theres this girl that heard a rumor that i liked her i thought it embarassing and said nothing to her the whole 2nd semester i didnt know her at all. well the next school year i approach her and asked for her number and she said ill give you my number later like monday she said and it was a friday. shes now dating some imature black kid in her class. shes indian. why do you think she was so cold and also lied and told me she had a bf when she DIDNT at the moment i asked her? the wierd thing is is that shes known as a hot girl but also really shy but she always flirts with me and never does anything- SHE doesnt treat ANYONE the same way. we both graduated just 2 weeks ago but i was wondering do yall think i ever had a shot or was she just playing. its so hard to forget about her cause i thought we'd always make a good couple. could she have also been on a little power trip since shes probably never had that?
2007-06-12 04:02:32 · 3 answers · asked by LDshayne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok let me get this straight. She hears through the grapevine you like her--perhaps she's pleased by that. SO you show her how much you really DISLIKE her by avoiding her for months and months just b/c someone thought you would actually date her. So of course she takes this as The thought that other people would even THINK you would date a person like her is so distasteful that you won't even be seen talking to her for months.
And now you are like Hey you look good now. Lets date.
Did she change radically over the summer or what? What makes her date worthy to you NOW when it was horribly distasteful before?
No doubt this girl is thinking you are shallow and superficial if your opinion of her can change so radically so quickly. If she was interested in you, you made it clear she shouldn't be. But she didn't want to be mean and say that--so she just said "umm maybe later".
She wasn't playing. You were. If you really thought you guys would make a good couple you wouldn't have rejected her so harshly. And now you lost your chance. But if you are genuine, she might give you another chance--but you'd have to prove yourself as not some fickle guy that cares more about a rumor than about her. After all, her fear is what if you hear another rumor--perhaps one like she's cheating on you--would you actually talk to her about it or just stop talking to her again with no explanation? You care too much about the rumor mill boy. High school is over.
2007-06-12 04:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by phantom_of_valkyrie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 13:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just had a learning experience, learn from it, move on.
When she said she would give you her number 3 days later, that was your tip off.
2007-06-12 04:10:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋