ok i kno this sounds stupid but i went to a privite school ALL my life and the next high school im going to alotta kids do dip,smoke,drink and have sex im just scared wat if i do something stupid!!! and all schools in my state are liek that so swiching schools wouldnt help!
2007-06-12 11:38:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK Nicole...don´t worry...maybe things are not so bad as you think...maybe..just maybe...you are overreacting....i think that the best thing for you to do is to go to that school...prepared to affront everything...and having in clear what kind of person you are...what you do and what you don't do.... do.n´t let those strange ones change the way you see and think about some things....and you'll be alright!!! :) Good luck!!!
Cinderella
2007-06-12 11:53:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a hard thing to not get caught up activities like that, but if you have a strong will you will hold up just fine. One good thing about high school is that there are so many different people there ... if I were you I'd make sure to stay away from circumstances that could get you into trouble ... good luck.
2007-06-12 18:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK.... This is interesting. You just have to keep a straight head. Find the people that aren't like that, cuz not all people do drugs, smoke, drink, and have sex. If anyone tries to get you to do these things, inform an adult. And, have you tried talking to your parents about this? Surprisingly, they have very wise insites on this sort of thing...
Good Luck!
2007-06-12 18:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by yoyoyowatup3579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. how do you know all the schools in your state are like that? Been to every on of them?
2. Don't hang out with those kids
3. Hope it doesn't take you 6 yrs to graduate
2007-06-12 18:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have to have the willpower to refuse temptation. Just because the other people are doing it doesn't mean you have to! Some people are going to say you're not cool if you don't do this stuff, but its better to not be cool that be pregnant, or stoned, or in jail! There must be at least a few people there with some morals; try to be friends with them!
2007-06-12 18:45:22 · answer #5 · answered by Flying Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably scared because you've heard rumours of how you will be corrupted. Ive gone to public school My whole life where our problems are probably worse than yours. Especially if your moving from a private school your parents wouldn't send you anywhere too bad. At my local high school there is not one kid who hasn't done pot or who's friend hasn't. Its not as bad as it seems. Your someone who seems very conscious and aware of what to do and what not to do. I'm sure you ll be great.
2007-06-12 18:43:13 · answer #6 · answered by Banana Rama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick you spots
Always look at the big picture...repeated drinking and smoking at a young age will screw you over eventually even if you can get away with it a handful of times at first
Choose who you want to be around...if they're your type or have simlar interests...you'll make more deeper and reliable friendships and enjoy their company instead of a bunch of stoned losers whom you have to constantly keep up with
2007-06-12 18:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember to stand your ground if your new friends offer something you dont want to do. and find a happy medium on how you act. Dont do everything they do just to fit in, but dont act like an uptight private school kid either.
Also, not EVERYBODY does that stuff. All schools have diversity so find a group that suits you.
Good luck and dont be nervous!
2007-06-12 18:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by Brooke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of kids may do that but it is really up to you everyone always says say no it's easy if you don't want to do it just walk away and if you are the type who knows how to choose friends wisely (it looks like you are) then you won't run into this problem. YOU DECIDE WHAT YOUR FUTURE HOLDS AND REMEMBER WHAT YOU DO TODAY DETERMINES YOUR TOMORROW!!!
2007-06-12 18:45:36 · answer #9 · answered by goldprincess6832 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm...if someone askes u to do something u don't wanna like drink say i can't i am gonna have to wake up early tomorrow i cna't drink tonight. and if smoking is a problem say . im allergic to the particals in the cigerret. but if u notice urself starting these things go to ur teacher or councler they can alway help!!!
2007-06-12 18:43:03 · answer #10 · answered by Liv ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋