Singles & Dating - 15 May 2007

I dated a guy long distance, and when we started dating, he was very interested, always calling me and even flew down to see me. We dated for about 2 months and decided the distance was too hard and so we decided to just stay in touch. Recently, I ran into his friend, who kept telling me how great of a guy he is, and how he really liked me, and thinks he still does, and that I should move. I ended up seeing the guy I dated later in the evening and we ended up hooking up with each other. The next day he kept telling me he didn't want me to leave and that he missed me. We began chatting on line again and flirting, but then a week later, he went on a date. I haven't asked him about it, because I don't how to bring it up. He flirts with me online and tells me he still likes me. My friends say there is still interest, but because of the distance, he is seeing what else is out there. Should I bring up the date and ask what is going on between us still? Any advice would be great.

2007-05-15 19:44:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I keep on hearing it all the time,I live with nothing but girls so I hear this alot. How long should I wait before we have sex? Then they look at me and ask the same question. Well my point of view if you give it up too fast then your pretty easy( No ofense). I would rather have a girl make me wait atleast 3 weeks or more. Hell I've waited 6 months before she gave in. so my question is this, so I can get these damn girls to leave me alone.

How Long should you wait to have sex in a new relationship?

2007-05-15 19:39:59 · 27 answers · asked by thechriseffect23 1

I had a crush on a guy that I use to work with, but I never made a move because I was married at the time. Now I am single and wondering how I can find him. I don't want to spend any money. So any suggestions will be nice.

2007-05-15 19:39:03 · 4 answers · asked by betty_htch 5

my ex n me broke up last year, but now he sometimes creeps my profile site n messages me that he'd like to talk to me sometimes...my friends does not want me talkin to him since what he did was mean and that there is no reason for me to be nice to him bk. last year he asked me out when he was already dating someone else, and i nvr knew...he didn't talk to me much after we had been dating for awhile...he ignored me alot n walked passed me like he was mad...anyways now he wants my msn, but i dunno if i should, he's currently dating someone else, but still, i've been ignoring him all this time and yet he still wants to talk...?! i dunno what to do, should i talk to him again or no?

2007-05-15 19:35:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My family and his family are really close friends and I've know this guy for almost 4 years now. He's only 5 months older than me, we're both 17 but he'll be 18 before i am. Everytime I get off the phone from talking with him, he lives in another city, I always have the biggest smile on my face and I'm usually happy for the rest of the week at least I'm told. I don't know what I'm feeling for this guy, but I do know that he makes me laugh and I have so much fun talking to him every chance I get. We have so much in common and we always give each other advice if we have a problem. But for once this is a advice I cannot go to him for.

2007-05-15 19:32:43 · 13 answers · asked by Nigerian Babe Gurl 2

I never tried anal, even though some of my friends said it was fun, we're all straight and they were all talking about witha woman. I mentioned it once toa girlfriend and she was like, NO WAY! Is it really that good or am I not missing out onanything? I don't know it jsut seems gross to me

2007-05-15 19:31:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-15 19:27:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were dating for 4 months. Things were getting pretty serious, when we got into a silly fight. I thought we had made up. but now he's disappeared. I called him a couple times last week, and he hasnt called back. He hasn't even sent me an email. How could he just disappear after telling me he cares about me? I miss him! I'm almost 30, I thought we were too old for these games.

2007-05-15 19:27:47 · 9 answers · asked by andbriantoo 1

My ex boyfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago. The last time I called him was in the middle of April.. I have spoken to him a few times since then, but he's the one that keeps calling me.. I dont call him, and yet hes the one that broke it off. What do you think that means? Is he just being a friendly considerate guy, or could it be something more?

2007-05-15 19:24:14 · 16 answers · asked by Claudia M 3

Been with this girl for six months. We had been arguing cause she cut off the intimacy and everything else that girlfriends would do (kissing, holding hands) But would still want to be treated like a girlfriend. She would always blame me for "wanting it" so she was not attracted to it. I just wanted a girlfriend. Not a female friend. She has bullimia or did, she hates herself and her figure. She stopped talking to me two weeks ago. Just stopped. Imagine doing all you can for a girl, and poof, she is gone. She texted me and said "I'm sorry, I couldn't do it anymore" My reaction is do what? be a friend? she wouldn't answer my calls, or even give me a closure. I texted her saying does she have feelings? I texted saying this isn't right what she is doing. No response. Its as if the girl is dead. I have no idea what happened here? She has dissappeared. Do I let this go? Its been over two weeks so I emailed saying I will be there for her for her eating disorder. Was this a bad idea?

2007-05-15 19:22:56 · 13 answers · asked by D 1

I used too be like that but I'm helping my friend out with her date and she dont wanna eat in front of the guy!... So why are women scard to do soo? And I don't want the guy too think she is a fake.

2007-05-15 19:22:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-15 19:19:35 · 25 answers · asked by elly B 1

2007-05-15 19:18:59 · 5 answers · asked by VeZz 1

He had the guts to come up and talk to me at a club. We where going to meet up one night and it never happened, there was a miscommunication in between messages, he messaged me and I wasn’t sure whether I was meant to call back, thought that men are meant to do all the calling. I really like him; I’m just confused with this hard to get business. How do I let him know that I’m interested? How do I get him to ask me out on a date again? I know that he was interested in me. Is it right for me to call him? I still don't know what to do. I’m 23 and never had a boyfriend. Should I just call him, or does that make me sound desperate? He called me once at 12:30 at night. Also at 3:00am (I was asleep) while he was at a club with his mates, he was looking for me. I am so confused. He hardly calls just messages. Should I just forget him? If a guy was interested in a girl, would he be calling her everyday, and to set up a date? I know that I wont bump into him for another two weeks.

2007-05-15 19:17:59 · 15 answers · asked by Glamourous_Girl 5

I am suppose to be getting married soon. We already got our marriage license. But I still do not know if I am ready. How do I talk to him about my animosity towards him that I have kept battled up inside from our past arguements? When I do try to have a good conversation about things he gets really defensive and angry (even though he says that we have good communication...yea right). Do you think that animosity in a relationship can be worked through? I find myself not being the best girlfriend to him because of all of my pint up feelings but then I feel as though he would get too angry if I talk to him and nothing will get settled.

2007-05-15 19:14:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous 3

does anyone wear their toe rings on the pinky toe?

2007-05-15 19:11:21 · 8 answers · asked by john s 1

I was talking with a girl the other day, she said she was getting a pedicure from some asian woman, and when the woman got to a spot on her calf it made her buckle over and damn near orgasm. I am not aware of any spot like this, but obviously would like to know if any women have this spot and could tell me where? :tries to wipe sinister look off face:

2007-05-15 19:08:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I still dont get it-->when u tell someone you're a virgin and you're saving yourself for marriage--> why do people get curious and someone dislikes them (us)??

i mean, what's a big deal?.....why does guy dislike girls who are virgin?...isn't that kind of stupid?

i need guys to tell me why they wont date virgins...wut's wrong with us?.....i believe there's nothing

and is it all because most guys are 'horny' and wants 'to score!"?

that's absurd...


nice answers plz!

2007-05-15 19:03:30 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just wanna know you hear so many different things.

2007-05-15 18:51:21 · 21 answers · asked by Allie 2

My college art professor seriously gigged my work today. He made me almost redo everything. I left early last class and during class this guy who is now just a friend was trying to play footsie with me.This guy is distracting me big time from doing things.I don't want to pizz the guy off cuz he owes me money.Should I tell my teacher?

2007-05-15 18:32:06 · 15 answers · asked by primamaria04 5

2007-05-15 18:17:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

has anyone accidently stepped into anything really gross while barefoot?

2007-05-15 18:03:33 · 10 answers · asked by john s 1

OK this is a big night, with a hot girl. what kind of booze is best to impress? I was thinking patron, or maybe a bottle of crystal? Any other suggestions?

2007-05-15 17:41:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-15 17:39:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend threw me out a window last night, disembowled my dog and threw an axe at my forehead durr what should I do??? What is up with these questions? As if you should need to ask what to do?

2007-05-15 17:33:24 · 6 answers · asked by ME 3

so, i was at the grocery store earlier today and while i was waiting in line to pay, this extremely gorgeous guy came up and stood in line behind me, he kept looking at me up and down and smiling, i just said hey and left it at that. he helped me take the grocerys out of my cart and was just super cool. i did embarass myself pretty good by doing something super lame but he just smiled and laughed. then when i was walking out, he said see ya and kinda of kept staring at me as i walked to my car. ive seen him around town before and we always seem to cath eachothers eye. how should i strike up conversation with him if i see him again? i dont want to sound like an idiot ya know? because if hes not really feelin what i am then it might be odd.

2007-05-15 17:23:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have my reasons but I am to lazy right now to type them out.

2007-05-15 17:15:25 · 16 answers · asked by un-winable war 4

Ok here goes before I really flip out! My bf and I have been dating for almost 2 years. 2 years before he met me, he dated this girl for almost a year. She cheated on him, and he still put up with it until they eventually broke up. She started dating the guy she cheated with, they got engaged, married and shes had a baby within the past year. They are NOT friends, as he was still stuck on her until we met. He blocked her myspace, ignores her calls and texts/emails, but the BI*CH wont get the hint. Now, she has the nerve to send him pics of herslef and her baby..I want to say something to her or write back, but he told me know and to let him deal with it. I need advice cause i am tired of her standing in the way of him trying to get over her (he is over her, but emails and calls dont help, they make him mad too) what do i do???

2007-05-15 17:04:27 · 27 answers · asked by HlpMePlz 2

was wondering if women like giving snowballs to guys... and doooo guys mind getting them? if so was it planned or a surprise?

2007-05-15 17:01:27 · 8 answers · asked by ready_when_u_r 1

So i like this boy, and he lkes me. But he asked me how far i would go with him if we were going out, and i was like it depends, and he was like well that is not good and i was like wat does that mean? After that he said he didnt want a prude girlfriend. I told him I didnt want to be his girlfriend if he just wanted action from me and didnt lke me, but then he said : why would i be asking you all these qusetions if i didnt like you and wasnt thinking about going out with you? He a girl I know that he likes me, how do i know if he just wants action or really likes me? help me please<33

2007-05-15 16:45:00 · 20 answers · asked by blondiieex3 1