am planning a romantic get-a-way. We will need to eat, but don't want to go out. Got any ideas? Need some suggestions for a romantic evening.

2007-06-12 11:39:17 · 5 answers · asked by bkqueenie 1

ok i kno this sounds stupid but i went to a privite school ALL my life and the next high school im going to alotta kids do dip,smoke,drink and have sex im just scared wat if i do something stupid!!! and all schools in my state are liek that so swiching schools wouldnt help!

2007-06-12 11:38:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do we fall out of love because of smells?

2007-06-12 11:37:56 · 7 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

Skater, smart, sarcastic guy or athletic, funny and nice guy?

2007-06-12 11:34:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-12 11:33:28 · 9 answers · asked by Munchkin 5

My friend asked my crush does he like me. He said he does not know. I have a feeling that my friend told my crush that I like him instead. She can be very mean sometimes. Now he is looking at me more often. Do you think he looks at me because he likes me or he feels awkward about the situation?

2007-06-12 11:32:07 · 28 answers · asked by Tiffany 2

a while age there was this woman in my martial arts class. she was 37 and i was 17. she was married and had two kids. she was very cute though, she was asian and looked younger.

i found her very attractive and acted shy around her and she might've noticed me checking her out. after a while, i noticed that she would touch me a lot. she was an assistant instructor. like, when she's showing me how to hold the kicking pad, she's grab my hand and position it, when i'm holding the board for someone, she'd always come help me by holding me shoulders from behind, and sometimes we'd be doing the splits for warm ups, she'd actually push down on my thighs. she didn't do the same with everybody.

i really don't think she was actually attracted to me, because i didn't act cool around her and i'm not really good looking.

does it sound like she might've actually been doing that because she knew i had the hots for her and was trying to be nice?

2007-06-12 11:31:11 · 22 answers · asked by ? 2

take this mini quiz i just want yur oppinion !
your fav hair color ?

big boobs or big a$s ?

make-up or no makeup?
[make up is natural not cakey]

skinny or curvey?

smart or dumb or im the middle ?

2007-06-12 11:30:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous