i threw him away?

Question

He could have any women. He's perfect, sweet, kind, loving understanding and a genius in Columbia law school currently going at 20. He is goreuous 6'9, broad sholders, tan, black hair, blue eyes, in amazing shape. One problem he is a virgin, by choice philosophical/religous reasons.He is Catholic, doesn't act holier than thou and very understanding. I used to date him. his last two girlfriends werent virgins one lied to him other cheated on him after 4 month, they said they were sorry loved him. a week after, i was asking him about relationship then he said he would Never date or marry a non-virgin I WOULD RATHER NEVER GET MARRIED AND DIE A VIRGIN. I died on the inside.he was never like this before im not a virgin and he treated me the same a gf who was. he said there is a double standard with guy virgin he is right. so do i have a chance. I thought i was too young to be serious i threw away the best guy ever. i have date other guys. all the other guys out there are real losers

Answer 1

Usually people talk about women who have their hearts broken and then swear off all men. In the long run it usually doesn't mean much - they still fall in love again and get married. The same sort of thing may be going on with this guy.

Right now, he's at an emotional point where he isn't ready to have a relationship with you. That doesn't make him bad, it doesn't make you bad, it just means that circumstances aren't right for the two of you to be a couple. However, that doesn't mean circumstances won't change in the future.

If you want him, stay friends with him for now. Go slow. Things may not look great for romance right now, but it ain't over yet.

Answer 2

if he doesn't like that you don't have a chance im also a catholic