I just wanna know you hear so many different things.
2007-05-15 18:51:21 · 21 answers · asked by Allie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys often say they want to be with a virgin but from my experience, guys want to be with a woman who knows what she is doing. Having sex with a woman who is timid, self-conscious and passive is just a recipe for bad sex. Think of it from a woman's perspective. Would you want to be with a guy who didn't know what he was doing? What is the turn on there?
2007-05-15 18:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by Stephen B 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
personally, I think guys who are virgin's will naturally prefer a girl with the same status, simply because it makes the guy feel more comfortable, because the girl has nothing she's comparing him to. As for myself, and other guys who aren't, I think most of us prefer girls with experience because:
1. The sex is way better
2. Girls with experience typically don't have the same emotional issues as girls who are virgins when it comes to breaking up.
At least, most of the decent guys do. There are a lot of jerks who just want to "score" by landing a virgin, and then typically dumping them later. it's a sucky thing to do, but it happens.
2007-05-15 18:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by The Raven 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Virgins are better, because they show self respect and dignity by remaining "pure" while waiting for the man they will marry. Experienced girls have been around the block sometimes way too much, and come with emotional baggage that isn't easily repaired if ever. The children can also be a problem with some guys.
2007-05-15 18:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would say that if you are in for great sex, perhaps girls with experience can be better. But if you are in to just enjoy your time together for love making, then it doesn't really matter whether it's with a virgin or one who has experience.
2007-05-15 18:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by Vianney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer a girl with experience, but that does not mean I would kick a virgin out of bed.
2007-05-15 21:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by Tyler R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO VIRGINS!!! Its soo hard to "love" a girl and then put her through the pain of her first time, it rips my heart out...also you get that clingy attachment of "he's the first guy I had sex with, and I love him, and were going to be togeather forever"
I like girls with experience because they know what there doing, they kno if your good or bad (its hard to gague if your good or bad because girls will fake it) and overall they are alot more laid back than the virgins
2007-05-15 18:56:25 · answer #6 · answered by Seth G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sound harsh, but virgins often lack some relationship experience... Girls with experience can also have issues, but they aren't as naive.
2007-05-15 19:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To guy it doesn't really matter. Most will prefer a virgin because it makes them feel special that she chose him to deflower her and they can brag to their buddies, but in the final analysis guys are happy just to be getting some!!
2007-05-15 18:59:52 · answer #8 · answered by KoolaidChemist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends.
Personally, having experienced a couple of virgins, I gotta go with the experienced woman.
One caveat, virgin on virgin not so hot, but virgin plus experienced teacher best combo.
2007-05-15 18:56:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It don't matter. As long as I love the girl and she loves me back. If I had to say something, though, a virgin because I know she hasn't had sex with anyone else.
2007-05-15 18:56:12 · answer #10 · answered by RuThLeSs 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋