kissing. helpp?

Question

me and my boyfriend both have never kissed anyone; but i know were going to. the thing is, i dont want to look like a COMPLETE idiot and ruin the special moment. and dont say like "oh dont worry. just do it and it will come naturally" or "dont worry; he probably feels the same way." because that doesnt really help. i need some REAL advice. (and that does not include practicing on my pillow or hand)

Answer 1

I don think there is any way anyone can tell you how to kiss to avoid doing the wrong thing the first time. If you wish to know more about kisses, you can check up the following.

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A kiss (from Old English cyssan "to kiss," in turn from coss "a kiss," perhaps onomatopoeic) is the touching with the lips. The scientific name for kissing is osculation.

Anthropologists have not reached a consensus as to whether kissing is a learned or an instinctive behavior. It may be related to grooming behavior also seen between other animals, or arising as a result of mothers premasticating [1] food for their children. Kissing allows prospective mates to smell and taste each other's pheromones for biological compatibility. Women are subconsciously more attracted to men whose major histocompatibility complex portion of their genome is different than her own, leading to offspring with resistance to a greater number of diseases, and thus having a better chance of survival. [2] [3] [4] This explains why couples are more likely to bond if they have the right "chemistry". Many non-human primates also exhibit kissing behavior.[5]
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Answer 2

When i was younger I totally obsessed about this question from the age of 13 till i was married... Kissing to me always seems so personal and I wanted to not be seen as a loser when I did it... 1.) practice on an orange, I know that sounds dumb and yes I actually did this... 2.) When using tounge Use the step method. First do a peck on the lips, then go for a little tiny bit of tounge into his mouth, Then go deeper into his mouth without trying to block his airway (by the way men often think more tounge is amazijng in whcih it isn't, and I think other ladies will agree with me) then do this for a bit just playing with his tounge and yours togteher, then go back to only a little tounge to tease him and then give him another Peck on the lips... Make sure when doing thsi you tell him how to do it too or it wont work but its a great way to first kiss a guy.. Add a little sugar (literally put sugar in your mouth) for more fun and a sweeter kiss..

Answer 3

Try to relax first and try to think about what you should do ,but most of all do not feel like a idiot because then Maybe your boyfriend Willl feel that maybe he did some thing wrong.

And first kiss are always a little weird be you wil get the hanging of it really.

Answer 4

just close your eyes. you cant explain how to kiss. its an unbelievable special moment, and we seriously can not give you advice, but just like you said dont worry, it will come naturally. and he does feel the same way. how do you know hes not asking the same exact question on yahoo answers about you?!

just seriously...close your eyes, wear lipgloss so your lips arent all chapped and gross, and brush your teeth. people say bring a mint, but mints taste goes away soon, use minty gum!!! the taste stays longer that way.


GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 5

First kiss for both of you, eh? It *will* be awkward. It will also be unforgettable. There really is nothing you can do about it - your first time will be your first time, there's no way around that.

Relax, it'll all be fine. Don't expect shooting stars to go off - real life doesn't work that way. Expect it to be awkward and weird, that way you won't be disappointed. It'll still be exciting and new, and special for both of you.

Then kiss him a second time. It'll go much better! :-)

Answer 6

it depends on what kind of kiss u want, a fast one or actually making out
a fast one is just like a kiss you would give on a cheek but this time on the lips and if you want to make out rub ur tounge against his

Answer 7

Well mkay,first kiss may mean alot to you and i understand,try to be confident and not ruin the moment,act like you are used to this and it comes easy to you.After kissing him smile so he knows his kiss was sweet to you (even if it sucks,make him feel good).
-Just peck him gently and calmy,don't rush or push your your lips towards his or the outcome will be unsatisfactory and painful.
-Don't bite just peck nicely,don't be aggressive.
-Start out with a smile and end with one to.
-Don't seem nervous or scared or else he will to.
-If your nf is shy you take the lead.

Good luck.=]

Answer 8

well it kinda sounds stupid but i asked my parents how to kiss. my older sister let me practice with her (washed my mouth out with listerine for 2 hours) but it helped alot. if you dont have older bro then my only advise is that the champion at everything was once a begginer

Answer 9

i srry but if u and ur boyfriend really love each other then it will come naturally because the feeling will come from the heart

=)

Answer 10

just be open to him about the fact that you havent kissed anyone before.. it might be exciting for him since he's not experienced too and most likely it'll be less embarassing for him...