So i like this boy, and he lkes me. But he asked me how far i would go with him if we were going out, and i was like it depends, and he was like well that is not good and i was like wat does that mean? After that he said he didnt want a prude girlfriend. I told him I didnt want to be his girlfriend if he just wanted action from me and didnt lke me, but then he said : why would i be asking you all these qusetions if i didnt like you and wasnt thinking about going out with you? He a girl I know that he likes me, how do i know if he just wants action or really likes me? help me please<33
2007-05-15 16:45:00 · 20 answers · asked by blondiieex3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie, he doesn't want a girlfriend at all; he just wants to get laid. He's asking you these questions to find out how easy you are--and to find out how easy you are to push around. Stay away from him and look for someone who respects you.
2007-05-15 16:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by Alice K 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Okay this is up to you, do you care more about him really trying to get into your pants, or about him "just" liking you? Or would you rather find someone that doesn't think about just "action".
Those guys exists you know.
Guys can like you without having to talk or do that stuff all the time. If that's all he talks about or one of the first main points he's trying to say. Don't date him, he's only going to use you for pleasure for 3 months or more until you find out his true purpose.
Do you want a guy to like and care about you and your feelings? Or a guy that wants you to give him "pleasure fun" and liking you, but is offended or annoyed by the fact you won't go too far which is the main subject or problem here.
Forget that guy, find someone else that "really" cares about you. Don't date him because he and you are desperate, and can't get anyone else for the moment. You WILL regret it.
2007-05-15 16:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by Zi-Shu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow first off if he asked that question HE IS ONLY LOOKING TO GET LAID, PERIOD. Any guy that really likes a girl and isn't only in it for the action would never ask that. Based on what little you told us, I am disgusted, and actually not surprised to hear this. I assume you are still in school, probably high school. Save your sexuality for a time later in life, when you are able to make these decisions for yourself. Someone needs to control these kids these days!!!!!!!
2007-05-15 16:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u never know how far you could go with a person if unless u go out with him/her it all depends on the atmosphere anround you and the romantic feeling which comes along so I guess ur answer was right. but u never knw hat a guy has realin mind unless u try to bring it out out from his heart thas the only way u can extract the truth out of him so try beeing a bit lineant towards him and try to figure out if he realy likes yuor is just in for the action if loves you thn he will love you for everything you are.
2007-05-15 16:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by Gyanguru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's looking for some easy action, not a girlfriend. If he's not willing to give you some time to get into the relationshp before pondering those questions, then run away fast.
2007-05-15 16:50:17 · answer #5 · answered by TeDiouS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like all he wants from you is sex/oral sex. Don't even waste your precious time on him. It's obvious he just wants you for one thing, and one thing only. Move onto another guy who will TREAT you right and want to be with you for who you are, not what you will do to him the minute you start going out.
Good luck..most guys I've ever known are *****. Good guys are veryyy very VERY hard to come by.
2007-05-15 16:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's only one way. WAITING
if he will wait and not pressure you than it really doesnt matter if action goes on or not. But if everyday he is asking if your ready now than after the action you wont likely be seeing him anymore.
2007-05-15 16:49:49 · answer #7 · answered by Torri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'd have to think about why he'd be asking you these personal questions. respect for your values and morals should not allow him to ask you this.
If he wants an easy girlfriend, do not let his attention go to your head and think its you he likes. Boys like girls. If he worries about how you feel then he'll be thinking more about you, not as an object.
2007-05-15 18:08:00 · answer #8 · answered by almondsarenuts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he basically just told you,he dosent want a prude girlfriend, how far are you willing to go, think about it, he want something from you, save your self forsome one thta you really love and they love you back, let them put a diamond on that pretty hand of yours, you are beautiful and can do better, dont give it up to him ,you are in the right state of mind,
dont lose it
2007-05-15 17:06:48 · answer #9 · answered by cleanheart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably does like you, but he likes the action more...He'll find another girl when he needs, and get over you real quick. Don't waste your time or the goods!
2007-05-15 16:50:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋