What do you do when you start having feelings for an ex boyfriend?

Question

I am currently dating some one, who I've been with for almost a year. Recently I've been thinking about my ex, who I was wit for 2 years off and on. He is currently talking to another girl and I have my boyfriend. But he was my first love and I also love the boy that I'm wit now. I don't want to give up what I have now but these feelings just won't go away. Last night I read some letters that my ex wrote me when we were together(it probably wasn't the best thing to do) after I read them I started pouring down crying. What should I do? What can I do?

Answer 1

nothing forget him he is an ex for a reason dear remember the bad times .

Answer 2

It's normal to think about it just as a memory but the past is the past and it is already history and that's all it is. Unless you are planning to go back to him, then it's best to keep away from reminiscing about your past with him. And, the best way to do so is to not encourage your mind by reliving these memories through objects such as reading letters and other tangible objects that remind you of him. Instead, make new memories with your present loved one and do something together where you will bond. Life is too short to hold yourself back from the love you deserve.

Answer 3

Well just remember all the times he made you cry and feel low. Then feel free and fortunate you are no longer with him. You need to move on and concentrate on what you want out of life.

Answer 4

I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. DON'T GO WITH THE FEELINGS! THE RELATIONSHIP ENDED FOR A REASON AND YOU NEED TO REMIND YOURSELF OF THAT REASON. YOUR CURRENT RELATIONSHIP COULD END UP AS SOMETHING WONDERFUL. THE PAST IS THE PAST AND IF GOD WANTED YOU TO LIVE IN THE PAST HE WOULD HAVE PUT EYES BEHIND YOUR HEAD... DON'T LOOK BACK ANYMORE!! ENJOY LIFE. IT'LL GET EASIER EVERYDAY! I PROMISE!!