so, i was at the grocery store earlier today and while i was waiting in line to pay, this extremely gorgeous guy came up and stood in line behind me, he kept looking at me up and down and smiling, i just said hey and left it at that. he helped me take the grocerys out of my cart and was just super cool. i did embarass myself pretty good by doing something super lame but he just smiled and laughed. then when i was walking out, he said see ya and kinda of kept staring at me as i walked to my car. ive seen him around town before and we always seem to cath eachothers eye. how should i strike up conversation with him if i see him again? i dont want to sound like an idiot ya know? because if hes not really feelin what i am then it might be odd.
2007-05-15 17:23:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him if he likes cheese...jk
just be yourself
2007-05-15 17:29:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he seems to be looking at you often, the next time you see him around town, say just that; "Hey, we seem to keep running into each other, so I figured I might as well introduce myself, "My name is..., How are you?" And see where the conversation goes from there. That gives him the opening to indicate his interest, etc. or what he might be thinking and then you'll know either way if he seems interested. No harm, no foul, no embarassment. :) Good luck!
2007-05-16 00:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by annecsabagh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, since he's the dude, he should start the conversation, but thats traditionally. You can start off with something like, hey, back again? if your in the grocery store or can u believe the price on this blank. Something just to start a casual conversation and see where it goes from there.
2007-05-16 00:28:43 · answer #3 · answered by azdairy1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, there's no point in acting differently then you do on a normal basis, don't worry too much about it, if he likes you he likes you if not then his loss ;p just catch up with him again and strike up casual conversation, it's not that hard to say hi to someone and get a convo going, you won't know how things will turn out until you do so ;p
2007-05-16 00:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by diamond694ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you see him, just go up and thank him for the help in the grocery store, and offer to buy him a cup of coffee as a thank you gesture.
From there, you are on your own. Good Luck.
2007-05-16 00:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what guys do all the time ..... act like the reason you keep looking at him is cuz you think you know him from somewhere. Go up to him and say "I'm sorry, but you just look so familiar .... did we go to school together or something, or do I know you from somewhere" then you can proceed to ask him questions like where he went to school or where he's lived, etc etc ... that way you can even get to know more about him! JUST GO FOR IT. don't let things pass you by in life! GOOD LUCK! :)
2007-05-16 00:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get the nerve and talk to him. You will never know what he thinks or feels if you dont get to know him. Just start talking about the weather or something like that ( what i do when i get nervous) and go from there. The conversation should pick up. Good luck with him. Get him girl!
2007-05-16 00:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by COUNTRY GIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you see him give him the international "So, would you like to go get a coffee?" His anser will tell you all you need to know. If he gives and eager sure, your in. If he hesitates, he has a prior engagement or a significant other.
Either way, no harm no fowl.
good luck
2007-05-16 00:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by apothis sharp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, next time u see him, thank him again for helping u out with groceries and then say that u'd like to return the favor and ask him to grab a coffe or something to eat. as much as u told me, i think he's gonna say "ya" to watever u'r gonna ask him to do. i mean, with coffee or lunch or dinner. not anything else YET. anyways goodluck
2007-05-16 00:35:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
starting conversation depends on what your doing. if you want you could even bring up a topic as lame as the weather. just ask him any questions. or if you are very confident girl ask him to coffee or something.
good luck
2007-05-16 00:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say something like ' you know i we seem to bump into each other alot. You wanna get some coffee?' its sort of lame but trust me its very effective, it worked for me once a long time ago. oh and flirt your way through it.
2007-05-16 00:28:18 · answer #11 · answered by M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋