i dont really care abt someone's look... but this guy just caught my eyes, i never talk to him.. attraction..crush wutever it is it is... its serious...
at first when i saw him i just thot he's good lookin but after a few days after seeing him i just cant stop thinkin abt him... he's close to my locker and we take the same bus(not everyday tho).... i m really a shy girl when it comes to this kinda matter.. but frindly and nice to everybody... wut shud i do now.. iwanna talk to him so bad.. just want an excuse to talk to him...how can we have a conversation.
btw... sometime i stare at him... and he knos smt is going on my mind... he is kind of reserved guy but frindly too... dats wut ppl say... girls u may have same kind of situation as me... and guys if u know the guy thing wut can i do now....
thx for answering
2007-06-12 12:05:34 · 13 answers · asked by star 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do the 'accidentally' bumping into him thing as the area is crowded to get a conversation started. When you apologize don't turn shy, pretend you are talking to any ol friend you normally do and make sure you mention the ol ' i hope we talk like this more often' your tone of voice should tip him off that you are a bit shy so he can get the idea that he might be the one that has to engage in the conversations first till you get less shy with him.
2007-06-12 12:13:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First; see if you can find out from his frends if he ever says he likes you; if that's the case, you can be fairly certain if you asked him out you wouldn't get refused. The other way is to have a couple of your friends join you and just happen to say to him "we're going to [insert desired activity here] would you like to join us?" Make certain the activity is something that allows for interaction and conversation, like bowling, minature golf, etc. Whenever you talk to him, make certain you look at him and smile. The subject matter is not very important, what's important is that you get him talking with you. If by the end of the outing, he hasn't at least hinted about asking you for a date (or your phone number), you could ask if he would like to come with you and your friends the next time. If he likes you, but is too shy to ask for a date, he will almost certainly agree to join your group again. The next time show up alone, saying your friends couldn't make it at the last minute! You'll have him all to yourself! This is a little bit sneaky way of getting a date, but they say; all is fair in love and war! Good luck!
2007-06-12 12:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by Flying Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-06-12 12:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by mtvtoni 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doesn't sound like you've talked to him before. If you think this guy will never make a move, then you have a few options. Sounds to me like he wont make a move, so you are going to have to approach him somehow.
My guess is is you are a bit younger, so the way most girls go about this is getting one of their friends to ask for them. But, if you are feeling brave, stroll right up to the guy and talk to him (try something like, "Hey, I thought you were cute, so I wanted to come say hi").
2007-06-12 12:11:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you're actually not a good decide of your seems (do no longer take that as an insult i'm in basic terms speculating)? a photograph could help. additionally must be this variety of people you loaf around with.
2016-10-17 01:53:47 · answer #5 · answered by dicken 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Muster the courage to go up and say hi, and start a conversation. Sometimes it is just chemistry that attracts people, so just go for it.
2007-06-12 12:08:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need an excuse to talk to him! just go up and talk; I know you're shy but do it anyway. It's the only way you'll ever get over it.
2007-06-12 12:08:27 · answer #7 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just gather courage and talk to him. Don't hesitate. It wouldn't be a problem talking to him if he is nice to everbody. Just do it. It's simple as that.
2007-06-12 12:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by Attila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how u feel..But no matter what u have to talk to him!
Don't worrie about what to say!Just tell him anything that you think is right!Follow ur heart!~~BEST WISHES~~
2007-06-12 12:12:53 · answer #9 · answered by Ivory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR GUNNA HAVE TO GET OUT YOU SHELL AND TALK TO HIM. U NEED TO TAKE CHANCES....BECAUSE IF YOU DONT TALK TO HIM...HE IS GUNNA GO FIND ANOTHER GIRLFRIEND. IT SEEMS LIKE HE WANTS TO GET TO KNO YOU TOO. JUST OPEN UP!
2007-06-12 12:09:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋