a while age there was this woman in my martial arts class. she was 37 and i was 17. she was married and had two kids. she was very cute though, she was asian and looked younger.
i found her very attractive and acted shy around her and she might've noticed me checking her out. after a while, i noticed that she would touch me a lot. she was an assistant instructor. like, when she's showing me how to hold the kicking pad, she's grab my hand and position it, when i'm holding the board for someone, she'd always come help me by holding me shoulders from behind, and sometimes we'd be doing the splits for warm ups, she'd actually push down on my thighs. she didn't do the same with everybody.
i really don't think she was actually attracted to me, because i didn't act cool around her and i'm not really good looking.
does it sound like she might've actually been doing that because she knew i had the hots for her and was trying to be nice?
2007-06-12 11:31:11 · 22 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm almost positive she wasn't attracted to me... if she was the type who was into younger boys, she'd find a better looking one... and plus, i acted really lame and unconfident around her... i'm just wondering whether she was actually touching me, because she knew i had the hots for her and i'd like it.
2007-06-12 11:44:06 · update #1
She was probably doing it to be nice, but you never know.
2007-06-12 11:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by Aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you were probably interpreting every move this woman did as a sign that she liked you. I don't mean to sound mean about this, but she may have seen you as another child figure (she is 20 years older than you after all...) However, if she was going out of her way to touch you, and if pushing your thigh down was intrusive (even if you didn't mind) she shouldn't be allowed to work with minors.
2007-06-12 11:36:59 · answer #2 · answered by Carol G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tip dont ever question if some one is interested in you. if your interested in a girl do what you can to make sure she knows it. and gain freken confidence i used to think i was unattractive fact is i was shy and i actually ignored girls while they were hitting on me becuase i thought that way. now i realize it was all in my head and girls are attracted to me. she might have been just doing her job and i doubt she realized you were interested but if you showed interest like smiled at her when you got eye contact. and showed interest she probably would have showed it back. but tip stick with girls your own age no point in waist your time with someone who you cant have a relationship with.
2007-06-12 13:12:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should know better.. you are too young for her.. As you get older, as for not being good looking, if you are taking care of yourself, working out, etc. and have a nice personality, that goes a long way!
2007-06-12 11:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by Oceanbreeze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...... Well, she has three kids, so I'm going to go with she was just trying to help you because she knew that you liked her. My brother really likes one of his teachers, so she spends a lot of time with him. It's... bizzare. I think you should just forget about her though, cuz she's just one of those people who will come and go but think about getting yourself a girl.
2007-06-12 11:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by yoyoyowatup3579 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She was just doing her job and being polite. As you pointed out she is a married woman with kids, to her your a kid and she was just trying to help you out!
2007-06-12 11:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by unknown friend 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, sorry she was just doing her job no offense but maybe you couldn't do the splits as well and she was giving you a hand.
2007-06-12 11:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey she is too old for you find someone ur own age. she is being a big tease. don't fall for her mindless tricks. she is married and may be happy. even if she isn't all u will be is the OTHER ONE. you will have more opportunities.
2007-06-12 11:38:09 · answer #8 · answered by veronica n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you were acting shy. She was just trying help you come out of your shell.
2007-06-12 11:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anthony H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was being nice...ppl will still be flirtatious-cute to get a point across. Don't get it too much into your head
be professional about it...next time, take your confidence and be straight up
2007-06-12 11:36:56 · answer #10 · answered by Introverted White Waves 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋